Uncle picked up the video of the child and talked to Kan Kan.

On August 29th, 2009, Yu Xia and Yolanda finally ended their 10 long-distance love and entered the marriage hall.

But just before the wedding, Yu Xia said to Yolanda:

Yolanda was shocked to hear this. Although he didn't understand this, he still knew the real reason why Yu Xia did it.

But yolanda didn't do that, but let Yu Xia completely dismissed the idea:

However, with the repeated support of Yolanda, finally, parents, uncles and aunts came to the wedding scene.

But when she finally thanked her after marriage, Yu Xia only summed up her gratitude to her parents in one sentence.

But it takes a few minutes to express your feelings for your uncle and aunt, and you will choke when you are deep.

This makes people wonder:

Why is Yu Xia so indifferent to his biological parents, but he transfers his love to his uncle and aunt?

Has the relationship between Yu Xia and his parents eased? How is it eased?

Of course, all this has to start from the beginning.

1976, Yu Xia was born in a family of three. His birth made the whole family happy.

My father Xia is an actor of Qingdao Repertory Theatre and an artist, while my mother is an employee of a department store.

Originally, a family of three lived a dull and warm life until Yu Xia was 3 years old, and everything changed.

Because of their incompatible personalities, their parents chose to end their marriage and their mother remarried, so Yu Xia lived with his father.

But my father is a man obsessed with Chinese painting. He is busy with work outside all day, so he seldom takes care of Xiao Xia.

Until one time, my father quit his job in the drama troupe for his dream and went to Beijing to learn painting from his teacher.

Therefore, Yu Xia was sent to her aunt's house in the country by her father to live with her aunt and uncle.

My aunt is a gynecologist and my uncle is a people's teacher, but despite their busy work, they still take care of Yu Xia.

My aunt and uncle have a daughter who is more than one year older than Yu Xia. I thought my aunt would prefer her children.

But it doesn't, and sometimes it is even more eccentric to summer rain. There is delicious food for the first time, let Xia Yu eat first.

Whenever Yu Xia cried to find his father to go home, menstruation always hugged him and said to him:

Having said that, my aunt and uncle's love for Xia can't be compared with my father's love for my mother.

When I arrived in Xiafu, Beijing, I had only 50 yuan left because I didn't have a stable income.

In order to survive and learn painting, Xia Fu borrowed money to open a small restaurant in partnership with his friends.

But these two inexperienced people have not been in business for a long time, and they have been losing money because of poor management.

As the saying goes, a true friend is a good friend. Yes, when you are in trouble, you will be stabbed in the back.

The partner secretly transferred the restaurant and left with the transfer fee and the remaining meager income.

That all the debt collectors went to Xiafu. In desperation, Xia Fu can only be scared every day and hide from Tibet.

The most embarrassing thing is that Xia Fu lived in an abandoned culvert for half a month.

At that time, Xia Fu didn't mention how hard life was, and naturally he didn't have the energy to visit his son.

Xia Yu at this time, naturally, was unaware of it. In his mind, he just decided that his father was not with him.

At that time, Yu Xia wrote to his father almost every day. Although he is young, he already knows the feeling of "relying on others".

Sometimes I cry in the dead of night with my cat in my arms, which is very pitiful.

As the saying goes, every child longs for family and parents.

Yu Xia will ask his aunt from time to time when his father will come to see him and come back.

But menstruation doesn't know, so he can only be fobbed off for various reasons. Over time, Yu Xia won't ask.

Maybe I think my brother owes Yu Xia something, so every time my aunt will be doubly good to Xia.

Time can precipitate affection, and it can also dilute affection. Yu Xia only met his father four times in five years.

As time went on, Yu Xia's impression of his parents became less and less, and his concept of family became more and more vague.

I'm afraid I have formed the idea that Uncle menstruation is my biological parents.

People around you will pity Yu Xia, which hurts young Yu Xia.

Therefore, Yu Xia had a natural inferiority complex and a strong lack of self-confidence since he was a child.

1990, Xia Fu finally came back to visit his son. At this time, Yu Xia has been in junior high school.

When I grew up, Adam's apple appeared, and even the once immature voice became mature.

Looking at the familiar but unfamiliar son, Xia Fu felt sad and suddenly burst into tears.

Xia's father didn't want to be with Xia, but the helpless reality made people involuntarily.

When the time came 1993, Yu Xia's fate changed inadvertently.

