You will forgive your husband eventually, but your parents can't forgive your son-in-law easily.

there is no doubt about this.

Little girl is a simple girl at home. Before she got married, her mother and daughter talked about everything, and even things at work were poured into her mother.

On one occasion, the little girl was wronged at work, and her mother felt sorry for her daughter. She called the leader for the little girl and said indignantly that it was too bullying and too much.

At that time, the little girl felt that all the grievances in this world could be comforted by her mother.

of course, in the end, the leader also intervened in the investigation and comforted the little girl.

As daughters, everyone has experienced the warmth of her family. Your mother's home is a place where you hug no matter how bad it is.

Later, the chick got married.

The husband is a very considerate man. Since the beginning of love, the chick has reported his tenderness and thoughtfulness to her family without missing anything.

Although the parents didn't recognize each other's family and were worried that the little girl would be wronged, they finally agreed to get married out of the boy's sincerity.

The little girl got her wish and married her beloved.

as everyone knows, my daughter is happy to get married, but my parents can't let go of it.

After marriage has faded from the aura of love, there is only one place left.

Boys are true love, but they also have a certain temperament.

after a long time, chickens fly and dogs jump.

The boy is tired of the little girl's princess temper and gets angry easily.

The chick thinks that the boy is bored because he doesn't love her as much as before.

when all girls are wronged by their husbands, they will have the impulse to go back to their parents' home, and so will little girls. So, every three to five, the married chick complained to her mother in various ways.

naturally, mother can't see the little girl being wronged, and she scolds and resents with the little girl.

When the little girl has finished complaining, her anger is gone. When she comes home, the boy loves her after all. As soon as she is nice, it's time to be gentle and affectionate.

As for the little girl's mother, the next time she sees her son-in-law, she can always think of her tears, and she can no longer be sincere and attentive to her son-in-law.

until one day, the chick finally realized that everyone's behavior needs to bear the corresponding consequences. All the pains complained to my mother will eventually turn into a sword and stab her beloved husband.

As a woman, you will forgive your husband eventually, but your parents can't forgive your son-in-law easily.

at the dinner party that day, a friend at the table had an argument with the little girl's husband because of an academic problem, and they were at loggerheads.

When everyone was listening to their debate, they were caught off guard. The little girl's father, a silent man in life, suddenly stood up and pointed to his son-in-law, the little girl's husband, accusing him of ignorance in public, and his words were full of blame.

when the father-in-law scolds his son-in-law, every sentence is accurate and crucial, and the son-in-law can't refute it. Any sentence is harmful to his wife, the man's daughter. One mistake is everywhere.

In the persuasion of everyone and the surprise of the little girl, the boy was defeated, sent the daughter of the man who just scolded him home, and left without saying a word.

The little girl was sitting alone in the dark room, and suddenly she was filled with panic.

the first reaction is to call mom.

mom, why did dad talk about him like that? Is this a family? How can you talk about your son-in-law for outsiders? Dad really went too far.

Mom is still a mother who cares about her daughter. Every sentence is that your father is wrong. I have already said that he is. Don't cry. Mom calls him (the boy).

Dad is still the father who loves his daughter silently, full of regrets, and has been apologizing to his son-in-law by phone.

All parents are kind to their son-in-law because they want this man to give all this back to their daughter. All parents are dissatisfied with their son-in-law because they think that his son-in-law makes their daughter unhappy. Every parent's anger and compromise are for their children.

The boy disappeared for several hours, and his cell phone was turned off.

At two o'clock in the morning, the little girl heard the sound of the door lock in the darkness. Sleepless, she immediately rushed out, hugged her husband and choked, saying, Your phone is off, and everyone can't find you. I thought you would scold you for not wanting me because of your father.

The boy smiled and said, I just went out to be quiet.

at that moment, the chick suddenly realized that the uncertainty in her father's accusations that day was all her subconscious uncertainty about her husband. Through the mother, I connected my love for my daughter to my father.

family! The little girl suddenly realized what a family is and what a family is.

I just found out that a daughter can make one person forgive another, and it can also make two people hate one person. Yourself is the key figure in today's farce.

