Behind the explosion of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves": I saw 30 different mature women's living methods!

Recently, I was watching the super-hot variety show "Braving the Wind and Waves", which was really enjoyable.

The sisters who have seen it communicate in the comment area!

I think the whole program is full of laughter, tears and slots, which can bring people moving and encouragement. Every time I watch a program, I expect to see something different from it.

For example, as mentioned in the first issue, the original intention of program planning is

"Thirty years of encouragement, without definition, eliminates the stereotype of women"

Especially this sentence:

"Every woman has been honing her life, facing gender and age, life and her own challenges."

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Daughter, mother, wife, daughter-in-law We are ourselves first.

Zhang Wei said a passage, which I find very interesting:

You ask anyone and say you have two choices.

Would you like to get married and have children, and then find a stable job? Do you still want to be a person with dreams and passion who can resist the world?

Everyone will choose the second, but everyone will live to be the first.

But the sisters in this program are either first-line actresses who have debuted for decades or artists with extraordinary singing and dancing strength. They can come to this program, which is undoubtedly the second choice and life!

Pursuing the life you want, live high, is every woman's lifelong yearning.

But most women have to sacrifice themselves for their families and children, or even quit their jobs and stay at home as full-time wives.

Of course, it's not that a stay-at-home wife is not good. If your pursuit is to be a full-time wife, you like to clean up the housework, cook and take care of the baby, and you don't have to worry about living expenses, children's education funds and your future pension, then I really envy you!

I used to fantasize that I might become a full-time wife who didn't worry about money. I cooked good food for my wife and children at home, taught my daughter all my talents wholeheartedly, and painted oil paintings and planted flowers in my spare time.

Later, I felt that this kind of life was too extravagant, because the epidemic company suffered serious losses and could not afford not only a nanny, but also an hourly worker. Just taking care of the baby, not to mention painting flowers and plants, is it difficult to eat three meals a day simply.

It's full of children's shit all day, the floor that has just been mopped is dirty, the child who has just finished drinking milk is hungry again, and the doll who has just fallen asleep wakes up again. ......

I can't help but start to look at myself. Is this life really what I want?

I think my state may be faced by most married women, but I will try my best to break this strange circle, not live for myself, at least make myself comfortable and at least have the right to pursue my ideals!

Every woman, honing her life, is faced with gender and age, life and her own challenges.

Besides the role of daughter, mother, wife and daughter-in-law, more importantly, I am myself!

So, I used the remaining money in my card to sign up as a lifelong personal education member of Teacher Luo Yu, the queen of time management, and forced myself to do a good job in time management. At the same time, I could run a company and do my own sideline.

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Your attitude is the height of your life.

This time, I was emotional.

The lyrics say: the original intention of my coming to this program is actually to surpass myself in the past. We should always compare ourselves with yesterday. Today must be better than yesterday.

That's what she said and did.

In the initial chat, when asked about the preparations for the first show, most people said modestly that they were not ready, but Lyric said that she was ready to practice at home and hoped to have a good performance.

In order to present the best effect, she didn't waste every minute.

Before the first stage, the camera swept all the young ladies under the stage, only Lyric was silently counting the beats, remembering the movements and working hard.

The first time I went on stage, there was no rehearsal for the first show, and it all depended on strength. Lyric's performance on the stage is very steady, her piano singing is very steady, and every movement is clean and energetic when dancing. Her performance amazed the audience.

Sure enough, she is a young lady who works like a line, line by line. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. If she can't win, it's god forbid.

In sharp contrast to Lyric, another young lady really just prepared casually, even if she didn't practice singing well. The song she chose is very simple, but there are still some problems in intonation, so she doesn't feel anything when singing.

The final score speaks for itself. The score of this young lady is the countdown, while Lyric, as an actress, won the first prize in the primary stage of singing and dancing, becoming the biggest group of dark horses.

