Talking about grouping

Let's talk about friends circle today.

Sometimes, a seemingly unintentional dynamic has different meanings in different people's eyes. Some people even have "victim paranoia" and feel that others are targeting him. So sometimes grouping friends can effectively reduce conflicts.

I have read a sentence before: "You say a good person, you are a WeChat business. How can you say that you will be a WeChat business?"

I think the WeChat business in the circle of friends is the person that everyone wants to block most. A friend who decided to do WeChat business on the first day said:

Starting from tomorrow, I will send my products by swiping the screen. If I don't want to be screened, please like it here. I have grouped you, and you will see my private status in the future. All your products will be blocked.

There are always many people in WeChat who often filter spam and advertisements we don't need, and we are also very upset. Such a simple sentence can at least make everyone feel her respect for her friends. Also in order not to disturb others. Even if I brush her screen dynamics again, I won't feel so annoying.

Looking through my circle of friends, there is an "invisible friend" villain in most dynamics.

For example, I stayed up until two or three o'clock, still drinking and singing K in the early morning, and I was in a bad mood. The dynamics must have shielded my parents. On the one hand, I am afraid that they will nag me to stay up all night and play around, on the other hand, I am afraid that they will worry about me.

For example, my work dynamics, boss, company system and other issues must have blocked everyone in the company, including colleagues.

For example, when complaining about graduation design, the teacher's dynamics will definitely block teachers and counselors.

Later, I have developed the habit of sorting out my circle of friends. I will go through the list of friends in my circle of friends and screen out those who may have misunderstandings and may cause resentment.

In the past, the circle of friends was really a private territory, and you could send whatever you wanted. However, with more and more people on your WeChat, the scope is getting bigger and bigger. Many people who are not friends but have to be on your friend list will only become a kind of kidnapping, which will make your circle of friends no longer private.

Everyone should be like me. After adding a person's WeChat, the first action is to click into his circle of friends and see his dynamics. If his circle of friends meets your preferences, you will often have a deeper affection for this person.

The circle of friends has become a business card, showing you all directions.

Impressively, in Qi Yuanshuo, Cai Kangyong said:

We can have a chat when we meet for the first time, but if you tell me that you have stomach cancer when we meet for the first time, I really can't cope with this sentence because our relationship is not that close.

Some people say that the circle of friends is their own. You can send anything you want. Why do you care so much about what other people think?

But for those people in your circle of friends who have nothing to do with your real life, if you lose your temper in your circle of friends, they have no idea what happened to you. You sigh in your circle of friends, he doesn't know what painful things you have encountered. You post your high-end life in a circle of friends. In some people's eyes, you are putting on a show.

You think you are honest with life, but your relationship with many people in your circle of friends is not close at all.

Don't hide from close people, keep a distance from strangers, and don't impose spam on strangers. I think this is the greatest significance of grouping friends.