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The best way to think about problems is

It's my turn What should I do?

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If,

You have the courage to change the world.

Why not start by changing yourself!

Because it is difficult to change the world,

And changing yourself is simple!

When you change,

The world in your eyes has also changed.

If you want to change the world,

The first thing you need to change is yourself.

Because it is painful to change others,

But changing yourself is the beginning of happiness.

When the heart changes, the attitude changes.

Attitudes have changed and habits have changed.

When habits change, life will change!

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It's okay to be alone,

As long as you love someone from the bottom of your heart,

Life will be saved.

-Haruki Murakami

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Life is better to look down than to see through it. Good things and bad things will eventually become the past, and what I don't like is just turning around silently; Learn to be indifferent to what you can't let go; Learn to let go of the heart that cannot be bypassed. Learn to be silent and indifferent, go with the times, be yourself, and watch the flowers bloom before the court.

A beautiful day begins with "looking down"!

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Analysis of psychological problems 20 1904 14 How to make children more calm when facing pressure?

First, maintain a stable, caring and supportive relationship with at least one adult.

For example, for adults, there is at least one good friend. For children, if this person is not a father or a mother, he is at least a grandparent.

Second, I have a sense of mastery of my living environment, that is, the living environment is relatively harmonious and stable.

Third, have strong self-discipline and execution ability.

Fourth, it is supported by beliefs or cultural traditions.

Many studies have found that children's brain development depends on interaction with adults. Without this stable relationship, the structure of children's brains can't get the best development.

When the baby is crying, if you give him appropriate responses in time, such as eye contact, verbal comfort, hugs, etc., it will stimulate oxytocin in the child, make the child feel safe and happy, and establish positive neural connections in the brain.

Active interaction with children can stimulate oxytocin in children, produce a sense of security and happiness, and shape the neural structure of the brain.

In fact, the child is crying and making noise, which may be due to physiological reasons, or it may be that he feels pressure and doesn't know how to express it. He cried because he wanted to calm down and be quiet.

Therefore, in the face of a child who loses his temper, no matter how sad we are, we should deal with it in a positive way, and always focus on pursuing positive results instead of obsessing about the child's mistakes, so that the child can always feel the love of his parents.

Let children have a sense of control over their living environment.

Try to maintain a sense of order at home, such as establishing a clear and stable family schedule, getting up at what time every day, eating at what time, and reading together at what time every night. Children know when and what will happen. This regular routine will first make them feel at ease.

This process can involve children and make plans with them, such as daily plans, shopping lists, and lists of rules to follow when going out to eat, and train children's planning ability by listening and watching.

For example, when a college classmate is on a business trip abroad, she will tell the child in advance when I will call her every day. At the same time, she will also get to know her children with people around her, so that when chatting with her children, they will find that although her mother is far away, she knows her like the back of her hand and adults have been caring about her.

This sense of security is a buffer and protection for children when they encounter difficulties.

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Pierce Theorem: Knowing ignorance is the beginning of knowing.

The greatest wisdom is to see your ignorance.

In a temple in Athens, ancient Greece, there was an Oracle that Socrates was the smartest man in the world. Socrates said, "The only thing I know is that I know nothing."

Socrates is the cleverest man in the world because he is aware of his ignorance. The greatest wisdom in the world is to be aware of your ignorance.

There is never a shortage of conceited people in this world. What is lacking is people who really realize their ignorance.

The smarter a person is, the more he can see his ignorance. A person who thinks he knows everything is often a person who really knows nothing.

Confucius, a great thinker in ancient China, once said, "In a threesome, there must be a teacher." Think about it, Confucius himself is a teacher and a wise man, but he doesn't think he knows everything. Instead, I humbly think that I still have a lot of things I don't know, and there will definitely be my own teacher among the people I meet.

Moreover, Confucius also said that we should "have a clear conscience" and realize that our ignorance is the starting point of progress. To make real progress, we must make up our ignorance by asking questions without shame.

