Anxiety of a married man: He met his true love after marriage and can’t bear to get divorced. What do you think about this?

True love? Can you tell me what true love is? If you want to cheat, cheat. Don't act like you are responsible. Although they are both men, they look down on people who claim to have met true love even though they are already married. They strongly advocate the establishment of an "adultery crime" in the country to specifically deal with such men or women who want to cheat during marriage.

Let’s talk about love first. Everyone will meet many people who make or are attracted to them in their life. If you meet the right person at the right time, the two may get married. . But this is not absolute. Some people get married without choosing the right person or the person they love, just because they need a marriage, and finally reluctantly acquiesce in marrying the other person. There is no right or wrong in things like this, it is only about personal choice, but one thing we have to remember is that marriage is not a child's play. If you don't love the other person, you can't force it. No one can stop you if you want to get divorced, but as a human being and doing things You must abide by the law and do not violate morals at the same time.

As a married man, he should shoulder his responsibilities and obligations as a father, husband, and family member. And in this situation, I claimed that I had "met true love." I would venture to ask, how real is this true love? How far does love go? I have always firmly believed that there is true love in this world, but for a married man, I think this so-called true love cannot withstand scrutiny at all, otherwise he would not be able to bear to divorce? At least for me, if I don’t like someone, or don’t love someone anymore, then I will choose to break up or divorce. But now I don’t want to divorce, but I claim that I have met true love, I can say that you want to have two feet on the ground. Just a boat?

There are only two choices before you now, either choose to divorce and pursue true love, or give up true love and return to your family. As for other responsibilities, obligations, and morals, there is no need to consider them. Since you want to deal with this kind of thing, you have to cut the knot quickly. After all, this life is short, and you may not meet true love again in the future, so you must cherish this hard-earned love. But if you make a decision, I hope you will think about two things clearly. The first thing to consider is the life of your current wife and children. Although you no longer love your wife, the children are your own and they cannot control them. Your words and deeds, but you must also consider their future life. This is your responsibility as a man; the second is that you have to consider your future life with true love. You say you have met true love, but does the other person really love you?

It would be great if you think about these two things clearly and then do it boldly, but if you want to have two things, then it is not a question of whether you have met true love or not. . The reason why I advocate that the state establishes the crime of adultery is to punish these people. And no one forced you to get married. It was your choice to marry your current wife, but it is also your right to pursue true love. But if you really pursue true love, what do you think of your current wife? People live forever, and grass and trees spring only once. When you are a person and do things, you must pay attention to your conscience and think twice before doing anything. This is what you must do as an adult.

In addition, there is no turning back after starting work. Please reflect on your true love. If you valued true love so much, you would not have married your current wife in the first place. After getting married, you would say that you had met true love. This is completely self-deception.