Talk about backbone

To manage a happy marriage, men and women, because of their different natures, should take their positions, perform their duties and go their own ways.

Men have been required to stand tall and straight since ancient times; Require women to be gentle and virtuous. Therefore, men in a family shoulder great responsibilities like the backbone, and women are the center of gravity, maintaining the stability and harmony of the family.

The times are progressing, and men and women in the new era should also keep pace with the times.

It is not easy for men to understand women's difficulties, and women should also understand men's difficulties. This era demands too much of men.

This sentence fully illustrates the requirements of the times for men's economic ability. This is a good era, the material level is getting higher and higher, and people's quality of life is getting higher and higher. However, people's desires are endless, and women's demands on men are getting higher and higher. Material satisfaction will require spiritual satisfaction.

The responsibility on men's shoulders is getting heavier and heavier. At work, they are under pressure from all directions, old and young, and are still worried about whether they will be dismissed without pay at any time. They are very tired, and they really want someone to shoulder the heavy responsibility with him.

If the backyard is still on fire at this time, the woman at home still doesn't understand, and every time she goes home, she will complain that she doesn't care about children, the elderly, the family and so on. If this man doesn't want to stay in such an environment for a moment, he may feel suffocated and he will be scarred.

Smart women don't do that. She will be her husband's crutch so that he can rely on his own heart when he is tired. She may know the nature of her husband's work in private and can make suggestions when he is in trouble.

In life, when her husband comes back from work, she is either complaining or wordy. Instead, prepare his favorite food in advance to welcome him home, and when he comes back, he will say something that will reassure him, not something that will make him stressed.

For example, I called my parents today, and they are all fine. Don't worry. The children did very well at school today, and the teacher praised them in front of me ... Wait, you don't have to worry about these things at home. I can solve them. Don't worry, just work with peace of mind.

When my husband hears this, no matter how much sadness in my heart, it will disappear, and my wife will arrange everything in the family in an orderly way. He can spend all his thoughts on his work, so that his husband can easily and happily fight every day. Day after day, year after year, his work is getting better and better, his salary is getting higher and higher, and his family's life is getting better and better.

This is Wang Fu's woman.

However, some women still live in a woman's world. She doesn't understand men. The requirement for a man is no longer to support his family, but to treat her like she did at the beginning all her life. At first, he thought of taking her shopping for dinner and watching her favorite movies after work ... everything was centered on her, and such a man was too tired.

As long as a man doesn't do what he asks, he will make an account and say that the man has changed. ...

Let's put ourselves in others' shoes. When we first buy a mobile phone, we will care for it like a baby. If we put it in a bag, we are afraid of scratching it. If we hold it in our hands, we are afraid of leaving it somewhere accidentally. Later, we just put it in the bag, regardless of whether there were toothpicks, keys or other sharp things in the bag that scratched the phone.

This is the same as living.

Life is very simple. Even the rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are all day and night, with men and women. A harmonious family that understands and gains.