Buying a house in the city has become the biggest fear of some rural parents.

A large number of farmers and their children find it difficult to find high-paying jobs in cities. After tightening my belt to buy a house, I live in a modern building and do nothing. At present, in the Sixth Five-Year Plan, "rural areas should be fed back to cities", and the meager income from planting or breeding will greatly subsidize children's modern consumption needs after austerity.

Poverty is a relative concept. If you earn 1 100 yuan and spend 1 100 yuan, you won't feel poor. But the huge gap between earning a piece and spending 100 thousand will make people "poor and crazy."

Under the tide of rural urbanization, every farmer is experiencing a different story. Whether the countryside supports the city or the city feeds back the countryside, the relationship between the countryside and the city falls on the individual and becomes a problem of life, illness and death.

In the hilly areas of central and southern Shandong, the rural economy varies greatly from place to place. In hilly areas, the development of greenhouse orchards has become a new attempt in some areas in recent years. Liu Wu (pseudonym) is an ordinary farmer living here, and his experience is a microcosm of the development of the times.

A few years ago, Liu Wu did something against his will. Last autumn, he led four people in the village to contract the peach tree greenhouse construction project in the village next door, with an agreed contract fee of 1.8 million yuan. The construction period is one month in total, and each person can get more than 3,000 yuan after completion. Because I don't have to go out and have flexible working hours, I can go home every day and my farm work at home will not be delayed. It is a good job opportunity to earn more than 3000 yuan a month.

But surprisingly, by the end of the year, everyone didn't get paid. The owners of the above-mentioned greenhouses, Zhang Yi (pseudonym) and Liu Wu, are junior high school students. Although there are not many contacts after graduation for more than 30 years, based on the relationship between classmates, the two sides still trust each other. Zhang Yi didn't default on his salary. He not only paid his salary in advance, but also gave thousands of dollars more. Liu Wu knows the whole story, but the other four villagers don't.

On the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month, firecrackers exploded in the northern New Year, and the money for the New Year has not yet been settled. I was in a hurry and met Zhang Yi. Zhang Yi was shocked and had to tell the truth: "The money has long been given to Liu Wu, only a lot more!"

Four people came to Zhang Yi, and Liu Wu immediately called Zhang Yi, hoping that Zhang Yi would help tell a lie and tell the four people that the salary would not be paid until the peaches were sold, and now there is no money. Although he is a classmate, Zhang Yi feels very embarrassed. I have no choice but to tell Liu Wu. I have told four people the truth, and I can't hide it.

Obviously, the salary was appropriated by Liu Wu. Why does the honest Liu Wu in everyone's eyes do such a dishonest thing? Zhang Yi was surprised, but because he knew a little about the situation at home, he guessed that he must have been confused by his son again.

Liu Wu has two sons and a daughter, both of whom are adults. With children and women, he doesn't have many opportunities to enjoy family happiness, but more is endless pressure. The eldest son got polio shortly after birth and lacked adequate treatment. Now at the age of 30, he can only "crawl" and can't take care of himself. The eldest daughter also married a "wage earner" after working outside the home and took care of herself. The second son is a mountain in Liu Wu's heart.

Zhang Yi guessed that the salary was transferred to his second son to save his dying marriage.

In the cultural tradition of rural areas in China since ancient times, having a house before marriage is almost a matter of learning. Not only does the woman think that the man should prepare a new house before marrying his wife, but even the man thinks so. I used to build a house for my son and marry a wife, but now I buy a house and marry a wife.

Buying a house has become the biggest fear of some rural parents. In the past, it was not difficult to choose a good piece of land in the village and work hard for a lifetime to build four tile houses. But now no girl wants to go back to the countryside to live in a tile house, so it is necessary to buy a building in the city.

For the woman, buying a house is first of all a face, because everyone buys it; Secondly, Lizi, because marriage is the last chance to decide your future destiny. For the man, getting married and having children is a natural choice. If you give your whole family, you will marry for your children. Getting married is even more important than starting a career.

