Almost all rural children are brought up by their grandmothers. Why are their parents going?

Most children in rural areas are brought up by grandparents. Is it a lack of fatherly love and maternal love? Does it matter?

Due to the needs of life, it is difficult for farmers to survive on this least land. You have to go out to work to support your family, so the children are brought up by grandparents. Grandparents have the following shortcomings in taking care of their children. Now let me say:

First, the lack of parents and the lack of parental love do great psychological harm to children. Parents are not around, they can't teach by example, and they can't always encourage and motivate their children to make progress. There are no rules and boundaries in speaking and doing things! Do whatever you want. Children should not criticize their mistakes, but should be educated to correct them. Over time, children will lose self-confidence and lose their way.

Second, grandparents spoil their children too much, which will make them have poor self-control, big mood swings, selfish, wronged, unloving and unable to understand other people's difficulties. Eating is not bitter, being afraid of suffering and being tired, and not taking responsibility can't be a big deal. In the rebellious period, I can't control him!

Third, grandparents in rural areas can't educate children with low academic qualifications, and most elderly people in rural areas have no academic qualifications. Or the education level is low, and it is impossible to supervise and manage children. Children can't be guided to learn, and their self-control ability is poor. Left unchecked, it will harm children and gradually develop a bad habit, or even a more serious problem.

Fourth, children are the crystallization of our love and our greatest hope. As long as you can take care of your child as much as possible, no matter how difficult it is, try not to miss the child's growth process, so that you won't regret it later. If not, you will find it is too late to communicate with your children. It is too late. Times are changing, so are our ideas. You can't make money. Attach importance to children's companionship and education. More important than making money. We should attach importance to children's companionship, psychological education and shaping children's self-confidence. This raised a very good child. It is very important and worthwhile for a family.