Mother curses, curses, cares about trifles, is overbearing and unreasonable, and has a serious cleanliness addiction. Why?

I am also a "bad mother". The words that hurt him the most are "Get out, who wants you to find someone", "I can't find an advantage in you", "People who eat shit have brains than you" and "I might as well get a dog". I usually repeat these four words. That's not what I meant. When I was angry, I couldn't help breaking his heart with all my strength. The fuse is all small things, such as the room is in a mess every day, the bed is dirty when eating in bed, the snack bag is not thrown away after eating, the paper towel (toothpaste, water, stationery and other daily necessities) is leaked, and people are ignored when talking to him. In my mother's eyes, I just don't cherish her labor, don't listen to her persuasion, don't cherish money and goods and don't respect others.

To change your mother, you should not only admit the fact that she is your mother from the bottom of your heart (rather than escape), but also treat her complaints about you as a wish list in the memo, or at least deal with the past face to face.

To keep you from being affected, in addition to trying to "optimize" the treatment of mothers, you should also listen to how other mothers scold their children. Maybe you can find a little different comedy color from the experience of "He is My Brother".