Liu Wu is trapped here. My son married his daughter-in-law. Because his family was not well off, even if he borrowed money, he couldn't make a down payment, so he had to promise to buy a house after marriage, and he would definitely buy it. Because he dropped out of school early and didn't know a skill, his son now only works in a vegetable market in the city, selling vegetables at vegetable stalls, earning more than 1000 a month. Compared with the house price of about 5 thousand, the income of my son can't even meet the basic needs of a family of three. Year after year, the house is still not settled. With the growth of children's age, the contradiction between sons and daughters-in-law becomes more and more fierce.

In the process of building a greenhouse, the contradiction intensified to a climax. Liu Wu, who is welding on the steel frame of the greenhouse, has no choice but to interrupt his work again and again and go to the town for mediation. Knowing that Liu Wu was in trouble, Zhang Yi was eager to help others and lent him money again and again. Of course, he knew it was difficult to get the money back. The 250 yuan he lent to Liu Wu a few years ago hasn't been returned yet, and he doesn't want to talk about it again.

1February 29th, the last day of the Year of the Sheep. Zhang Yi came to Liu Wu's home, and four other villagers also met. Not too many complaints, not too many accusations. Everyone knows that Liu Wu will never move such a crooked mind unless he has to. Finally, Liu Wu wrote an IOU to everyone and promised to pay it off slowly next year.

This account has been settled for the time being, but Liu Wu's bitter days are far from over. Zhang Yi learned from the village that the peach shed that Liu planted for more than five years was returned to others, leaving his wife to take care of his eldest son and grandson at home. Despite being over 50 years old, Liu Wu, who has experienced many vicissitudes, decided to work in the city next year and pay off her debts slowly.

The second son didn't go home for the New Year, only his little grandson was at home. Even if he moved everyone's salary against his will, Liu Wu still couldn't help his son to keep his daughter-in-law, so he had to end up divorced.

Similar stories abound in central Shandong where Liu Wu and Zhang Yi live.

With the popularity of mobile phones and computers, a new generation of farmers and urban people have the same material and spiritual needs. They are eager to enjoy the wealth of modern scientific and technological development and share the fruits of civilization and progress. They want to wear fashionable clothes, buy high-end smart phones, drive comfortable cars, live in modern houses and enjoy a convenient life. They hope to turn everything they know through the Internet into real material possession.

However, except for Phoenix Man and Fung Wong-Nui, who took root in the city through hard work, and a few elites who entered the city step by step through hard work, most of the bottom-level "migrant workers" have the consumption demand of urbanization, but failed to form the income ability of urbanization. Their children need to go to school, need food, clothing, housing and transportation, and are already overwhelmed.

As the first batch of "new citizens" who enter the city in the new century, how to support their parents is likely to cause more problems.

The wealth transmission chain of urban feeding back to rural areas is facing crisis. In the traditional past, rural people went out to work, earned money, went home to build a house, completed the important life event of getting married and having children, and then embarked on the right track, worked hard and lived a simple life. In recent years, the "post-peasant" generation who completed urbanization through reading and starting a business has been "feeding back" the countryside by repaying their parents and subsidizing relatives and friends.

Zhang Yi is luckier than Liu Wu, that is, all his children have graduated from college, and they have a relatively stable job and a slightly rich income in the city. Not only do children not want them, but they often give Zhang Yi some subsidies.

There are also a large number of farmers like Liu Wu, whose children find it difficult to find high-paying jobs in cities, live in modern buildings, and have nothing to do after tightening their belts to buy a house. At present, during the Sixth Five-Year Plan, rural areas have to be fed back to cities, and the meager income from planting or breeding will greatly subsidize children's modern consumption needs after austerity.

When making money piece by piece and spending 1 1 10,000 yuan, "poor and crazy" parents have to squeeze the rest of their lives indefinitely.

Urbanization should not just be about buying houses in cities.

(The above answers were published on 20 16-02- 16. Please refer to the actual situation for the current purchase policy. )

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