The success of Lyric confirms a research achievement of Harvard University:

85% of a person's success depends on his attitude, while only 15% depends on his intelligence and information.

We all have the same attitude towards work. Some people are perfunctory, some people do their best, and some people do their best.

In today's society, competition is becoming more and more fierce. Only by doing your best, even in your spare time, can you achieve greater success.

Only by going all out can ordinary people with no background break through themselves and successfully counterattack.

No one can succeed casually. When you have no advantage, a good working attitude is your greatest capital and advantage, and also your greatest competitiveness.

Your attitude determines the height of your life.

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Women can shine at any time.

Don't be bound by age. Every woman can be radiant at any time.

No matter how old you are, don't give up your dream. I hope you can ride the wind and waves in your own field and shine.

To tell the truth, I've always been afraid that I'm 30 years old. I always feel that life will be different after the age of 30, and I will grow old slowly. At least my state is definitely not as youthful and energetic as it was in the 20 th generation.

But seeing these 30+, 40+ and 50+ sisters singing and dancing on the stage, and watching their self-confidence and hard work, I suddenly feel that it seems that getting old is nothing to be afraid of. ...

Even at the age of 30, we can keep a young mind and bravely pursue our dreams like sisters.

Because girls of every age have their own special charm. Like every girl on the show, she has her own outstanding personality.

Even Ms. Hua Du, who DISS keen to be disowned by many people, put her position aside.

She is also a 30+ successful professional woman. (

Although it doesn't look like ...)

Lehua Entertainment, which she founded, is the only large brokerage company in China that develops the whole industrial chain model of draft trainees.

Its artists include Han Geng, Li, Yibo, Meng Meiqi, Xuan Yi, Cheng Xiao, THEO, Adam, Huang, Bi Wenjun, Hu Chunyang and Jin Hanhan.

According to the girl who used rice circles, as long as she stepped into rice circles, she was doomed to escape from the "China and China world." ...

Her entrepreneurial story is very inspiring:

Born in Nanchang, Jiangxi, a very ordinary family, almost never asked for money from home since I went to college. I go to school while working. I once sold CDs in Beijing and worked as a street investigator in a consulting company. ...

After graduating from college, the probation period of the first job did not expire, and the unemployment stage lasted for half a year.

Later, when he was the public relations director and the general manager of Huayou Music in Huayou Century, he basically devoted himself to his work.

Pregnant for 9 months before maternity leave. I got a call from my boss when I was lying on the delivery bed. I told my boss that I would give birth to the baby in a few hours.

Two months after giving birth to a child, he came out to start a business and set up Lehua Entertainment.

At the beginning of the company's establishment, it was on the verge of bankruptcy, and it could only survive by mortgaging the house and borrowing 3 million yuan from investors.

Later, I met Han Geng, and he canceled his contract with SM and returned to China for development. The company began to develop slowly and eventually became a giant entertainment brokerage company in the mainland.

A successful woman is often asked how to balance her family and career, but no man will be asked the same question!

We women are capable and can balance work and life well.

Even I, a person with low education and no background.

Even if you get married and have children and return to your family, you can stand up again if you want.

As long as you are serious enough and work hard enough, you can realize your self-worth and succeed.

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David's conclusion

I am also 30+ this year. I was still a little anxious about my age. I always thought that people would be middle-aged at the age of 30. But in recent years, getting married and having children, quitting to take care of children and starting a sideline business have strengthened my heart.

Especially after watching this program, I was deeply touched, especially when I saw this sentence:

Before the age of 30, our beauty was given by our biological parents, and you may be defined by your parents; But after the age of 30, my life is created by myself and can only be defined by me.

Yes, what is there to be afraid of in life? Isn't this just the beginning? All the good things in the future must be earned by our own hands.

Don't be timid, just do it!

Conquering with fists and hearts is not acceptable;

Encounter natural pride, all prejudices;

Continue to reject your footsteps, all the labels.

Straight to Yun Fan, braving the wind and waves.