Tell me about the photos scolded by the coach.

I learned my driver's license in a driving school in Shunyi, Beijing. Driving school coaches come from nearby villages, and it is common for them to be scolded for learning to drive.

I am very good-looking. I got full marks in my subjects and practiced driving very seriously.

One day, I got up early and caught the early bus of the driving school to pick up the car. I still didn't wake up during practice because I pressed the line when I was avoiding another coach car. As a result, the coach trampled the car to death and screamed.

I was very unhappy, but I started driving again and kept driving. I'm still thinking about the scene I was scolded just now. Carelessly ran a red light again, and the coach trampled the car to death.

Maybe he felt that he had scolded me too hard just now. Instead of scolding me this time, he said to me:

"Are you still thinking about what happened just now? I'm telling you, what just happened is over. Forget it. Watch the road ahead. How can you drive a good car when you are always thinking about the past? You are too proud to let go of one thing, so forget the unhappy things and move on! There are many places that make you angry after you drive on the road by yourself. You can't drive when you are angry. "

After listening to his words, I was suddenly enlightened and suddenly felt that the coach was like a philosopher, and those swearing words were not so harsh.

Since then, the relationship with the coach has improved, the number of scolding has decreased, and the driver's license has been successfully obtained.

It has been many years since this happened. Whenever I am unhappy, I will recall the scene of that day and the coach's words, forget the unhappy things and move on.

Slowly, I will understand that nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, but there is no difference. Those unpleasant things will accumulate in our hearts. If we don't empty them in time, just like the garbage in our mobile phones, it will gradually encroach on our inner space, which will slow down the running speed and affect the later things.

Everyone wants to do things smoothly, but we know that smooth sailing is always a small probability event, and there will be some unexpected situations in every link. Therefore, unpleasant things exist objectively. What we can control is to deal with it in time, let them go quickly, let our hearts empty in time and pay more attention to the next action. Just like mobile phones cleaning up garbage, we can unload the influence of negative emotions in time.

When the garbage is emptied, the heart will be bright, the heart will be bright, the mind will be open, and the mood will be good, so you can move forward lightly and continue to cope with the new road conditions.