Tell me about when you began to realize that life is not easy.

I always feel that I am a very lucky person. I have a warm family. Sleeping at home is not too rich, but it is also full of food and clothing. Therefore, life from small to large is not bad, and I have never suffered anything until I graduated from college. Although there were some twists and turns when looking for a job, I stayed at home for several months, but I soon found a very stable job. After work, I met my colleague who took care of me. So I have never felt that life is not easy. As long as it goes with the flow, I can live every day well. But after I got married and had children, I began to realize that life was not easy. Although children will be taken care of by their parents, as mothers, sometimes they really need to do it themselves, especially a breastfeeding mother. I didn't start to live with my husband's family until I gave birth to a child, and I also went to live in harmony with them and became relatives, but I didn't know until I really got along. Sometimes, you can't be close to some people if you want to be close. Especially after work, I have to go to work during the day and take care of my children at night. I really feel like a candle burning at both ends. My mother-in-law never helps me take my children to bed, even when I have a fever. I work farther than my husband, so I get up earlier every day. After I get up, my mother-in-law will take her son to her room on the grounds that he still needs to sleep. With such obvious discrimination, I really can't treat her as my own mother. If the child is sick, I will take care of my husband alone and help my mother-in-law. Sometimes I feel really tired, but nobody can help you.