Everyone knows that Confucius received many apprentices in his life, but he didn't know that he also worshipped many teachers. As long as he has questions that he doesn't understand, he immediately asks others for advice.

Perhaps, it is the ignorance of oneself and the spirit of not being ashamed to ask questions that made Confucius.

So did Lincoln, a very successful president in American history. Lincoln's father was an illiterate carpenter and his mother was a mediocre housewife.

Lincoln, on the other hand, has an extraordinary style of writing and a strong ability to handle affairs and manage. What is even more surprising is that he has been in school for less than a year in his life.

Then how did he acquire those knowledge and abilities? It turned out that Lincoln could see his ignorance from an early age, and he could learn a lot from it, whether he was a farmer, a businessman, a lawyer or a rural Confucian scholar.

He said, "Everyone can be my teacher." It was this attitude that enabled him to accumulate knowledge, improve his ability and eventually become the president of the United States.

People should be modest. True modesty is the true attitude revealed by realizing one's ignorance after analyzing oneself clearly, rather than ostensibly putting on airs.

Only a truly modest person can get sincere advice from others and help him correct his shortcomings.

There is no end to learning, and no one knows everything. Realizing your ignorance is not a shameful thing, but a prerequisite for improving yourself to make up for it.

No matter what your life pursuit and ambition are, you must do yourself well before you can realize it. In other words, only by being yourself can you realize your life pursuit and ambition.

There is an old saying: "cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country and level the world." Putting self-cultivation at the forefront is because it is the premise and foundation of the following items. Only by practicing your body first can you achieve the goal of managing the country and leveling the world.

Self-cultivation. What? The first is to realize your own shortcomings, and then constantly improve yourself; Realize your ignorance and fill in the blanks.

How to fix it? Is to keep introspection. Only by continuous self-reflection can we realize our ignorance and shortcomings. The same is true of prudence and independence.

It is often said that it is never too old to learn and there is no end to learning. Don't let arrogance stop you from moving forward. There is another sentence: "Great wisdom is foolish."

People with great wisdom are never self-righteous, but show their ignorance everywhere. They can realize their ignorance, treat others modestly and are not ashamed to ask questions.

Laozi said, "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise."

Sun Tzu's Art of War said: "Know yourself and know yourself, and you will be invincible." It is the same truth: people should know how to see themselves clearly, and they are self-aware.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a period of political chaos and weak troops. As one of the "five tyrants", they thought it was a good opportunity to attack Yue, so they sent troops to crusade against Yue.

At this moment, a man named Du Zi came to dissuade him. He asked Chu Zhuangwang, "What is the purpose of your king's attack on Yue?" Chu Zhuangwang replied: "Because Vietnam is now politically chaotic and weak!" Du Zi said meaningfully: "A person's wisdom is like a person's eyes. He can see far, but he can't see his eyelashes.

Since the army of the King of Chu was defeated by the State of Qin, the State of Chu has lost a lot of land, which is a weak force. Some people rebel at home, but officials can't stop them. This is political chaos.

Now the situation of weak soldiers and political chaos in Chu is comparable to that in Yue, and you have to send troops to attack Yue. Can't you see your own shortcomings? "After hearing this, he immediately canceled the plan to attack Yue.

Many people, like Chu Zhuangwang, only see the shortcomings of others, but can't see their own shortcomings. This is very dangerous. People who don't know are likely to die in the war and fail in life and work.

There was a crow. He saw that the eagle always caught sheep to eat, and he also had wings, a sharp mouth and claws, so he thought he would catch sheep to eat. However, when it pounced on the sheep, it not only failed to catch the sheep, but also was stabbed to death by the horn.

It is not difficult to see that this crow made a mistake that he didn't even know. He didn't clearly realize the difference between himself and an eagle. He just took it for granted that he could do what the eagle could do, and lost his life in vain.

