Deeds of rural good mother-in-law and good daughter-in-law

Materials on the deeds of rural good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law (5 general remarks)

Whether in school or in society, everyone has used deeds. Deeds can be used for two purposes: one is to publicize typical examples, and the other is to select advanced ones. How do we draft the contract? The following is the story of a good rural mother-in-law and daughter-in-law I collected for you (generally 5 articles). Welcome to share.

The deeds of a good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas 1 Before the East Community Neighborhood Committee, people often talked about an ordinary woman. A good wife who respects her in-laws for decades. She is Shen Juying of Qiandong Community Building Materials Community, and her deeds are praised by everyone in Qiandong Community of Pingluo County.

Shen Juying, 5 1 year old, is law-abiding, loves social welfare undertakings and helps the poor. Since the Third Plenary Session of the 16th CPC Central Committee, she has good professional ethics, noble ideological quality and healthy physical quality. During her career, she worked hard and made bold innovations in the wave of reform and opening up. In the work of prenatal and postnatal care, she took the lead in implementing family planning "teaching children for the country and educating people as the foundation". She taught her children well and set an example by herself. Her son Liang Yao graduated from university and made contributions to the motherland.

Shen Juying is an industrious, capable and amiable sister-in-law in Sister-in-law. In the eyes of her parents, she is a good daughter-in-law who is reasonable and filial to the elderly. In the eyes of her neighbors, she is a kind-hearted and helpful person. Her family is harmonious and happy, and she was rated as a district-level ten-star civilized household and a five-good family in the county.

Shen Juying and Yao Huiyuan, both working in the farm tool factory, met, fell in love and got married. Shen Juying's father and mother-in-law later lived in the countryside and made a living by farming. 1983 considering that the two old people are old, she wants to take them to live with them in the county, but her husband and father are very worried. He is Yao Huiyuan's stepfather and thinks he is not related to him. Is it okay to live together? Even if you live with your own son, it will inevitably be a stumbling block after a long time. He is worried that everyone will break up in discord in the future. Shen Juying saw the old man's heart and advised him to take two old people home for twenty years. For more than 20 years, Shen Juying and two old people have lived together day and night without even blushing once, let alone making the old people angry once. Mother-in-law is sick and loves cleanliness. She can't wash clothes, but Shen Juying did it several times. At that time, my son was still young, my husband was busy at work, and both my sisters were away from my parents. The burden of taking care of her mother-in-law fell on Shen Juying's shoulder. Mother-in-law is ill, and she is very uncomfortable. Nothing is pleasing to the eye, and he always likes to nag. Shen Juying also took good care of her, while calmly An Wei her and told stories to amuse the old man. Sometimes my mother-in-law is incontinent and urinates repeatedly on the bedding. Without saying anything, she quickly scrubbed her mother-in-law and washed the bedding. She never said a word of complaint. One winter, my husband and father had an acute appendicitis operation, and he couldn't move in bed. The old man wants to pee, but he can't walk away and can't hold back. Only Shen Juying was around to take care of him, but he was embarrassed to say it, with a full face of pain. Careful Shen Juying immediately picked up the urinal to receive urine for the elderly, and the old man was moved to tears. The two old people boasted to everyone: "Daughter-in-law is closer and more reliable than her own daughter. Without her careful care, we can live to be over 80 years old. "

1994, Shen Juying was laid off, and with the support of her husband, she opened a gas stove distribution department. After several years of painstaking efforts, Shen Juying has a successful career, started her own business, and her family is rich, but she does not forget to repay the society. She heard that the sewers of residents in the community have been in disrepair for a long time and are often blocked, especially in the rainy season, rainwater accumulates in the roadway and overflows to some residents' homes, which brings inconvenience to residents in the community. When the community neighborhood committee wanted to solve problems for residents and had nowhere to raise funds, Shen Juying took the initiative to come forward and take the lead in donating money to help community cadres go door to door. The driveway of the building materials community is not hardened. In case of rain and snow, the road surface is muddy. Shen Juying took the lead in donating money to participate in roadway hardening. Because Shen Juying is ready to help others, there is something wrong with the gas stove in the neighbor's house. As long as she calls, she quickly comes to the door for repair and never charges a penny. Her simplicity, kindness, generosity and generosity have always been well-known, and she is an example for us to learn.

