As you struggle through society and go through many vicissitudes of life, what do you most want to tell your children? Why?

Building bridges and roads will make you blind, but you will kill and set fire to many children!

1. Don’t be a good person. The so-called good person is just that others want you to be a good person, and then they can take advantage of you and bully you at any time.

2. You must be aggressive, and you must be able to restrain yourself and keep your edge. Show it when you should, and hide it when you shouldn't.

3. Eat well at all times, eat first and then work, so that you can work well.

4. Don’t waste time. No matter what happens, it should be done sooner rather than later.

5. Follow the policy, and the early stage of the policy’s introduction will definitely be profitable.

6. Don’t take the initiative to help others unless they ask you.

7. Borrowing money must be for emergencies rather than poverty.

As an old man, I would like to tell my descendants some life experiences:

1. Don’t be afraid of hardship and hardship when you are young. Enjoying too much when you are young is not necessarily a good thing. If young people don’t work hard, old people will have to endure hardships;

2. Develop the habit of lifelong learning. Don’t overwhelm yourself with art, it’s always useful to learn more. It’s never too late to learn;

3. Be kind to your parents and family, truly care about you, love you, and never leave you. They are the only ones who never give up;

4. Friends are very important, but you cannot rely on others, you still have to fight for everything by yourself;

5. Accumulating wealth is not as important as accumulating health;

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6. It is very important to learn to deal with people and things. There are all kinds of people, and anything can happen. The university of society will never graduate;

7. There are always several hurdles in life. At that time, you may feel that you can’t stand it anymore, so you grit your teeth. I just stepped over it, and in hindsight it was just a shallow pit. Life is better than anything else.

8. Don’t give up easily, maybe you will succeed if you work harder.

1. Make money, make money, make money;

2. Be bold, careful and thick-skinned, eat meat and drink and make friends;

3. When you When you are thinking wildly, stop immediately and don’t do anything;

4. Don’t think that complimenting you is good, or it may be flattering you;

5. You You have to be bright enough to be talented;

6. Review the test frequently and learn lessons. You can find the answer in all your previous experiences;

7. When you When you don't do anything, a good temper is cowardice, and you need to be tough;

8. Only by learning to be a grandson can you be a master;

9. Things you have never done before, for you They are all meaningful and worth learning;

10. Have the courage to break your status quo and make more efforts while you are young;

11. Accept reality, give up illusions, and work hard ;

12. Don’t be so busy that you don’t even have time to think, otherwise you will soon deviate from the main road;

13. Accept every individual that exists and learn to tolerate;

14. Don’t regret what happened, which will only increase your worries, such as after masturbating;

15. Develop your own leadership and have a heart to be a leader;

There are three more sentences that I have always remembered:

1. Only your parents sincerely treat you well and wish you well;

2. From now on It’s never too late to start;

3. Think before you act.

I hope it can be helpful to you,

You have to work hard to live, and you have to work harder if you want to live decently.

I have struggled in society, gone through many vicissitudes, and survived a narrow escape. I will always remind my children not to follow my old path,

Because society is a country that has gone through several times in human history. The rivers and lakes wharf is full of confusion and has been gradually formed over thousands of years.

We live in this society where good and evil are intertwined, intrigues, the weak and the strong, unpredictable and full of temptations and confusion.

It is not easy to earn a place in society and gain a foothold.

You must take care of yourself, arm yourself, and do your best.

Parents are their children’s first teachers, and their children’s development is inseparable from the education of their parents.

It can be said that whether a child is successful or not, six points come from his parents and four points depend on society.

Parents not only provide subtle education, but also serve as lifelong missionaries to their children.

As the saying goes: It is the fault of the father to raise but not to teach, and it is the fault of the teacher to fail to teach strictly.

Parents hope that their children will succeed, stand out, and honor their ancestors. This is the greatest expectation of parents in the world.

As parents, we have struggled in society and experienced many vicissitudes of life. Our lives are unsatisfactory and our dreams in life have not come true.

The only hope is transferred to the children, and they devote themselves wholeheartedly to cultivating the children, hoping that the children will not make the same mistakes as their parents.

Every family has a different family tradition. Although the genes passed down by blood are different, the children they cultivate will naturally be very different.

Let me talk about how I cultivate and educate my children.

A person's growth is inseparable from these stages, namely: early childhood - growth stage, maturity stage - decline stage.

1. Early childhood: The process of a child’s body growing from being a stranger to recognizing family and society.

During this period, we must do our best to provide a good living and growing environment, so that children can learn to be thrifty from an early age on the premise that they can eat well.

Teach your children not to be picky about food, not to compare, to play happily, to learn to be polite to others, and to respect their elders and peers.

2. Growth period: This is a critical period for children to gradually learn from social cognition to initially adapt to the social environment, learn knowledge, accumulate skills, and form life values.

During this period, you should tell your children to work hard to learn knowledge, study hard and make progress every day.

At the same time, on the premise of ensuring physical health, we must do our best to learn knowledge and master skills in case they are not needed.

At the same time, tell children to correctly handle family and friendship relationships, distinguish right from wrong, and establish good values ??in life.

3. Maturity period: It is the heyday of life when people enter society, display their talents, start a family and start a business, practice and fulfill their obligations and responsibilities, and realize their dreams in life.

During this period, the children all had lofty ideals and ambitions, and had the potential to do anything.

Children enter society for the first time and do not know the intricate environment of society.

We need to tell the children that society is complex and people’s hearts are unpredictable, so be careful and protect yourself.

Tell the children to remember to be steady, accurate and ruthless.

Stability: Step into society steadily, find your footing, and gradually adapt to society.

