Do you think a boy’s gentlemanly qualities are more reflected in words or actions?

Do you think a boy’s gentlemanly qualities are more reflected in words or actions?

In fact, sometimes in life, some boys want their attitude towards life to become gentlemanly. But I think sometimes if we are too stiff to express our gentlemanly attitude, it will make us look unnatural, because I think a person's life experience, demeanor, life experience, attitude and quality all require first-class language. There are also actions that reflect each other, so I think sometimes the quality of a gentleman is good, but we also need our own attitude towards life, as well as some actions and words that can be reflected at the same time. So I think both aspects should be present, rather than one aspect to reflect whether a boy is a gentleman.

In fact, many boys in life want to become a gentleman in their own style. But I think that sometimes if you want to make your style more gentlemanly, I think if you want to change this style, you must first discover it within yourself. Because our gentlemanly demeanor and gentlemanly character are reflected in our words, some actions, and some actions in life, so I think sometimes it’s okay to just say you have a gentlemanly character verbally. It's unreliable, so I think sometimes in life, if you want others to think that you, a boy, have gentlemanly qualities, you should also reflect it in terms of character and actions. If some people just talk but don't do it, it will be far away. Far from achieving the demeanor of a gentleman.

So I think that although some people are more gentlemanly in their actions, if their language does not reflect it, it will make others think that this person is not so gentlemanly, so I I think sometimes if you want to improve your style to a gentleman's demeanor, I think sometimes you have to reflect it not only in terms of language, but also in terms of actions and personality. So sometimes the qualities of a gentleman can slowly transform us into a perfect boy, and can also slowly change our language and actions.