Tell me about the feeling of being depressed and aggrieved by reality.

1. Don’t disrespect every enthusiasm and don’t please any indifference. Once you have accumulated enough disappointment, you can leave and never see each other again. Love is like this, friendship is like this.

2. Maybe you have taken many wrong paths in your life, misjudged many wrong people, endured many betrayals, and been in dire straits, but it doesn’t matter. As long as you are alive, there is always hope for the rest of your life. It’s long, so why panic.

3. Life is always full of surprises. May those bad "accidents" be just false alarms, and those good things you have been looking forward to always come as scheduled.

4. The good things stay in the bottom of my heart; the regrets disperse with the wind. Live in the moment, do it and cherish it. Be a brave person and learn to bear every slap that fate gives you.

5. Fortunately, happiness cannot be bought, otherwise I would have gone bankrupt if I bought it; fortunately, sadness cannot be sold, otherwise I would be as rich as the country now.

6. You must take good care of yourself. If you don’t work hard, no one will grow for you. Don’t choose comfort when you are at the age where you should strive. You must have the ability to live a good life for yourself. Not tied down, not attached, it will definitely move people.

7. Kindness and love are free, but they are not cheap. Your kindness needs to be a little sharp, and your love needs to have some sense and eyes to recognize people. After all, not everyone can Worth having them.

8. If I treated you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you would have left me long ago. So, regardless of family, friendship, or love, if you look at everything from another angle, if you were me, you might not be as generous as me!

9. Be the truest and most beautiful version of yourself, follow your heart, don’t look back, don’t look around, and don’t care what others say. Those who are not as good as you will only talk about you; those who are better than you will be busy on their way and will not even look at you. If you give up, you shouldn't regret it. If you lose it, you shouldn’t remember it. Let go of what you need to let go of, and quit the drama that has no ending.

10. Don’t please those who don’t love you; don’t bother those who don’t want you; don’t bother those who don’t love you; don’t remember those who don’t like you. For the rest of your life, love yourself well, don't waste your life, and don't owe others.

11. The harder you try to please someone, the more likely that person will make you feel heartbroken. Expectation is the root of all heartache. If the heart does not move, there will be no pain.

12. You can see many people clearly, but you can’t expose them at will; you hate many people, but you can’t turn your back on them easily. Sometimes, life just wants to force you to be submissive and unfazed by favors and disgrace.

13. Look past many things. There is nothing you cannot do without, and there is nothing you cannot lose. Those who are willing to stay should get along well with each other and trust each other; those who want to leave, wave their hands and say sorry, and we will not send you far away.

14. There are always a few people who never talk about anything but have nothing to say; they care so much that they no longer contact them. For some people, some things just pass. You can't stop drinking water just because the cup you drank from broke.

15. A good figure means that you are self-disciplined in your words and a good temperament, which means that you are self-disciplined in cultivating your mind. Good popularity means that you are self-disciplined in time, physical strength, mental effort, and many other aspects. Only with self-discipline can you meet a better self.

16. One day your edges will be smoothed by the world, you will pull out the thorns on your body, you will learn to smile at people you hate, and you will become a calm person. .

17. Life is not easy. There is no need to crave for the understanding and recognition of others in everything. Live your own life quietly. If the heart does not move, the wind will not do anything. If you are not injured, the years will be fine. If you don't read about the world, how can you understand the four words of vicissitudes of life? If you don't watch hundreds of beautiful flowers blooming, how can you know the prosperity and glitz. Only through experience can you understand.

18. In fact, there are many people you cannot keep. In the end, you will find that there are fewer and fewer people around you. Where is the distance and where is the time. Everyone is growing and changing. Time makes us more and more silent. No matter how many friendships there are, in the end only likes are left.

19. Promise yourself, love yourself, promise yourself not to live for others, promise yourself not to care about unnecessary people and things. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and consequences. Don't forget the past, but let it go. Because there is tomorrow, today is always just the starting line.

20. Don’t always wrong yourself just to accommodate others. There are few people in this world who are worthy of you always bending down. If you bend over for a long time, people will only get used to your low posture, and your posture will not be important.