Accurate: Accurately judge and choose the industry behavior that suits you, tailor it to your needs, and do your best.

Ruthless: Use the knowledge and skills you have mastered. Don’t enter the industry with enthusiasm. Find the right intervention point. The sequence should be gradual. Express what should be expressed and restrain what should be restrained. Don’t hide it and don’t force it. Dew, choose the opportunity to act.

At the same time, as parents, we must impart to our children the lessons and experiences we have learned through hard work and vicissitudes in society without reservation, so as to prevent children from taking detours and repeating the same mistakes.

At the same time, tell the children to take care of themselves. Good health is the greatest capital in life. Pay and return are not always directly proportional. It is a common thing in life to work hard without success.

When dealing with anything, adjust your mentality, do not ask for anything, do not force it, and stop in moderation.

Tell the children that it is not easy to build a family, and it is even more difficult to run a family well. It requires husband and wife to work together, support the old and the young, and walk side by side.

4. Recession period, this is the most helpless period in life.

The best time in life is childhood, and the most helpless time is decline.

During this period, you will reap what you sow, and you will reap the fruits of all your early efforts.

The sunset is infinitely beautiful, but it is almost dusk. In this rare period, tell the children about your gains and losses in the early stage, and do your best to help the children bring up the next generation.

Take on the role of family tradition missionary and pass on the experiences and lessons learned as parents and good family living habits to the next generation of children.

In summary, we have gone through many vicissitudes of life in society. What do we want to tell our children the most? Why?

Tell the children about my successes and failures in life, so that the children can learn lessons, avoid detours, and not repeat the same mistakes, and let the children stand on my shoulders and reach a higher level. building.

Now in his thirties, the child is over two years old. Looking back, I experienced a lot of ups and downs in the first half of my life. I failed the college entrance examination and went out to work early. I worked for three months and felt that my future was bleak. So I enrolled in a junior college through supplementary admission. After two months of studying and not learning anything, I decided to sign up to join the army. After serving as a soldier for two years, he failed to make any achievements, so he was discharged and returned to his hometown. I had no skills, so when I entered the factory or workshop, I was disgraced and had no choice but to compromise and become a security guard. I was not willing to work as a security guard for the rest of my life, so I quit my job, took a driver's license test, and prepared to work in transportation. However, bad luck happened. His driver's license was reported, and the examination room was moved. After studying for a year, he failed to take the examination. Finally, by chance, I and my comrades were admitted to the Political and Legal Police Service, and became a police officer, which was considered a success! What I want to tell my children most is: Reading is not the only way out, but it is the best way out!

Knowledge changes destiny, this is an eternal truth!

If I get the top spot in the college entrance examination, I can be admitted to a prestigious university. I will not work part-time, study in a useless college, or go to the army to work hard and endure hardships. I will enjoy a free and wonderful university life on the university campus.

If I can learn knowledge well, I can be admitted to the military academy in the army, and I will not be discharged from the army and return to my hometown, nor will I work as a security guard; I will become an officer, and even if I cannot become a general, I will still be a soldier after I change my career. civil servant.

If I had gone to college, I would not have gone to the workshop or worked as a security guard when I entered the factory. I would have made materials in the office and used air conditioning, without being exposed to wind, sun or rain.

If I had gone to college, I would not have gone to the grassroots level, there would not have been endless overtime classes, endless nights, and endless police dispatches; Supervision, going to the countryside for inspections, writing materials, listening to reports, the future is bright. The hardships we endure and the misfortunes we encounter now were all accumulated while studying.

If you can’t endure the hardship of studying, you must suffer the hardship of life!

If you skip school when you are studying, you have to work overtime when you are working; if you sleep during class, you have to stay up late when you are working.

Studying is indeed very hard, and there is no end to the sea of ??learning. However, if we can endure the hardship of studying, many years later, we will enjoy the wonderful life brought by studying.

Among those jobs that work from 9 to 5, take weekends off, and take paid vacations, some do not require highly educated people, and some do not require high-level intellectuals.

As the saying goes, good and evil will be rewarded in the end; I also feel that the consequences of pain and happiness must have a cause. It really fulfills the saying that if a young man doesn’t work hard, he will be miserable!

Maybe it is difficult for college students to find jobs nowadays, but aren’t those college students who can’t find jobs the same people who are ignorant and ignorant in college? Conclusion: Knowledge is not everything, but nothing is impossible without knowledge. Knowledge may not necessarily make us prosperous, but it will definitely make our future broader, let us go easier and further!

Focus on policy work,

Advocate morality and do good,

Work down-to-earth.

Think more when you encounter problems, there are always more solutions than difficulties.

Because "If a young man does not work hard, the old man will be miserable."

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My personal ideals are different, because in my own era, I did not try my best to change my destiny, did not get higher education, and lived in a low-income society. Despite all the hard work and difficulties, they never changed the education of their children. From childhood to academic success and graduate school, they taught Yuyu that learning books and knowledge is the best way to change her destiny. Wei You is knowledgeable and can change everything. The global village is knowledge and technology. All descendants of China should work harder to study and successfully become pillars of the country and contribute to the development of society. This is the most beautiful career in life and the most meaningful life.

Touch. Fighting hard, going through vicissitudes of life, working hard to survive, children, come on!

Fighting hard and going through vicissitudes of life in society is not as simple as these eight words. There are sixty professions, and the profession you choose is the one you choose. In terms of fame and success, the profession you choose will have to bear the price. There is a battle of wits in the officialdom, and there are people in society who use various means to fight. . There are high curtains, and there are low actions. In short, the strong will eat the weak, which is an inseparable law of man and nature.