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Sometimes life is like a mirror. If you smile, it will make you simple and ordinary. If you frown, it will make you helpless. Life can't be all right, and life won't be smooth sailing. After experiencing it, you will understand that life and money are infinite, but life is limited. No matter what you say or do in life, there will always be people who hate you, but so what, you are not RMB, how can anyone like you? Cherish those who stay and bid farewell to those who leave. Everything is optimistic and life is much simpler. Life is victory, health is the purpose, and happiness is the essence!

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When women miss the person they want to marry most, they will become more and more picky.

Men will become more and more casual when they miss the person they want to marry most.

Picky because no one is as good as you.

Whatever, because it's not you. ?

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Mercedes-Benz oil spill comedy

1 joint marketing ~

Durex: Shake it casually without leaking oil;

Mercedes; The stage for one person is on the hood, and the stage for two people is in the back row.

2 woo article

If you can afford Mercedes-Benz, you will have money, and there will be oil leakage.

3-stick gun

Be a man with a conscience. To tell the truth, Mercedes-Benz has never cheated us poor people!

4 popular articles

Hu: Even if you run from the 4s shop to "vision china", we guarantee that you won't miss a drop!

5 public welfare articles ~ Persuade to learn

It's a woman crying in Mercedes-Benz and a female college student crying in BMW. Study hard and make progress every day!

Six new propaganda articles

How to run without leaking oil ! !

7 jokes ~ test true and false

Drive to see your mother-in-law. Mother-in-law: Did your car leak oil?

Me: no oil leakage; Mother-in-law: How can it not leak? !

Then you buy a fake Mercedes; Me: ...

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How to learn English in wholesale mode? Over the years, I have been thinking about one thing: how to learn English in the "wholesale mode"? That is to study how to improve the comprehensive ability of English listening, speaking, reading and writing in an all-round way.

Let's talk about memorizing words that plague countless people first. How to recite words? Some people translate Chinese characters into jingles, some people say that they use image memorization, and some people advocate what super memory is ... To put it bluntly, these methods are irrelevant and not universal. Too much is a mess, and a big piece is forgotten.

So what is the most reliable and effective way to recite words? The answer is: etymology, there is no second one! Etymology is the study of how a word comes from. The radical is equivalent to the radical of Chinese characters, and has similar meaning or connection with the root word.

Such as salary [? s？ l？ r？ [Salary] The word salary is homologous to salt, both of which come from the root sal, meaning "salt". Modern people think that "salary" and "salt" cannot be combined, but in ancient Rome, salt is a relatively expensive means of subsistence. The money paid by the government to Roman soldiers is nominally "salt money" for soldiers. Over time, salary has become synonymous with "salary". The same root words are salary (salt money), salt, salt and salad (vegetables soaked in salt water). Remembering words like this, one by one, is not easy to forget? !

It can be seen that to learn English well, we must open our minds and try our best to draw inferences through association. Let me give another example of memorizing words. When you see crop, most people only think of the noun (n. crops), but it can also be used as a verb (V. Harvest, cut hair, cut photos); Even horses that eat leaves and cows that eat grass are crops. From "crops" to "harvesting" to "cutting hair" and "cows eating grass", have you found the connection between them? Grasping this connection is equivalent to pulling the cow's nose and pulling up the fishing net, and then sketching and sketching. Grasping the relationship between things is essentially to establish network thinking in the brain, trigger associative memory, connect isolated things, and then it is not easy to forget.

Similarly, under the guidance of the principle of "draw inferences from one instance, draw inferences from another instance", you can learn not only British pronunciation, but also American pronunciation. This seems to be a huge project. As long as you master the pronunciation of R, O, A and T, you can change English sounds and American sounds at will.

The wholesale mode of learning English is also applicable to the learning of English grammar, listening, speaking, reading and writing, and can also be extended to the learning of other skills such as speech. As the saying goes, everything is regular, and what we are afraid of is the will. I believe. (Geng Renjian)