21. If I treat you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you have left long ago. Regardless of family, friendship, or love, if you change the angle of everything, if you are me, you may not have me. Generous.

22. May you remember your preciousness and resist malice when you are hit; may you firmly believe in your preciousness when you are confused, love what you love, do what you do, and obey you. The heart does not ask about the west or the east.

23. The beginning of the story is always like this. It happens at the right time and is caught off guard. The ending of the story is always like this, two flowers bloom, separated by the sky.

24. You are the beauty of the world, I am a lonely pursuit, I am a gallery without fate, I can’t see your scenery, I can’t see your rainbow, I still look at the familiar sunny day with rain, Watching the strange bridge drip with blood. Talk about your mood with realistic insights

1. The first condition for self-love is to eat a good meal first, sleep well, and strengthen your body first without asking for any reason. No matter what happens, be kind to yourself. Suhei

2. Never regret anything, because it was once what you wanted. Regret is useless, either forget it or work hard.

3. You never need to be grateful to those who have hurt you. Even if you do become stronger because of those things, it is not the credit of the person who stabbed you. The person who makes you better is yourself. It is you who did not give up on yourself after being injured. It has nothing to do with the person who hurt you.

4. If you don’t have any deep hatred for yourself, I suggest you stay away from the person who makes you sad, stay away from the things that make you painful, and then be a kind person to yourself. Xu Lingzi

5. It is said that if you like someone too much, you will become timid. It makes the careless people become cautious, and makes the most fearless people start to tremble.

6. No matter how much you love, don’t humble yourself to please someone who doesn’t love you; no matter how much you hate, don’t slander someone who has been close to you behind your back.

7. This is the best age in your life. You are in good health, your loved ones are safe, and you are stable in this world. It's a pity that you don't realize that because of the smallest things, your mood will be messed up.

8. Time always saves the best people until the end. After all, like is like a gust of wind, but love is like a steady stream.

9. If you are happy, you will stay, if you are disgusted, you will leave. If you say anything more, you will seek. If you have different paths, you should not seek each other.

10. Use your best self to treat the person you love most, instead of using your worst self to test whether the other person loves you.

11. Friendship is the same as the fragrance of flowers. It is better to be lighter. The lighter the fragrance, the more attached it is and the longer it lasts. "Giving Happiness" by Xi Murong

12. Whether a person is worth your whole life to like does not depend on how good he can be to you, but how well he treats you when he is in a bad mood. How bad.

13. You have negative energy all day long and feel that you are not good at anything. You spend all your time fantasizing, but people who started from the same starting line as you have integrated into a better circle, do more and complain less. In fact, Bad emotions are like garbage, throw it away when it needs to be thrown away. Don't overly pursue useless things. Happiness is given to yourself. If you have a correct attitude, nothing will make you feel depressed.

14. Everyone has a story in their heart. If they cannot tell it, they can only let it be told to them late at night. In fact, many stories do not need to be told to everyone, just treat them as a memory, sad but also beautiful. People always have to wake up at some point.

15. At this age, the state I want is to meet elegance without deliberately being elegant.

16. When the weather gets cold, you need to make more money, because winter clothes are more expensive than summer clothes.

17. Only when you are at your lowest will you know who is the idiot who is worried about you and who is the bastard who is a stranger to you.

18. Perhaps, we will have one day after all: holding someone else's hand and forgetting who they were.

19. Destiny is that no matter how we come back, we will still love and separate without hesitation. But I appreciate this arrangement. I long to see you, but I know clearly that our meeting only makes sense if you also want to see me.

