Why do you say that only a daughter-in-law can count on you when you are old?

Kant, a famous western philosopher, wrote this sentence in one of his works:

Only people around you can be reliable in life. ?

In most cases, the mother-in-law always treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider, but after all, her daughter-in-law is around and depends on her when she is old.

In most cases, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well. When my mother-in-law was young, she always felt that her daughter-in-law could do nothing well.

But everyone has an old day. Many times, when the mother-in-law is old, she will let her daughter-in-law take care of herself.

Mother-in-law has a lot of things to do, and there are other children, so when a daughter-in-law quarrels with herself, her mother-in-law always says:

I won't depend on you in the future. What do you mean to me ?

In fact, many times, the mother-in-law can only rely on the daughter-in-law.

Therefore, a clever mother-in-law will not say anything, but will leave a way out for herself.

0 1.

When I was very young, my mother and my grandmother never had a good relationship.

My grandmother has six or seven children, so she thinks that even if her daughter-in-law doesn't take care of herself, she will have a daughter who can take care of herself in the future.

Grandma always thinks like this, so she always rides on her mother's head at home and never gives her any face.

When I was six, my mother gave birth to my brother. At that time, I can still remember.

The day after my mother gave birth to my brother, my grandmother kept blaming my mother for doing something wrong and eating something wrong.

Later, grandma let my mother cook for herself.

In grandma's eyes, mom is irrelevant. She can do whatever she wants.

But when I was in the second grade, my grandmother got sick. When grandma was ill, none of the seven aunts and eight aunts in the family came home, only my mother and my father were at home.

Only my mother is taking care of my grandmother at this time, but my mother has been taking care of her.

Imagine, if my mother is a person who likes to hold grudges, then grandma will have no one to take care of after she gets sick.

So, sometimes some people don't want to say anything when they die. Maybe they didn't need a daughter-in-law to take care of them when they were young, and they felt that there were many children around them. But when they really encounter any difficulties or get sick, only their daughter-in-law will accompany them at this time.

02.

My best friend's mother also takes care of my best friend's grandmother.

My best friend's mother was also treated unfairly at home. My best friend's mother always thinks that she has been treated unfairly, but she can tolerate these things as long as she loves her husband.

My best friend's mother always thinks that my best friend's grandmother is not good to herself and may not need to take care of herself in the future.

However, it snowed heavily when I came home for the Spring Festival this year. My best friend's grandmother slipped when she went out to go to the bathroom, so she broke her leg.

My girlfriend's grandmother broke her leg and has been having a meeting in bed. At this time, her son, whom my girlfriend's grandmother always trusted, didn't come home.

My son doesn't go home, and there is only one daughter-in-law at home. My best friend's mother has been taking care of her mother-in-law at this time.

Sometimes, although some people are unwilling to take care of their mother-in-law, there is nothing they can do when such a thing happens.

Just like my best friend's mother, this is also the case. My best friend's mother said:

Although I don't want to take care of my mother-in-law, if I take care of my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law may be left unattended. ?

To this end, the mother of a best friend can only take care of her mother-in-law.

In fact, many times, if a person is sick, then only a daughter-in-law can take care of this person.

People who usually seem to be nice to you, but if you don't live in their house, they won't care if you have an accident.

Because you live in your daughter-in-law's house, if anything happens to you, your daughter-in-law can't turn a blind eye, but others can avoid it.

People sometimes don't have much hope for your children. Many times, children who usually look good to you will often approach you for the benefit.

But in most cases, many mothers-in-law are unwilling to trust their daughter-in-law and think that her daughter-in-law is just an outsider.

03.

When I was a child, this happened to my neighbors.

The neighbor's grandmother is a grumpy person, and so is the neighbor's old man. The old couple have the same temper.

The old couple have a bad temper, but they have a good daughter-in-law, who works hard at home and works hard outside.

One year, my son went to work in other places, but something happened while working in other places, which led to his son not coming back outside.

My son didn't come back outside, and my daughter-in-law worked at home for two years.

The old couple looked at their son, thinking that his son would come back soon, so they abused their daughter-in-law while his son was away.

Later, my son never came back, so he was sentenced to death four years later.

When his son was sentenced to death, all his property was thrown away by his wife because she had two children.

And two-thirds of this son's property belongs to this wife. So a wife should claim all her property.

When this happened to their son outside, the old couple completely lost hope. At this time, the old couple ran over to curry favor with their daughter-in-law.

Later, the old couple also called their daughter, but her daughter said:

My brother left and I didn't get any money. Why should I support you two? ?

Obviously, my daughter's attitude is very clear. The daughter doesn't want to support her parents, and their parents are facing the crisis of no one to support them.

At this moment, daughter-in-law stood up. Daughter-in-law said she could support two old people. At this time, the old people found that they can rely on their daughter-in-law.

It is not her duty for a daughter-in-law to support two old people for nothing, but her mutual affection.

Many times, if someone loses the other half, the daughter-in-law has a conscience and will take care of her parents.

One should know that if you are old, it is often your wife who can rely on you.

Although some people don't think highly of their daughter-in-law when she enters the door, they think that this daughter-in-law may be an outsider.

However, as an old saying goes:

The water spilled by the married daughter. ?

So when a woman marries your home, it means that she has come to your home wholeheartedly. At this time, you should treat each other wholeheartedly.

It must be clear that the daughter-in-law can be reliable in the future. The so-called:

Raise a soldier for a thousand days, and use it for a while. ?

Smart parents-in-law know that they must be kind to their daughters-in-law on weekdays, so that they can help themselves willingly if they encounter any difficulties.