Those who lend you money must be true love, and those who don't may have been hurt.

I have read such a story that a rich second generation father asked his son to pretend to be bankrupt and went to search his address book to borrow money to test how many real friends he had. Finally, as my father expected, it is not necessarily true friends who usually eat, drink and have fun together, but true love. This story is widely circulated by everyone, and borrowing money has become the standard to test sincerity. Borrowing is true love; If you don't borrow it when I'm in trouble, I'm sorry, please get out of my circle of friends. Filter out a group of friends.

Here, I want to ask you, do you agree with this idea? Most people agree, right?

Let me ask you one more question. If you saw an old man fall by the roadside, would you help him? Is the person who says "help" sincere or afraid of being kidnapped by morality? Have you ever worried that your kindness will be treated as a donkey's liver and lungs after getting help, and then trampled by the donkey? Really? A few years ago, the so-and-so incident of helping the elderly made a lot of noise, and it was even regarded as a joke and made into a video for entertainment after dinner. (Funny video, video of old people being cheated into pregnancy in turn) Have you seen this ironic video, is it funny? Interesting, but sadder. When did everyone become so cold-blooded? Since when did everyone start to have this idea that it's none of their business, and it's better to do more than one thing? Is it true that everyone in China has reached the point of being cold-blooded and heartless, and there is no response when the old man falls? I believe that most people still want to help the old man when he falls, but the left brain and the right brain are fighting fiercely. Perception tells us to help, and our hearts want to help. Rationality also tells us that your kindness to help you may be regarded as a donkey's liver and lung. Helping you may be wrong, and helping you may hurt yourself.

Let's go back to the first story of borrowing money. If you used to lend money to others out of kindness, when you encounter difficulties in the future, the borrower will not only become your uncle, but next time a friend will tell you that I am in financial difficulties recently and need to turn around for two days. Will you still borrow it? Will you still believe it at this time? You may have been hurt by one person, but you will still lend it to a second person. If one person is like this, two people are like this, and three people are like this, will you still believe when the fourth person may be a really difficult person? Wolves are coming, too many wolves are coming.

I know a girl, Xiao Z, who started her own business. I met another girl who started a business, Xiao Y, and said that she needed funds to pay the factory for two days. Xiao Z feels that both of us are unhappy-at the end of the day, no one is a girl who is struggling to start a business, and it is really not easy to feel the same. Xia Nv even gave Xiao Y a helping hand, and without saying that she didn't even play the IOUs, she called the other party with more than 50,000 left in the card. Why do you say that righteousness is above family loyalty? Because her father needed money at the same time, she helped Xiao Y, who felt it was not easy to start a business, and asked her father for a loan. Is this also a kind of infidelity, so infidelity has no good end. The end of the story is that two days become two days later, another few days later, next week, tomorrow, another two days later, and it will never end. Here, let's explain their entrepreneurship. They are all in the same city. Xiao z is a foreigner and needs to rent a house for various expenses. After starting a business for several years, it is still at a loss stage. Xiao y is a local. She and her husband have a house and a car, her mother lives in the local area, and her parents and sisters. Her business is more stable than Xiao Z, with stable customers and orders.

If you think you just have no money, you are wrong. Lies that have no moral integrity and no lower limit again and again have become synonymous again and again, and must have become something that has not been done again and again. In the end, it was really difficult for Xiao Z to go to her house to ask for money, but it became a grievance. Let's take a look at this chat, shall we? At this time, little Z was not only materially affected by money, but also mentally traumatized. It is not enough to express the scene at that time: all those who owe money are grandfathers, and all those who owe money are hooligans. People who owe money are more arrogant than those who ask for money. Fierce people, angry people, cold people, regretful people and kind people are shamelessly trampled under their feet. Excuse me, what lessons will you learn? You can't just lend money to others. If you lend it out, there must be an intention not to come back. The money you lend must be within your ability. Me, that little z.

Seeing the old man who fell on the side of the road, we dare not help him for fear of being misunderstood; People who see that the real mobile phone is dead are afraid to borrow it because they are afraid that it will be cheated; When you see a child on the side of the road who really has no money to eat, you dare not give him five dollars and ten dollars to buy food, because the street is full of liars like that; When you meet a friend who is really in trouble, you dare not help, because you are afraid that the borrowed money will not come back. Asking for money is not a matter of course, but an unkind thing. When your kindness is cheated again and again, you are hurt again and again, so you take back a little bit of your kindness and goodwill again and again until you dare not show your kindness again, because you are afraid of being hurt, because you are afraid that your kindness and conscience will be trampled. Therefore, it's not that we don't want to help the elderly, to give warmth to those in need by the roadside, and to lend your helping hand when friends are in trouble, but that we have less integrity and more harm. If every old man and his family, even the society, can be grateful for helping others, if there is not so much money on the roadside to help me go home, if there are not so many people whose mobile phones have been cheated, if you can even be grateful for the money I lent you, if everyone can keep their integrity, keep their conscience and have such a grateful heart when they are helped, then I think we will not hesitate when the above situation happens again in this society.

So, it's not that I don't want to lend you money, but please keep your promise and keep your integrity. Borrowed and returned, it is not difficult to borrow again!