20. After looking at the sea for a long time, I want to see people; after seeing too many people, I want to see the sea. Haruki Murakami

21. There is no need to stand at the age of 50 and regret the life of 30 years old, and there is no need to stand at the age of 30 and regret the love of 17 years old. Many things cannot be judged solely by the results. At every stage of life, there are difficulties that are difficult to get rid of. As long as you put in your due efforts, there is nothing to regret. We cannot criticize ourselves from our later heights. This is unfair. Funan

22. Life has ups and downs, and the circumstances are different. When we meet again, some people are in the mountains and some are in the troughs. All that can be described are trivial and daily life, and true loneliness is difficult to talk about. Funan

23. The longest relationship I have ever had was narcissism. I love myself and have no rival in love.

24. The Burmese sweet-scented osmanthus with raindrops makes my heart soft, not for missing people or homesickness. Wang Zengqi

25. Time is really magical, you never know how it will change you. In other words: vegetables, bitter beer, boring books, and even people that I once disliked were all unpleasant to me, but one day I fell in love with them all. Talk about realistic insights

1. There is always a danger in a life that is too busy, that is, being occupied by the excitement, gradually mistakenly thinking that excitement is life, and there is no other life outside of excitement. In the end, there is really only Lively, no life. ---Zhou Guoping

2. The long years are like a song without a name, but there are endless longings and endless laments in the song. There is too much helplessness hidden in the song, but there will always be a day when it goes away with the wind. When you open up the dusty memories, can you still clearly recognize your young face on the title page? Perhaps even we ourselves have forgotten that young face, so we did not continue to scroll down and fell asleep in the swaying time with a sigh.

3. Look out the window, if the branches are swaying gently in the wind, then the person you love is also loving you. Listen carefully, if you can hear your heartbeat, then the person you love , is also in love with you; close your eyes, if there is a smile on your lips, then the person you love is also in love with you. ---"If Love Has God's Will"

4. Leaning alone on a flower, I shed my tears secretly, and sprinkled the empty branches with traces of blood. Once the spring is gone, the beauty will grow old, and the flowers will fall and people will die without knowing it!

5. If you spend time hating the people you hate, you will have less time to love the people you like. If you spend time worrying about the things that make you unhappy, you will have less time to experience the things that make you happy. Hate, annoyance, anxiety, and sadness are all brought by others, but time is yours. So saving your own time is more important than anything else.

6. Walking with love is always accompanied by a bit of fragility and helplessness. Sometimes it is like a rainbow, colorful and fleeting, sometimes like a meteor streaking across the sky, turning around and disappearing into the vast night.

7. I can’t walk into your fairy tale, and you don’t want to walk into my story.

8. What is short is life, what is long is suffering.

9. My youth has come to an end, and I am angry about why I didn’t go with you back then. I fell in love with Xiao Lang by mistake, and what I was waiting for was that I was thinner than a yellow flower. The past is still vivid in my mind. Looking back at that forked road, whose hand are you holding? I just sigh that there are so many dreams floating around in the world of mortals.

10. I stepped lightly on the dead leaves under my feet and silently stared at the city under the neon lights. Suddenly I felt that there were some emotions in my eyes that I shouldn't have originally? care? Reluctant to give up?

11. Some roads can only be walked alone. Only you know the hardships on the road.

12. I would rather be parallel to him and never intersect, because once we intersect, we will become farther and farther apart after that point.

13. When you step on the platform and walk alone from now on, you know that I am so worried. Even though there are thousands of words in my heart, I can only stare at you deeply; I am so sad but not Ken spoke up.

14. What cannot be forgotten are memories, what continues is life, and what is missed is just passing by.

15. It feels like he is my main melody, and I am his accompanying melody.

16. I suddenly felt that I had missed a lot in the past. I don’t know if it was because I was young and ignorant at the time, or if it was just how life should be. People really become mature and vicissitudes day by day. Relatively speaking, Yesterday, that is, 24 hours ago, I believe that I have changed. Compared with the past, that is, the years of life that I have passed, I am sure that I have changed. I am completely different now.

17. Your look back and smile shattered the peaceful life.

18. Once a person is intoxicated with his own weakness, he will continue to be weak, and he will fall on the street, fall on the ground, or fall lower than the ground under the eyes of everyone. ---Milan Kundera

19. Leaving and ending or continuing are sad. When you are not used to it, you can squat down and hug yourself. That is giving yourself a hug that makes you not lonely.

