What should I do with my husband's private money? What does he mean by hiding private money?

At present, most families are generally women in charge of money, so there is the concept of men hiding private money. So, what should I do if I find my husband hiding private money? Let's have a look.

What if my husband hides private money?

1 directly "confiscated" the hidden money

We say that if a person secretly hides a small vault in a place, he will be fine without being found. If you find it, it depends on the amount. If it is small, let him continue to hide here. Take it away if it's big, so men are sometimes dumb and can't tell how bad Huanglian is!

Don't keep your husband's money too tight.

You should know that the property at home is shared by husband and wife, so don't be too stingy when your husband trusts you and gives you all the money for safekeeping and disposal. Because sometimes both sides will have some extra rewards, it would be unkind to confiscate them at this time.

Take the initiative to supplement his expenses when you are free.

Whether men or women, sometimes there are some social activities. In other words, there are some normal social activities. If you invite people to dinner or spend some other things at this time, you will be looked down upon if you have no emergency money in your pocket. Therefore, women should think of these and make up men's money in time, so there is no need to hide private money.

What does it mean for husband to hide private money?

First, the man's family is difficult and needs his support; I don't want to talk to my wife all the time; I have to do this to avoid family conflicts.

Second, the man is generous before marriage and easy to make friends; Hospitality has always been very large; Suddenly cut off contact with friends after marriage; Afraid of losing friendship between friends; Be laughed at and looked down upon.

Third, due to the fierce competition in modern society, in order to get a better future, leaders send gifts to leaders who don't care, and money is not enough; No way, I usually hide some money in Tibet.

Fourth, he is a playboy, a worthless man, hiding private money and having fun outside behind his wife's back.

How to test whether the husband has hidden private money?

If you don't know whether the other party has hidden private money, you might as well try it out. For example, I confiscated your hidden money! Or use a little threat, if you don't say it, we will divorce. If your husband loves you, he will usually compromise. But don't go too far.

The purpose of husband's hiding private money

1 Satisfy personal hobbies

Some hobbies of men are always not recognized by women, especially some women who have become wives. If they don't understand, just veto it. As long as men have money, they generally don't care too much about how much their women spend. Some people will be proud of it. As long as she can feel happy, men will choose to shut up and not interfere. Women, on the other hand, often do everything by themselves, sometimes just because of their own preferences and impose on others, while men's real hobbies are often ignored or banned by women. Therefore, men choose to save private money to satisfy their personal hobbies, which is also a way for men to relax in their own happiness. There are some things that men don't need to share with women.

2. Take care of the needs of family members

A good man with a sense of responsibility must also be the kind of man who has the ability and habit to take care of his family. In addition to wives and children, parents and siblings are also included. In men's eyes, these people are equally important The better a man is, the more considerate he will be to his family, which is also a concrete manifestation of his personal ability.

However, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem, so some men will quietly deal with some problems and needs of their parents and families by saving private money in this respect, so that both sides can be balanced and quiet.

Used for friends to communicate.

Once there was a man who was very unmanly and said, "Friends are like brothers, and women are like clothes". There is no man who regards this as a "classic", but the result must be naked. The so-called friends burst into laughter. Only he knows whether it is cold or not.

No one can deny that while taking responsibility, we can't do without loneliness and helplessness. Just as women need girlfriends, men also need someone to accompany them for a drink at some special moments, even if it's just silence.

Surprise his wife and children.

Many men in life will do this, leaving most of their income to their wives, and the rest, of course, includes creating happy surprises for their wives and children.

Even if love comes and goes, even if it can't last forever, we never think that there is no true feelings in the world, and there is no good man's shoulders and chest. Even just coming here is enough to make us happy again in introspection.