At that time, the film Sunny Days directed by Jiang Wen was looking for a leading actor, and one of the requirements was to look like him.

So, seeing the news, Xia Fu thought it was a good opportunity and took Yu Xia to the set.

After a series of selections, Yu Xia was finally selected and officially entered the entertainment circle.

With Sunny Days, Yu Xia won the Venice Film Festival, the Golden Horse Award and the Best Actor at the Singapore International Film Festival.

That year, Yu Xia was only 17 years old. It is no exaggeration to describe it as the peak of his debut. He also embarked on the road of acting.

1995, Xia Fu went abroad for an internship alone in order to learn painting techniques better.

It was also in this year that Yu Xia was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama as he wished, and at the same time he met the love of his life.

From 65438 to 0996, Yolanda was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama and became the junior of Yu Xia.

In constant contact, the two had a crush on each other, but neither of them broke enough paper.

It wasn't until 1999 that Yu Xia summoned up the courage to confess, and the two formally confirmed their love relationship.

It seems that under the nourishment of love, Yu Xia and Yolanda encouraged and promoted each other and made progress in their careers.

Yu Xia had appeared in the West Mirror, when flowers blossomed and the police made an appointment. ......

He won the "Golden Rooster Award for Best Actor", and his acting skills have also made a qualitative leap, and natural film appointments are also constant.

Yolanda has also appeared in the films Fantasy in Spring, Blue Love and Beautiful Feet. .....

She won the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actress and became the youngest judge in the history of the Golden Rooster Award.

At the same time, Xia Fu, who was far away from home, finally realized his dream and became a famous painter.

But it seems that in Xia's heart, her father's figure has gradually disappeared, from the initial yearning to the present dispensable.

Instead, I devoted all my energy to my career and love. Not only did I shoot many excellent works,

Yolanda is very loving. They are like the "golden couple" in the entertainment circle, which is a perfect match.

Although they were on and off during their love, an affair broke out, but at least their feelings can be reconciled.

In 2009, Yu Xia and Yolanda finally went through all kinds of hardships, ended their long-distance love run of 10 and entered the marriage hall.

So the first act appeared, but fortunately, yolanda insisted on persuading Yu Xia.

Finally, my parents and my aunt and uncle attended the wedding and witnessed their love.

However, at the wedding, Yu Xia's attitude towards his aunt, uncle, mother and father was quite different.

When they face their uncles and aunts, they are talking and laughing and fighting. They look more like a family.

When you face your parents, you will always be respectful, and you will always be polite.

This made Xia, as a father, feel very unhappy, but he also knew in his heart that,

Leaving Yu Xia for so many years has brought him irreparable harm, so he doesn't blame Yu Xia.

After the marriage, Yu Xia became an out-and-out crazy person who doted on his wife. He was very fond of Yolanda, and both of them kept a low profile.

Yu Xia has never forgotten the kindness of her aunt's family in raising her, and always wants to repay her.

In 20 10, gallstones broke out in menstruation, and the pain kept him awake all night.

Yu Xia, who got the news, drove back to his hometown overnight and took his aunt to a hospital in Beijing for treatment.

Fortunately, the operation was successful and my aunt recovered quickly, but Yu Xia was very upset.

So I have always insisted that my aunt stay in her home for a period of time.

In the next few years, Yu Xia will transfer the living expenses to her aunt's bank card on time every month.

Every New Year's Day, Yu Xia is also the first to visit home and buy them supplements and clothes.

On the other hand, on mom and dad's side, it is slightly unsatisfactory.

It was also on 20 10 that Yolanda and I ushered in the crystallization of love and gave birth to "Xia Haha".

Perhaps Yu Xia, who was unhappy in her childhood, named her daughter "Haha". I hope she will be happy since childhood.

The birth of "Xia Haha" is the greatest happiness for Yu Xia and Yolanda, and also the greatest surprise for Xia Fu and Natsume.

So my parents also rushed to Yu Xia and Yolanda's home at the first time to take care of their lives.

From Yolanda's birth to the full moon, Natsume has been taking care of her daily life, but she has little communication with Yu Xia.

After her mother left, Yu Xia also quietly converted the gift her mother gave her into money and deposited it in her account.

Xia Fu is also very enthusiastic about his granddaughter, and has been chanting: "How can I become a grandfather without knowing it?"

He bought new clothes for his granddaughter and recited poems to her. In front of her, Xia Fu is like a naughty child.

But at this point, Yu Xia still can't cross the hurdle in his heart, and he is still respectful.