The deeds of a good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas II. I am engaged in education, love my post and work hard, and I am willing to be an "engineer of human soul". He has been rated as a "model teacher" leader for many times. Teachers are recognized as excellent teachers with strong working ability, good singing and dancing, and both ability and political integrity. I am law-abiding, love my job, study hard, care about others everywhere in my life, handle family relations harmoniously and happily, and always adhere to the self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement that women should have. At work, she is recognized as a good comrade by leaders and comrades. At home, she is recognized as a good daughter-in-law by her father-in-law, mother-in-law and husband.

First, be reasonable and sensible, and handle family relations well.

In fact, for more than ten years, I have handled the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law very harmoniously. I have never spoken loudly to my parents-in-law, but I have never been red-faced with them. They said to everyone, "My daughter-in-law is sensible and a good daughter-in-law. We are satisfied."

To cultivate children's talents, we should pay attention to the ideological education of children's world outlook, outlook on life and values, and educate children to learn to be a man, learn to do things, and be a person who makes a difference and contributes to society. The education and management of children is a very difficult thing. We should not only pay attention to children's academic performance, but also cultivate their ability to live and study independently. He is often encouraged to study hard, and at the same time, he should form a good habit of uniting his classmates and being polite to others. And take the initiative to contact the school teacher to understand the child's growth.

The biggest secret of husband's harmony is that the communication between the two is in place and they often chat openly with each other. When dealing with family affairs, husband and wife can treat each other as equals, communicate with each other and make decisions through consultation, so that both sides can feel at ease when doing every major event. Diligent housekeeping, reasonable arrangement of wages and income, never extravagance and waste. Buying household items, educating children to go to school and other trivial matters of life, a person to bear, never let her husband worry.

Second, weak body, to provoke the burden of the family.

In order to make my husband work wholeheartedly, I am duty-bound to shoulder the burden of family. After finishing teaching at work, I went home to do housework, and kept the housework in order, neat and comfortable, creating a comfortable and comfortable online living environment for my husband and children. Giving it to parents-in-law also reduces housework fatigue.

Third, be filial to your in-laws and considerate of others.

With the changes of the times, the ancient "three obedience and four virtues" have disappeared without a trace, and there is even a saying that "if you want to have a harmonious family, unless your daughter-in-law is your mother-in-law". And I think: "If you want family harmony, your daughter-in-law must honor your in-laws." Filial piety to the elderly is also a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. After getting married, I practiced my promise with my actions, and gained the trust of the elderly with sincerity and care. In 2006, my mother-in-law became ill. When she was ill, I took good care of her, cooked and delivered soup, and scrubbed her to facilitate her defecation. Because my mother-in-law was tall and tired, my back ached and I didn't cry. Sometimes I even forget that I am still hungry, but my heart is only her illness and pain. It is the obligation of a daughter-in-law and the virtue of a woman. Neighbors envy and say, "Having such a virtuous daughter-in-law really burns high incense in my last life." Teachers usually boast that a woman's taste and cultivation, noble sentiment and rich connotation, filial piety of a daughter and kindness of a daughter-in-law are worthy of being an intellectual woman in the new era. "

Family is the cell of society, and everything flourishes. It's impossible without minor contradictions in the family. As long as we have more understanding, care and tolerance, the family will be more harmonious and happy, the society will be more harmonious and beautiful, and we will respect the old and love the young.

Being a good daughter-in-law adds charm to the role of wife, morality to the role of mother and connotation to the role of woman.

The deeds of a good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas 3 Qiu Ai is 45 years old and an ordinary woman on the 22nd floor of Textile East Street. She has been serving her mother-in-law enthusiastically for more than ten years, and her touching deeds have been praised and praised by her neighbors. People all mention that she is a good daughter-in-law who respects her mother-in-law.

The 80-year-old mother-in-law used to be a cadre of the Textile Dongyi Neighborhood Committee, and she was paralyzed in bed because of a cerebral infarction. Qiu Ai, the youngest in her prime, resolutely shouldered the burden of taking care of her mother-in-law. Life is hard, I never complain. Physically weak, she is busy all the time, taking care of her mother-in-law who has been ill in bed for a long time.