20. Youth is fragile and grace is hard to get back.

21. The helpless reality has given us a helpless back. We can only go on helplessly. The helpless society has actually created many helpless souls like me. This is the helplessness. Society, sometimes we can't do anything, we can only go on...

Twenty-two, the happy ending, the indifference begins, without any reason, no reason is needed, everyone obeys silently , thin and transparent glass, separated the two worlds, no one resisted, no one escaped.

23. We once couldn't wait to step through our youth, but now we can't keep the little bits and pieces of the past.

24. How decisive this feeling is, I lie awake, in the cold moonlight, in the coolness of the autumn wind, with my long sleeves fluttering, arching my trembling body, looking up at the gray sky. Xingchen, if you were still here, maybe I wouldn’t live in such pain.

25. Capture the moment of life, try your best to retain it, but in the end it slips away like a rabbit, turning over and over in the images of my thoughts. Elegance is like quicksand, and it has aged for a period of time. So, what about my years and your years? In the blink of an eye, everything is settled in a dream, with thousands of sorrows.

26. I cannot pretend, I am not born to look like an actor. Silence is the cry of the soul, and the journey is full of thorns. Have you ever picked up my sadness? It shattered all the way.

27. Parting is a kind of medicine. It is hard to tell whether it is poison or antidote. But if you call longing for memories, you might feel better. Although this is a bit self-deceiving.

28. It turns out that I have always been a supporting role. Maybe he doesn't take me seriously at all. I'm sorry, I think too much and I am too sentimental.

29. Life is like a long journey. Whichever way you take means giving up the other way. Different life paths leave different shortcomings. Zhuge Liang has Zhuge Liang's shortcomings, and Jia Baoyu has Jia Baoyu's shortcomings. Just as there is light in the night, not only the lost youth and former dreams are buried in the shortcomings, but also many opportunities for life are hidden behind the shortcomings. A classic talk about reality perception

1. After two people have been together for a long time, they can only see each other's shortcomings, but forget that they decided to be together because they saw each other's advantages.

2. You may be working very hard, stumbling and getting injured. If you write down your grievances and complaints in your status, someone may comfort you, but they will not feel the same way. This is the world, and you can only see winners. Sweat, but you can't see the tears of the loser. You have to understand that you are not the only one who is busy. Everyone is paying silently with their own thoughts, so your injury is really nothing. Treat suffering as a gift, and always Being on the road is the scenery that never changes in your life.

3. People who are worse than you have not given up yet, and people who are better than you are still working hard. So it's up to you.

4. Live your life happily, rather than live happily.

5. You treat a person well for ninety-nine days, and when you treat him badly for the hundredth day, the whole world will think you are a bastard.

6. When you feel lonely, it’s probably not that no one is with you, but that no one understands you. I like this sentence very much: Don’t perform a life you’re not good at for an audience that doesn’t belong to you.

7. It is better to have someone stretch out a hand to wipe your tears when you fail than to have countless people reach out to applaud you when you succeed.

8. Why should you be afraid of ghosts? Those who harm you are all humans.

9. If you don’t have much ability, don’t have a big temper, otherwise you will be in trouble. If you don't have much ability, don't have too much desire, otherwise you will be in pain.

10. No one can go back to the past and start over, but anyone can start from now on and write a completely different ending.

11. You have to understand that human life is neither as good nor as bad as people think.

12. You have to be a calm adult. You are not allowed to be emotional, you are not allowed to miss me secretly, you are not allowed to look back, and live your own other life. You have to be obedient, not all fish. They all live in the same sea.

13. No matter what, a person’s depravity is always unforgivable. The more no one loves you, the more you must love yourself.

14. If you are smart, some people will say you are scheming. If you work hard, some people will say you are lucky. If you are naturally optimistic, some people will say you are hypocritical. Sometimes, you are obviously just a glass of water, but you are ignored by others. It was forced into a stomach full of suffocating carbonated drinks. You meet too many people in your life. As long as your heart is clear, you will never have to please someone who doesn't understand you.

15. If you do what others are unwilling to do today, you will be able to do what others cannot do tomorrow.