Why are children in Northeast China more eloquent? Two kinds of dolls were raised in different environments in the north and south.

The Internet is becoming more and more developed, and many treasure moms and dads usually brush cute baby parenting videos. I don't know if you have found such a small detail-those cute babies in the northeast are always eloquent.

Although many southern children are also articulate, on the whole, the language talent of Northeast Mengwa is more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Among children of the same age, Northeast Mengwa speaks faster and is more logical.

Netizens joked that this is really a gift carved into dna. So why is there such a difference? How to cultivate a glib child?

When it comes to Northeasters, people always associate them with enthusiasm, cheerfulness, self-confidence, boldness and eloquence, and turn on various small videos on mobile phones. Many people in them are Northeasters, from old people to children.

Children in the northeast seem to have "language talent", which actually has a lot to do with the family culture in the northeast.

Family education entered a new stage earlier.

For a long time in the past, the economy in Northeast China was more developed, the living conditions were better and the education level was higher. In this environment, Northeast China entered the new family model earlier than South China and accepted the new family education concept.

Many families in Northeast China only have one child, and the modern family education concept of advocating equal dialogue between parents and children was accepted earlier.

We can often see many northeast children bickering and joking with their parents. Sometimes, in the eyes of many parents, they even think that their children are "not sensible", but they have not offended their parents. Instead, encourage children to say that if children are particularly eloquent, parents will feel particularly proud.

In 20 19, a small video became popular on the internet. In the video, the parents in the northeast quarreled and the two broke up. My three or four-year-old daughter was very angry when she saw this scene. When her parents came back, she scolded loudly:

"Why quarrel to say a person's fault? You two ... you left first, and my mother left second. Go away, I'm still playing in the living room! Can't you see your girl playing in the living room? What are you doing in the middle of the night? "

Dad has been apologizing to his daughter: "Dad knows it's wrong."

At that time, this video became popular because of the funny northeast accent and heroic spirit of the little girl, but it also surprised many parents. A child of three or four years old, when his parents quarrel, not only bravely stands up and criticizes his parents' mistakes, but also expresses his views logically and clearly. This kind of scene was rare in many southern families in the past.

In most families, children are always taught not to interrupt their parents' affairs, not to mention parents apologizing to their children. This traditional concept is more common in families with many children, and relatively speaking, it is more obvious in southern families.

The language environment is better

Dialect itself is very easy to learn.

Dr. Galle Everett of the University of Miami and his team found that the humidity in a place can affect the local language. In North America, Amazon and southern China, the pronunciation of languages is more complicated and there are more tones.

In addition, most of these warm and humid areas have dense forests and mountains, and sometimes the accents of two adjacent villages will be different.

Under such circumstances, language communication is not so convenient. Even in modern times, it is still a few hours' drive, so it is difficult to communicate with Guangxi Guiliu dialect, Guangdong Cantonese dialect and Guizhou complex dialect. However, there are only slight differences in accents among the three northeastern provinces, and communication in dialects is basically barrier-free.

It can be seen that if a place is rich in soil and water and has a pleasant climate, they probably don't have to keep in touch with the outside world often. Gradually, the complexity and diversity of language will bring language difficulties.

Putonghua, which originated from northern dialect, can surpass Cantonese, which retains more ancient Chinese sounds, and become an official dialect. It is for this reason. Language has few tones and simple pronunciation, which makes it easier for children to learn.

The more you listen, the earlier you speak.

In an era when technology is not so developed, people's only pleasure in cold winter is to get together and drink to drive away the cold. Chatting is the most interesting way to kill time, which also forms a unique culture.

Even though everyone has a mobile phone now and the Internet is very developed, the habit of chatting as long as people get together still exists.

Li Meijin, a professor of psychology at the Public Security University, said in a lecture that the more children listen, the earlier 1-3 will speak.

Li Meijin mentioned that Baum's children's language skills are different from those of their mothers and grandmothers.

Because when the child's mother, grandmother and grandmother take care of the child, even if the child can't talk, she will be full of love for the child and like to talk to the baby. Although babies can't speak yet, they are always in a state of accepting language. They will learn to speak earlier, and they will be more cheerful and willing to speak.

Babies are different when raising children. Babies don't love their children as much as their biological parents do. For them, taking care of the baby is a job and a responsibility. More often, they are responsible for children's eating and drinking. Even if they go out for a walk, they will talk to other adults instead of talking to the baby.

Children who communicate less will take the initiative to speak and speak more passively in the future.

From this simple truth, we can see that the language environment has a great influence on children. If children's parents often chat or talk with their children every day, it will be a very good enlightenment to their language expression.

The habit of chatting and bickering in the northeast has been deeply integrated into the family. Children grow up in such an environment, and their language acceptance and expression ability are stronger.

In recent years, we often see more and more young people express their "social fear", and the problems of fear and unwillingness to socialize are also developing at a younger age. Many parents have encountered the problem that my children are always afraid of strangers and never dare to say hello when they meet acquaintances. What can we do?

As parents, it is estimated that no one wants their children to get into such a predicament, and how to improve this situation has become a top priority.

If the child is still young, then parents can refer to Professor Li Meijin's method mentioned above and take the initiative to communicate with the child when he babbles. Although the children don't understand or even respond, parents should firmly believe that such communication is not ineffective or even far-reaching.

If children dare not take the initiative to speak and socialize, they will seriously lack the opportunity and motivation to speak. Even if they are rich in psychological activities, they will not have the ability and willingness to express their views logically.

Encouraging children to express themselves is the core of solving problems. Children's thinking speed is slower than that of adults, and language and logical thinking are not so developed. When listening to them, parents must not have the habit of "taking it for granted" and must not interrupt their children's expression frequently.

This has a great influence on children's personality, which in turn affects children's social skills. Contemporary teenagers are increasingly afraid of society, which has a lot to do with their family atmosphere.

Nowadays, many children are only children and live in tall single-family apartments. Either parents are busy with work and lack communication, or they spoil them too much. Parents, grandparents, grandparents all treat their children as treasures.

This can easily lead children to fall into two situations: too inferiority and too ego.

Children with low self-esteem tend to attribute everything to themselves and have sensitive personality.

Adults may just worry about their work, but children will think that they have said something wrong and done something wrong; When peers communicate together, they will feel that they are not interesting enough; They dare not take the initiative to talk to adults, for fear of making others unhappy, and at the same time feel rude. ...

Children trapped in self-doubt and self-blame for a long time will inevitably lack courage and dare not take the initiative to communicate.

For such children, parents should be more patient, actively encourage children to express themselves and reduce evaluative vocabulary. When children are afraid to say hello, don't immediately label them as "timid" and "rude".

This is especially true for children who are too self-centered. Many parents have a misconception that self-centered children will become arrogant. Actually, egoism refers to a way of thinking. They often take themselves too seriously and only understand the world from their own perspective.

When others don't respond to them enthusiastically, they will feel that the other party must be disgusted and disgusted with themselves, and will not think about whether others are in a bad mood for other reasons. When other children get together talking and laughing, they feel that they are speaking ill of themselves behind their backs. If they didn't take the initiative to say hello to others last time, the next time they see the same person, they will probably think, "He must not like me, so I will avoid it." ...

The self-centered way of thinking makes them retreat in social life, and they can't say what they want to say, which will inevitably lead to the decline of their language ability and social ability.