The weather is unpredictable. My mother-in-law was diagnosed with cerebellar atrophy and severe anemia at the beginning of this year. The whole family has sought medical treatment for her mother-in-law many times, and the effect is not very good. In the face of illness, my mother-in-law felt a great blow and lost confidence in life. Qiu Ai saw her mother-in-law's mood, so she chatted with her mother-in-law every day, instructing her to be strong, giving her an example in real life, and often saying to her mother-in-law,' You must overcome it. We will do our best to take care of you and accompany you with us.' Qiu Ai said so and did the same. He insisted on shouldering the burden of serving the elderly. This year, in order to supplement her family, she found a job and started working. While working, she manages the housework and serves the elderly. When she was busy, he hoped to cure her mother-in-law's illness and sought medical advice everywhere to treat the elderly. Arrange her mother-in-law's life reasonably and take good care of her daily life. Day after day, year after year, she helped her mother-in-law go to the toilet to relieve herself, changed her clothes, combed her hair, washed her face and served tea and water. She tried her best to make her mother-in-law eat and live well and make her happy. Every week, she washes her hair, feet, nails, clothes and bedding regularly and changes them frequently. Even though she is busy at work, she still takes time to sit by the bed and chat with her mother-in-law. In this way, he served the elderly enthusiastically, never saying anything about hardship or tiredness.

In order to make her mother-in-law recover soon, Qiu Ai consulted many medical staff and mastered a lot of nursing knowledge. Through years of careful nursing, her mother-in-law's illness and mental state have been greatly improved. Relatives who came to see her mother-in-law said,' Thank you Qiu Ai for your careful care,' Qiu Ai said with a shy smile,' It is my duty to honor her mother-in-law.'

There are many such details in life. Many people ask her why you are so filial to your mother-in-law. Qiu Ai replied:' My mother-in-law lost her husband in her early years and suffered a lot to educate her husband. We younger generations should take good care of the elderly and let them live a few more years before we can live up to her, so that my heart will be more practical and comfortable.' This is pure and kind Qiu Ai!

The deeds of a good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas 4 Su Huandi is an ordinary resident of Ma Village, Wang Fan Township, Yanhu District, Yuncheng City. She established her own family in 1978, and gained happiness as a wife, mother and daughter-in-law. However, unexpected events happened. 1988, the "pillar" of the husband's family died of illness, leaving only the old woman, young children and helplessness, and the burden of the family suddenly fell on her. ...

At that time, my daughter was seven years old and my son was only five years old. She looked at her two young children and her elderly mother-in-law, with unspeakable bitterness in her heart, but she still endured it. She is determined to work hard by herself and will be able to support her two children and her elderly mother-in-law. At that time, there were more than ten acres of land at home, and she worked hard to farm, but she couldn't do some work in the field alone. After one year, the harvest in the field was not great. She thought, this can't do. The children are getting older and older. It's time to go to school. It will cost a lot in the future. Just a little land income is not enough for the daily expenses of the family. Just when she was at a loss, there was a meeting in the village. She and her mother-in-law discussed "Do you want to have a meeting to sell things?" But as for what to sell? She and her mother-in-law walked around the rally and finally found an old woman selling leek boxes. Seeing that business was particularly good, she decided to try selling vegetable boxes. After several stalls, she found that the business was really ok, so she stuck to it. Life at home has gradually improved, but the children have to go to school and the family needs money, so she started selling bean jelly and cold rice noodles again, hoping to make life better. In the days when she set up a stall, her mother-in-law was not idle at home. Every day, she does a good job in logistics services such as selecting leeks, washing leeks, making vermicelli and mixing noodles. In order to earn more money, she set up a stall almost every day. 147 went to fengcun for the fair, 258 went to Wang Fan for the fair, and 30 and 60 went to her village for the fair. She only has three days off every month. These three days, she couldn't relax, bathing her mother-in-law and children, cleaning the house, and going out to buy some materials.

Cold comes and summer goes, and more than 20 years have passed in a flash. With her unremitting efforts, five new houses have been built at home, and her daughter has also married, and her son has also married a daughter-in-law, and now she is also a grandmother. Although I have earned some money, my body is exhausted, my legs and joints are so painful that I sometimes can't walk, my hands are swollen like sausages, but my heart is still beautiful, because my child has grown up and become a family, and my mother-in-law is beaming. Mother-in-law looked at her physical condition, but it was in her eyes and her pain was in her heart. Her mother-in-law and children repeatedly advised her not to do it again, and she couldn't do it, but she also said, "I'm fine." I sit at home with nothing to do. I can earn some money when I go out for a day, and I can also reduce the burden on my children. "