Sometimes Xia Fu is invited to hold an art exhibition in Beijing and wants to ease the relationship with his son, so he wants to live in his home.

But in the evening, Yu Xia left luggage belt's father in a hotel and explained:

When Xia Fu heard this, he knew that the child was telling the truth and had good intentions, but he always felt bad in his heart.

Yu Xia always shuts his father out, and the knot in his heart can't be untied. After all, it will hurt people and hurt themselves.

Yolanda, as his wife, always knew that the relationship between Yu Xia and his parents could not last forever.

So Yolanda decided to let Yu Xia calm down and untie the knot.

But how can we easily solve the grievances accumulated and tied in our hearts for so many years?

After all, it's easier to tie a knot than to untie it.

As a peacemaker between father and son, Yolanda naturally left father and son alone for the first time.

Knowing that Xia Fu likes his granddaughter, he stepped aside and let them get along as father and daughter.

In this way, Xia Fu and Yu Xia are closely linked, and Yolanda often talks about the advantages of her father-in-law in Xia's ear.

On the other side, Xia Fu naturally understands the good intentions of his daughter-in-law Yolanda and is also quite cooperative.

Once, Yu Xia took part in a skiing competition. Because the skateboard landed unevenly, it rolled more than 20 meters and was seriously injured.

Hearing the news, yolanda and Xia Fu rushed to the hospital. Xia Fu also left his glasses in the taxi because he was too anxious.

When they arrived at the hospital, they were relieved to hear the doctor say that Yu Xia was only suffering from a muscle strain and would recover after half a month's rest.

In the evening, Xia Fu said to yolanda:

There seems to be a different tacit understanding between Yolanda and Xia Fu. In this way, Xia Fu took the escort bed and was admitted to the hospital.

When he was in the hospital, Xia Fu massaged his son every two hours according to the doctor's advice.

They also began to talk all night, Yu Xia said all the grievances for so many years, and said and cried:

Hearing this, Xia Fu immediately panicked. He didn't know how to explain it to his son because he had a hard time in those years.

Isn't Xia Fu's experience an untouchable pain in his heart?

However, Xia Fu didn't tell Yu Xia too much, but said:

Of course, Yu Xia didn't want his father to worry about himself, so he nodded and assured his father that he wouldn't worry about him any more.

Perhaps at this time, Yu Xia already knew that his father's life was not easy, and he never reported good news but not bad news.

He seems to understand at this moment, where there is a world where parents don't love their children, they just need it.

Two strangers have been together for a long time, and they can have feelings for a long time, not to mention the father-son relationship where blood is thicker than water.

Finally, after being together for such a long time, Yu Xia completely understood his father.

After becoming a father, when Yu Xia was busy with his work, he always missed his children.

At this time, he also understood his father's situation and inner entanglement better.

Yu Xia couldn't help feeling sour nose. He can imagine what kind of life a lonely old man in his sixties is living abroad.

In 20 12, Xia Fu was 65 years old, so he told his son that he wanted to go back to China and live with them.

Yu Xia was very happy to hear this, of course. He also thought of this, so he helped Xia Fu and Yolanda find a house in Beijing.

After living together, Xia Fu not only carefully framed his most satisfactory paintings and hung them outside Xia's study,

I often go to the seafood market dozens of kilometers away from home to buy food, and go home to cook some delicious food that I have eaten abroad.

Yu Xia and Yolanda will ask their fathers to go to bed early and get up early every day, give up smoking and sometimes exercise together.

Later, Yu Xia also bought an apartment for his father in his own community, so that his father could enjoy his old age.

Of course, Yu Xia never forgot his aunt and uncle, but always did his filial piety.

My aunt and uncle have lived in their hometown all their lives, so naturally they don't want to move to big cities.

So, Yu Xia redecorated my aunt's and uncle's home and installed heating.

Worried about what's wrong with Uncle menstruation, I always take them to the hospital for a physical examination once every six months.

After so many years, Yu Xia finally untied the knot of so many years.

Parents, aunts and uncles occupy the same position in their hearts. They are all the closest people in Yu Xia's life.

And Yu Xia also gave his filial piety to the two elderly people equally, which was really kind.

Of course, behind all this, his wife Yolanda is indispensable.

Yu Xia is 45 years old today. He has a career, love and affection, which can be described as a winner in life.

Finally, I wish several old people good health, Yolanda and marriage happiness, and Xia Haha can grow up happily.