Mother-in-law thinks that her in-laws spend too much money, and she is angered by her daughter-in-law: How parents spend their own money has nothing to do with you.

I wonder if you have such a mother-in-law. They have very double standards. After the daughter-in-law and son get married, no matter whether there are brothers or sisters at home, they can't continue to be kind to their parents. But it is useful to get the bride's family, whether it is to let her pay or contribute. At this time, she is a family with her family. I met such a mother-in-law. Not only do I think I married her son, but my income belongs to my husband's family, and even my mother's income belongs to my husband's family. I began to accuse my parents of spending money lavishly. Figure network.

When my mother-in-law came to our small family, it was already 7 pm. At this time, we just came home from work for dinner. After her mother-in-law came in, she didn't speak. Before I could say hello after I opened the door, she sat on the ground and began to cry. He said that he was unlucky, lost his husband in his early years and worked hard to raise his son. I thought my son could enjoy his retirement when he got married and got married, but I still have to worry about a lot of things.

My husband and I looked at each other and no one knew what had happened. I tried to think about it, and I really didn't "provoke" her recently. During this time, we are busy with work, working overtime on weekends, and rarely have time to see our mother-in-law. Then the living expenses will be paid on time. Yesterday, my husband specially bought souffle that my mother-in-law likes to eat and sent it to me. Today, I cried all over the floor. What is this?

Husband was helpless, put down the bowl chopsticks and asked her mother-in-law what happened. When the mother-in-law heard her son give the steps, she immediately began to tell the reason. I understand this crying. It's directed at me. After dinner, my mother-in-law strolled in the community and happened to meet my mother's neighbor, Aunt Chen, who was visiting relatives. When they met, they naturally exchanged a few pleasantries. Aunt Chen mentioned my parents and said that my parents changed a car a few days ago, which is very beautiful. My parents are going to travel in a few days.

As we all know, this kind of information is prone to problems, not only the sender will embellish it, but also the listener will easily misunderstand it. My sister is pregnant with a second child, so my parents went to see my sister, and now it has become a tour. My mother-in-law was unhappy at that time and didn't delay for a second. She came to me and accused my parents of ruining the family and spending money indiscriminately. It is said that my little daughter is also preparing to have a baby. How can she know nothing about saving money, changing cars and traveling? In the future, I still count on my youngest daughter to support the elderly. Now I should think of my little daughter everywhere.

I was really angry when I heard that. My mother-in-law is too hard on me. Since getting married, she has looked down on me and taken care of me everywhere. Fortunately, I insisted on buying a separate house with a loan. If you live together, it is estimated that there will be three big quarrels and two small quarrels. Every time she makes things difficult for me, I endure it for the sake of my husband's face, thinking that after all, she is an elder, so let her say a few words. But this time I accused my parents inexplicably, and I really couldn't help it.

But before I could speak, my husband stopped me with lightning speed and motioned for him to solve this matter. I tried to hold back my anger and turned back to the bedroom. Really, if it weren't for my husband's embarrassment, how could I stand my mother-in-law today? At first, my husband and I were in love, but my parents disagreed. The reason is that my mother-in-law is strong and unreasonable. Naturally, we know that our two families are not far away.

My parents were worried that I was wronged, but at that time, I was immersed in love. How can I listen to these words? I insisted on getting married and finally got married. But soon after I got married, I regretted it, because my parents were right to worry. Although we live alone, my mother-in-law comes over almost every day because we are close. Find fault every time, find out my "mistakes" and give me a scolding.

In fact, every time my mother-in-law talks about me, I really want to talk back, but I think marriage is not easy, because the quarrel between my mother-in-law affects the feelings of husband and wife, which is not worth it. So every time I endure it, I pretend not to hear it. But this guy may just be pushing his luck. My mother-in-law felt that I didn't talk back, just hugged me, was not satisfied with taking care of me, and began to think about my family. My parents have two daughters, and my sister is married far away. Since I got married, my mother-in-law has automatically put all my parents' money and house on my head.

I married her son, so mine is hers, and hers is hers naturally. So she must take care of it and not let my parents spend money indiscriminately. The last time my parents bought a school district house in the city, it was actually for me, because I told my parents that I was going to have a baby. My parents know that my husband's family certainly can't afford to buy a house in the city now, and my husband and I can't afford the income in recent years. So my parents bought us a house in advance, decorated it well and ventilated it, so we can move in.

As a result, my mother-in-law found out and came to say that my parents didn't discuss how to buy a house with her. It's not like I don't have a house to live in, so why spend so much money to buy another house? In fact, I know in my heart that my mother-in-law is not angry with my parents for buying a house. In fact, she was too happy to tell others that her son had a house in the city. She was afraid that my parents would buy it for my sister, because I accidentally mentioned some time ago that my sister might come here on business.

Later, my husband told her that the house was for our future children, and her mother-in-law didn't bother, so she made an excuse for herself, as if she hadn't been a hooligan before. After I entered the bedroom, although the door was closed, I could easily hear the conversation between my mother-in-law and her husband because her mother-in-law deliberately raised her voice and the sound insulation was not good. My mother-in-law said that my parents are so old that they can still waste money, get a new car and travel. I don't have many years to live. If I don't stay at home, I'll run around.

Yeah, I'm too forbearing. If it weren't for this sentence, I would restrain myself from quarreling with my mother-in-law as before. But this time my mother-in-law really annoyed me completely. I opened the door and went straight to her. My mother-in-law and my husband were shocked when I suddenly appeared. However, I didn't give my mother-in-law a chance to speak, just asked her. I said, "How did my parents spend their money? What does this have to do with you? Let alone that my parents have prepared a lot for my future children. Even if you don't give me a penny, it's for my sister. It has nothing to do with you. "

"My parents change cars, travel, with your money? Can I get your advice? You are a mother-in-law, and you care about your daughter-in-law's property every day. You are shameless. You didn't live for a few years. You are older than my parents. I don't think you have lived for a few years. " I spoke too fast, and by the time my husband tried to stop me, I had finished. My mother-in-law may have never been so fierce in her life, and her face changed at that time.

My husband is afraid that my mother-in-law will slow down, and we are sure to quarrel. He took her away soon. When my husband came back, it was already midnight 1 1, and his face was very bad. I don't need to ask, I know my mother-in-law must be all kinds of memories and cries. There was silence for a while. The next day, my husband asked me to apologize to my mother-in-law and said, "My mother is an elder after all. What can you do if you are angry with her? " Go and apologize, so that she won't be sad. If we are forced to divorce, it will be a big fight. My mother has no other meaning, just thinking about home and doing things to discuss. "

I didn't feel cold when my husband said this. I glanced at him and said, "If you and your mother-in-law didn't hear clearly, I'll say it again. My parents can spend their hard-earned money how they want, so there is no need to discuss it with you. this is nothing to do with you. If you want me to apologize, you can ask your mother to apologize to my parents first, just for these words in the evening and some ugly words mentioned to my parents before. She apologized, and I apologized immediately. Otherwise, I will not apologize for the divorce. "

After that, I ignored him and didn't bother to think about how he could come up with an apology. What I said at night was a bit heavy, but wasn't it because my mother-in-law provoked me first? Besides, my mother-in-law can directly refer to my parents. Can't I talk back to my parents? Anyway, if my husband wants to divorce me because of this matter and listen to her mother-in-law, then I will agree immediately and definitely. Anyway, I think I am right.