How to treat the son preference in today's society?

In my family, there is no concept of son preference, on the contrary, there is a phenomenon of son preference. However, there are all kinds of people in society, and more and more people are in contact with them. I am still shocked by some social realities.

In some backward areas and rural areas, in order to carry on the family line and continue the incense, in any case, a boy must be born at home, so that the family can stand. Due to practical reasons, this patriarchal thinking is hard to be liberated for a while.

However, I can't understand these two people around me.

It's strange to have a group of people around me who have received higher education. They have received higher education and studied abroad, and then they don't prefer boys to girls. They love girls as much as death. However, without exception, when they are pregnant, they all say that they still want to give birth to a boy for their husbands.

These people around me now will have a second child in two or three years, and basically they will have boys. Do you say they don't love girls? Not exactly. Both husband and wife are crazy about buying the best things, but they really believe that they need a man to live up to their ancestors, so I think this concept is stronger than anything else. Education should also kneel before this concept.

Most people in China want to have two children. If economic conditions permit, a daughter will definitely miss a boy, and a boy will definitely miss a girl.

It is also relatively simple for girls living in such families to leave home when they grow up. After all, parents' preference for their sons is so obvious that they don't feel much love, so it's not difficult to decide to leave.

There is also the invisible preference for boys over girls. Parents don't think they are preference for boys, and it is impossible to admit it. Some girls, who are unaware of it, think it is "normal" behavior after being subtly influenced by the phenomenon of son preference. There are also some girls, even if they know that they prefer boys to girls, they will struggle painfully. On the one hand, parents are "good" to themselves, on the other hand, they kidnap themselves with love. Reflected in various details of life such as housework; Generally speaking, it involves the distribution of property.

The daughter got married and left the house to her son. This kind of thing is extremely normal for most people, and it does not involve son preference. Isn't it patriarchal to treat sons and daughters differently? Of course, I don't expect my daughter to support the elderly, and there is nothing to say about leaving the house to my son. Still "fair".

What is equality if you want your daughter to contribute to the pension and leave all your property to your son?

The existence of problems is not terrible. What's really terrible is that you can't see the existence of the problem and will never correct it.