Why do ancestors say that people with these two performances are often very skilled at the wine table?

The two manifestations of the ancestors are "the villain is in the front, and the face does not change color" and "the reason does not give in". If you can have these two performances on the wine table, then this person will definitely make a difference.

As the saying goes, "if you talk too much, you will lose." No matter what way or attitude a person takes, if he doesn't pay attention to his words and deeds, he will easily be excluded or even get into trouble. "The speaker didn't mean it, but listened attentively." If the other person doesn't want to listen to what you say, it will inevitably cause unnecessary trouble for himself, especially on the wine table.

"The villain is in front, and his face doesn't change color" means that on the wine table, you know that the other person is a vengeful villain, but you just go against him, which is not good for your future life or work.

If you are as cool as a cucumber, you can laugh it off no matter what the other person says. This will not only show your ability, but also people present will admire you.

"Be reasonable and never give in" means, "Being reasonable can go all over the world, but not moving." Now there are many people and leaders who only know how to make concessions at the wine table. Everything the leader said is right. Even if they know they shouldn't do this, they should praise the leader.

And in order not to offend the leader, in order not to lose your job, you flatter others, so that you will not only get what you want, but will be looked down upon by others, not only losing yourself, but also losing the most basic bottom line of being a man.

If you can "be reasonable and not give in", you can not only keep your position, but also let leaders and others find that you are meticulous about things. Such talents are needed by society.