Choose to be a soldier or fall in love.

You are not sure about your love, so let him be a soldier! Because you are not sure if you can love him forever! If he stays with you and you leave him in the end, that's not the biggest harm and loss to him! In that case, you might as well let him be a soldier. He won't have any real feelings in the barracks! So he can only have you in his heart! And if you don't love him because he left, it also shows that your love is not mature enough. Sooner or later, something will go wrong! So if I were you, I would let him join the army! Then wait for him! It may be sad without him around! But you can turn this love into the motivation of your work!

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