In 20 13 years, my mother-in-law who had been in good health suddenly fell ill. Her heart was broken when she looked at her mother-in-law's uncomfortable appearance. After sending her mother-in-law to the hospital for examination, the doctor said that gallstones should be operated. Without saying anything, my mother-in-law said, "Just let me die. I am so old, how many years can I live! " But she said, "We have lived together for so many years, and you are closer than my own mother. I can't lose you. " Her mother-in-law was moved by her words and decided to have an operation. After the operation, she has been waiting on her mother-in-law, carrying excrement and urine, asking questions about cold and deficiency. Even the patients in the ward praised her mother-in-law for her good luck. After leaving the hospital, she recovered slowly because of her age, and her back ached after the operation. When she was lying in severe pain, she couldn't turn over. She helped her mother-in-law turn over, take off her clothes, wash her feet, wash her face and wipe her body, and gradually her mother-in-law recovered from her back pain.

After her husband left, their mother-in-law slept on a kang. Now, they have fallen in love with their mother and daughter, not their own.

Her family is a family with traditional virtues, following the life character of "respecting the old and loving the young, being diligent and self-reliant, being filial to the world and being indifferent and calm". This traditional virtue deeply branded their family and gave them a source of spiritual strength. In the most difficult times, they supported each other, cared for each other and waded through the difficulties of life. In the long river of life, they tolerate each other, comfort each other and enjoy a dull and wonderful life. This endless love will infect more people to appreciate the truth, carry forward the beauty and enjoy the beauty in the plain.

She is an ordinary rural woman and an ordinary peasant daughter-in-law, but everyone who knows her will give a thumbs up and sincerely praise her as a filial daughter-in-law and a good mother. She is inheriting the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation with her words and deeds.

The deeds of a good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas 5 In China, filial piety is not only an act or an emotion, but also a culture. From ancient times to the present, emperors, literati and ordinary people all regard filial piety as the first criterion to measure a person's virtue. In today's society, we still attach great importance to old age and family happiness. Filial piety culture handed down for thousands of years has a profound impact on our society, families and individuals.

Today's heroes are typical representatives. In the community of North Street Park in Huinong District, Shizuishan City, Ningxia, there is such a well-known "good wife" Zhang Guiqin. Under her careful care, the 89-year-old mother-in-law not only bravely fought cancer for seven years, but also spent her old age happily. While taking care of her mother-in-law, Zhang Guiqin gets along well with the residents next door and is always ready to help anyone in trouble. I was really moved to hear this story. In fact, if you look at the environment around you, there are always some people, not to mention their parents-in-law, who support themselves. Maybe even your parents may not be able to be filial. However, after her husband died, Zhang Guiqin still performed filial piety for her husband and herself, and supported her 89-year-old mother-in-law who had cancer. Come to think of it, 62-year-old Zhang Guiqin is an old man. At this time, she should enjoy the happiness of raising her grandson, but she has to support her 89-year-old mother-in-law. In the eyes of many people, they may not believe that she will persist. As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son before a long bed. However, the old aunt told us with actions that as long as there is love in her heart and she is willing to pay, she will make the old people feel deep love, give them the courage to live and fight the disease.

As the old saying goes, filial piety ranks first among all virtues. In fact, in our life, there are many good wives, sons, daughters and sons-in-law who treat the elderly with sincerity and action. Our society and our family all need such filial piety. Now many families are only children. Our children go out to work and are not around, so we old people can only live alone. If the two old people are here, it's ok, they can support each other. If one of them leaves first, it will be really lonely to leave one of them. I think, today, we must carry forward this kind of filial piety, because now the elderly need their children around more. They don't have to do anything, just accompany them and talk. Material life is no longer lacking, but spiritual loneliness and helplessness are the biggest problems facing the elderly. It is not easy for parents to raise us. When they are old and need us, we are not around.

Everyone will get old, so we should spend more time with our parents while they are still alive. Nowadays, young people are under great pressure, but filial piety to their parents can't wait. If we are free and rich, we will take good care of our parents, but at that time, you may not have a chance to repay us. I don't think we can wait until the day when our parents are away, and we can't wait until the day when we regret it, only to find that there is no chance to repay in this life. At the same time, I believe that people now will treat the elderly better and treat them well. As the old saying goes, the old are old, the young are young, and the young are young. Whether for relatives or strangers, we should extend our hands when they need help, so that they can feel happy and spend their old age safely.

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