My mother-in-law called me a "loser" and a strong mother-in-law ruined a family. what do you think?

Family members, even if they are close, should have proper limits. Many relationships have deteriorated because they have lost their due limits. As long as there is one person in the family without proper restrictions, the whole family will not be at peace.

Even elders should not do whatever they want as elders, especially mothers-in-law, and should pay more attention to their words and deeds. There are many cases in which mother-in-law's improper words and deeds lead to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and some families eventually fall into a fragmented situation.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to maintain, and it is even more difficult to maintain if mother-in-law loses her due limit. A bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can easily lead to the disintegration of marriage.

It is understandable that my mother-in-law wants to stabilize her position. Understandable, understandable, but the mother-in-law can't bully at will in her own identity. Mother-in-law is too stubborn and strong, and even a warm family will be cracked and broken.

Although family members can mediate, if they really want to solve the problem, they should start from the root cause. Mother-in-law's changing mentality is the best way to solve contradictions. What the mother-in-law does will only aggravate the deterioration of the relationship.

Zhang divorced her husband because her mother-in-law was too careless and touched the bottom line again and again, which made her unbearable.

It is not difficult to see that Zhang Hui divorced her husband, and her mother-in-law is only one of the factors, not the most important. What really made her desperate was her husband's reckless attitude and ignorance.

Some men are like this, thinking that filial piety is filial piety, but they don't know that it is only filial piety, and the result of filial piety is to ruin the marriage.

Whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or not is the key. Mother-in-law can't pose too high and make things difficult for her daughter-in-law, but should accept her daughter-in-law and treat her as a daughter. Daughter-in-law should not be too timid and obedient, cowardice and obedience means conniving at her mother-in-law's oppression. The daughter-in-law shows her attitude from the beginning, and her mother-in-law will restrain herself. Of course, men should also play their mediation role, and now they are coordinating their contradictions. Everyone does his duty, and appropriate restrictions, where family members get along, will make his home warmer.