The boy loves chicks. Although he lost face and was defeated, he chose to forgive the man.

Parents love chicks. Although it is beneath their dignity to apologize, they choose to put down their airs.

but, again.

Because parents love little girls, they will turn their bitter words into a sword. Once things happen, they will stab their son-in-law because of their love for their daughter, and it will be bright red.

You are eager to care for your daughter. All your complaints to your family subconsciously locate your husband to your parents. One day, they will subconsciously show disapproval and uncertainty to your husband, and these negative attitudes will in turn affect your love for your husband, which will circulate and worsen each other.

Not all women are as lucky as chicks to meet men who love him so much. Not all women are as rational as chicks and can realize the problem at a critical moment. Not all parents will indulge their daughters because of love and put down their bodies to apologize. If one link goes wrong, the marriage will fall apart.

I have a friend. Let's call her Xiao Tong for the time being.

Xiao Tong's family is well-off, and he is tempted after knowing a boy, who is sunny and handsome, and the boy is also familiar to the author.

when getting married, the boy's family invited the media to come over and ask for a dowry, and the number was not small. Xiao Tong really wanted to marry, but she was resentful. She questioned whether the boy wanted money or people, so she said to her mother that she was not bad in all aspects. She wanted so much dowry, so she wouldn't look after money instead of people.

this idea doesn't matter. Xiao Tong's mother, like a head-on, struck a thunder and woke up the dreamer in one word.

marry immediately instead of wealth.

after marriage, all the people in the boy's family are in contact with each other, and the girl's mother will always insist: don't talk to me about money, and my daughter will give it only when she is good.

However, once the boy is a little better, he thinks that the other person is greedy for money, and keeps telling his daughter: Your husband just wants money. You look at this thing and you look at that thing ...

Over time, Xiao Tong also begins to think that her husband is nice to her for money. When he meets something, he asks her if you want it again. When quarreling, he tells her that you treat me badly, and my parents won't give you anything ...

The boy began to realize that the woman's parents seemed to have great money at home, and they used to spoil his daughter for her parents' money. But no matter how poor a man is, you can't tolerate that the other person is purely greedy. Most people have to find a noble reason for being greedy, and they can't tolerate being found and accused, not to mention the husband, Xiao Tong, who shows too clearly that even if he is really greedy, he feels insulted and unhappy.

The parents are unhappy, giving their son-in-law a look, encouraging their daughter to make a plan, while the son-in-law is unhappy, giving his wife a look, and the wife is unhappy, and giving feedback to her parents, trying to win the favor by putting pressure on her husband through her family.

vicious circle.

I finally entered a house, but I couldn't get along with a family.

The final result is that marriage is broken and divorce ends.

Later, the boy remarried, and the woman was a small white-collar worker. They got a stable salary and lived in peace.

Xiao Tong said, is marrying such an ordinary woman a declaration of war to me that she is not greedy for money at all? Why do you want so many colorful gifts when you marry me, but not for this woman?

because you have money, she doesn't. It's not a problem whether your parents give money or not, but it's not kind to doubt his sincerity and unite with your parents to put pressure on him and insult him even if you don't give a dime.

Xiao Tong said, I didn't doubt his sincerity, but he married someone else.

You once doubted and put doubts in your parents' hearts. After all, you only wanted him to love you, but you let your parents destroy his love because they loved you.

we are all the same, daughters and wives. It is natural for a father to love a child, and the blood pulse comes with unconditional love, while love in marriage needs to be managed, tolerant and kind to each other.

The Bible says: Two people leave their parents and become one.

As a daughter, you don't realize that you and your husband have been a family since they fell in love and got married, but your parents are just your husband's nominal family, just like you are to your in-laws.

Therefore, all your unhappiness in marriage will forgive each other because you are a family, but your parents, because they love you, can't easily forgive each other for hurting you.

remember, you will forgive your husband eventually, but your parents can't forgive his son-in-law easily. As parents, all love for son-in-law comes from the happiness of daughter.

All your happiness will eventually turn into a halo, which will be worn on your beloved husband's head, and you will smile more brightly because of her halo.