What if the old people at home always interfere with our education for our children?

The old people at home always interfere with your education for your children. You can have a good talk with the old people and then find some negative teaching materials to convince them.

I grew up in a village where there are many left-behind children. They have lived with their grandparents since childhood, and their parents have gone out to work, such as my neighbor's house.

Every year, Chinese New Year is the busiest time for neighbors, and all kinds of voices often come from home.

Because at this time, the children are happy and angry. The joy is that their parents who have not seen for a long time are back, and the anger is that their parents will discipline them.

For example, the children in the neighborhood are spoiled by grandparents since childhood, and they are wild, even if their parents come back, they will not obey the discipline.

Whenever parents are angry, children will hide behind grandparents, and grandparents will stop their parents if they are distressed by their grandchildren.

Seeing that the children are getting more and more arrogant, the neighbors are also very angry, but there is nothing they can do. In this case, the child's teacher gave three ideas (neighbors went to ask for advice).

Have a good talk with the old man

Teachers let neighbors talk with grandparents, explain their interests clearly, let them know the gap and consequences of love and doting, and strive to gain the understanding of the elderly and accept their opinions, so as to educate children.

Exchange education with children.

Old people and children will not always be together, so parents should seize this time to communicate with their children, tell them some correct values, and at the same time guide their children to be grateful for the love of their families, so that children can know that they should bravely admit their mistakes when they do something wrong, instead of hiding behind their grandparents.

Negative teaching materials add dignity

You can also find a few cases in which old people spoil their children, affecting their growth or causing bad results to them, and tell their parents what will happen if they blindly protect their children and don't give them the opportunity to educate them.

At the same time, we should establish our dignity in front of children, so that children don't feel that they have grandparents, so they don't have to listen to their parents, which is also unfavorable for educating children.

So I think, if the old people always interfere when you educate your children, then you can talk to the old people about the benefits of doting on their children first, and at the same time show them some negative teaching materials to let them know that it is wrong to stop themselves from educating their children.

In addition, we should communicate with children more, guide them to correct their values and let them grow up healthily while establishing their dignity.