How to deposit and withdraw money from emotional accounts

Emotional account is a metaphor of interpersonal relationship. What is in this account is trust, value and emotion. The so-called interpersonal relationship processing in emotional intelligence is essentially the deposit and withdrawal behavior of emotional accounts.

So how do you maintain your emotional account?

First, form a good habit of saving money at hand.

We should pay attention to this point. When we buy help for others, we should not always think about when the other party will return it. If I help you, you have to repay me.

At best, it's a piece of cake.

Second, beware of unconscious abstinence.

Unconscious withdrawal behavior includes

Ask for praise in the group, send WeChat to canvass children, forward articles in the group, sell products privately, and pull friends into large groups without others' consent.

Also, don't disturb others easily when you can solve things yourself.

Third, accept help from others.

Accepting other people's help properly will make us have deeper feelings for each other.

Article summary, from your business school, basic personal articles, Chapter 2.