How about "knife mouth, tofu heart"

We don't have to care about people who are "sharp-tongued and heartless", and we can also persuade others not to care about people who are sharp-tongued and heartless, but we must not be a sharp-tongued and heartless person ourselves, because others can only feel your sharp-tongued, but not your tofu-tongued, and sharp-tongued is really hurtful.

The folk saying "a knife with a mouth and a bean curd with a heart" has become an excuse for many people to be bad-tempered. It means that even if you speak badly, there is such a reason. It's all for the good of each other, and it doesn't matter if it's ugly.

Some women, in particular, are always sharp-tongued and heartless. What you do is different from what you say in your mouth, but it tastes bad when you say it from your mouth. Should such a woman reflect, is what she said really ok?

As the saying goes, Rome wasn't built in a day. Do you remember when it began to be like this, women who are often full of bean curd hearts and knives?

embarrass each other in the name of "love", regardless of other people's feelings. There is a kind of woman who obviously won't do anything unnatural, but what she says is just like the snow in winter that directly chills people's hearts.

is it really good to use your emotions as a knife to vent on others? Language has been powerful since ancient times. Don't hurt others' hearts with your bad words.

"Bad words hurt people in June", even if it is warm, it will not warm the inner world that you hurt.

A woman who really has a rest won't make a knife mouth, she will care about others with lotus-like gentle language, and never deliberately bring negative emotions and embarrassing eyes to others.

In life, you will find that a woman with a sharp mouth is the most vulnerable. Because no one will really understand your thoughts, but everyone will remember what you said. It must be annoying for a woman to know how to criticize others.

Especially in the family, you will directly disturb the atmosphere of peace. Especially as a woman, I have little knowledge of many things myself. But when others make a little mistake, they take a strong attitude and say that others are not good.

actually, you didn't do anything, just talking. But you will leave a shadow in others' hearts and make people think you are annoying. Maybe your intention is good, but your expression is wrong. It is clearly a kind-hearted woman, and what you express becomes a bitter woman.

Not everyone has a good heart to discover the goodness in your inner world through appearances. They will only know that what you said has deeply hurt their hearts.

You are a woman who never thinks about each other from the perspective of others. You are a selfish woman.

truly kind women don't like being with a "vicious tongue" because they are afraid that your reputation will bring them into trouble.

Only a woman who knows what self-esteem means will be afraid that the other person will not say hurtful things when there are many people.

do you think what you just said is embarrassing? In fact, you are uneducated, and the harm of poison tongue will sometimes exceed your imagination. So, woman, you should control yourself and don't let yourself be a poisonous tongue.

physical scars are easy to heal, but mental scars are sometimes hard to let go, and every time you think about them, it will become an unforgettable experience.

Every time someone thinks about it again in the depths of their brain, they will resent you a little more. Because your words constantly sprinkle salt on the wounds of others' hearts, reminding them again and again how terrible your words were.

words are no longer plentiful, but beauty is the most important thing. A woman who can talk gives people the feeling of spring breeze, which warms people's hearts.

Sometimes, you change bad words into a caring, encouraging and understanding sentence. You will bring hope to others, and you can see how bright the light is under their eyes. You will inadvertently change a person's life's fate or thoughts.

Maybe your husband will love you more if you get along with each other in a peaceful language at home. Because they know that you are always encouraging him behind you, not complaining.

the language of positive energy, first of all, is a lamp on the sea, which brings people hope and illuminates the hearts of others. Not only will you become better, but you will also drive others to become better and better.