A 450-word composition, written to a friend's heart.

Dear parents, I don't know if you have noticed that a family of three is together every day, but they rarely tell each other what they are talking about, almost zero. Today I want to talk to you with my pen and my heart.

Who never thought that all their children would become dragons and phoenixes among people? I can understand you. You are often very strict with your children, not only to make them outstanding in school and in all aspects, but also to make them become independent people in life. We want to do well and try to do well, but we will also do a lot of things badly in the process of hard work. It is because of all these mistakes that you are always nagging. I know this is love for our children, but can we accept the way you love? Mom and dad, you always demand perfection from your children, but have you ever considered whether you are too harsh? "There is no shortage of gold, and no one is perfect." I hope parents can understand our hearts as children.

In modern families, quarreling has become a common occurrence. Mom said a word, dad answered it, and soon the quarrel broke out. But you know what? As children, we are really in a dilemma at the moment. On the one hand, she is a kind mother full of maternal love, on the other hand, she is a very admirable father. We really don't know who to help. Our hearts are full of contradictions and helplessness. I know as children, we have no right to judge you. After all, you are parents. But I sincerely hope that you can think and measure from the standpoint and angle of our children. After that, you will understand, you will understand, you will understand that when parents quarrel, the most contradictory and painful thing is the child. After your quarrel, it was all over, even after the rain cleared, but what you left us was an indelible shadow. This is an invisible harm to us! You know, the love we need is more than one person can bear. It takes three people to work together.

But in any case, mom and dad will always be the closest people in our minds. No matter how inappropriate your education method is, it is still your love for your children. Because the greatest love in the world is maternal love and fatherly love! Today, I said a heartfelt word to all my parents. I hope every family life can be happy, and I hope all children in the world can live in a happy family!

Tell mom what she's thinking.

Dear Mom:

Hello! Today, I'm going to give you what I've been holding in my heart for a long time. Please don't get angry.

Mom, to be honest, I am more tired than going to school in summer vacation. You always keep me studying and studying. Math, English, composition, calligraphy-all occupy my carefree play time, and even watching TV is restricted by you. I remember once, I sat on the sofa and turned on the TV to relax after finishing four pages of study questions. Hearing the noise, he immediately came in and turned off the TV and said, "It's time to practice English listening. You should study hard now and be admitted to a famous university in the future ... "So, I was forced into my room again, listening to the deafening English, just like the Tang Priest chanting a spell to the Monkey King. My head really hurts. Mom, is it worth going to college? You always tell me how hard you work at school and how good your grades are ... mom, are you the only one who has been admitted to college? Isn't there anyone stronger than you who is admitted to graduate school and doctor's degree? Why not compare with them, but with me, a pupil?

Mom, I know that I will always be a child in your eyes, and sometimes your promise makes me lose face, you know? On my birthday, you promised to come back at night and buy me a big birthday cake. That day, I have been immersed in happiness. Learning anything is interesting. In the evening, I made an appointment with some good friends to share my happiness. But we waited and waited, and you came back empty-handed. In the face of my friend's disappointment, I feel ashamed and can't wait to find a crack in the ground. Mom, how could you forget the story you told me about Ceng Zi killing pigs? You often tell me to be honest and trustworthy, but how can you break your word? Can adults fool children at will?

Mom, although you have many mistakes to do, many of your advantages have benefited me for life. I thank you from the bottom of my heart and respect you-my good mother.

Wish you all the best.

Good health! All the best!

Your daughter (son): XX

XX year XX month XX day

Talk to your parents.

There are no parents who don't love their children, and there have never been children who don't love their parents.

I hope more parents will become readers of this article, because it describes many worries and hopes of my peers.

There are all kinds of children in the world, and the parents in the world are even different. I am not qualified to say such things and write such articles alone, but when I talked about this topic among my classmates, their distress, their anxiety and their pure hope from the heart shocked me again and again. I can no longer be indifferent to the sufferings of two generations in that family. I picked up a pen, and I want to talk about many words accumulated in our hearts.

Parents, when your child grows into a teenager, you may think that this child is very different from his childhood. If you are more sensitive, you will feel that children are not as close to themselves as before. They sometimes quarrel with you; Sometimes I don't go home until I play late with my friends; If they live on campus, they will definitely go home less and less. This will definitely make you feel bad. After all, watching grown-up children become so indifferent to their families. It's really a big mistake for the child to stay! Of course, we children have less thoughts about our parents, but which child naturally hates their parents and their own home?

For parents, our requirements are sometimes almost harsh, and we always think that they should be strong in everything, but in fact this idea is almost utopian, especially when we first entered middle school. When we ask our parents some questions about life or everything in the universe, but they just can't answer them, they feel that their parents can't rely on them. They are adults. With this sense of superiority, their prestige in the eyes of children began to decline. I think this is a critical moment for family feelings to change. Any parent, if he can't grasp this opportunity of emotional change, will form a distance with his children, resulting in a growing gap.

Some parents complained: "The older the child, the more difficult it is to serve." Indeed, with the improvement of material living standards, many parents provide their children with quite comfortable learning and living conditions. However, we don't think this is happiness. We need more spiritual care and comfort.

First of all, we need parents' understanding. We need parents to really understand us and understand us. This is too important. We really have a lot to say. Whenever we are ready to talk to our parents about our troubles or some thoughts, what we are most afraid of is that our parents are so nervous that they make innuendo remarks or make some totally irrelevant opinions without listening to you. I have a classmate who lives on campus and went back to school from home early on Sunday. It turned out that he was angry with his family. At dinner on Saturday, she casually chatted with her mother: "There are people in love in our school, and I …" Before the words were finished, her mother said: "Did you talk too?" Then there are things like "puppy love is useless" and "affecting study". Finally, he said, "If you want to do such a worthless thing, don't go home!" This classmate is so miserable that he can't speak for a long time. She is a strong girl who despises puppy love. Can you not be angry at your mother's indiscriminate "care" and "education"? We often say "suit the right medicine" and "teach students in accordance with their aptitude". Can parents criticize their children without knowing their specific thoughts? This kind of education is not effective, which hurts children's self-esteem and has a great emotional gap with their parents. It is better to do as few bad things as possible. I think it is very important for parents to study their children seriously, exchange opinions with them sincerely and have a clear understanding of them. Some parents always look at their children with old eyes, as if they were still nursing. This kind of insecurity and distrust makes their children feel depressed. This situation is not uncommon.

Secondly, I hope parents can give priority to their children. It's not that we didn't tell our parents from the heart, but that our parents were either not interested in what we said or busy answering, which made us feel quite bored. In this way, there is a close relationship between students, so many students would rather tell their intimate friends than talk to their parents.

Then don't hurt the child's enthusiasm. We have just entered the road of life, full of fantasy and enthusiasm for the world. Of course, life itself is serious. Don't be too romantic about life, but you need to guide it slowly. However, some parents always use the misfortune in life to give life some gloomy attributes, and use their children's indifference to laugh at their children's enthusiasm. I remember that many students shed tears when listening to the report of the British model report group, but some of our parents said instead, "Can't people do this when they are on the battlefield?" How cold and bitter! Dear parents, why do you describe your misfortune in our future life? Why should we be taught to look at life from the perspective of a bystander? You may be right. You can't compare the depth, sharpness and complexity of the problem, but you shouldn't have an opinion on everything, don't judge rashly without knowing the situation, and cherish our enthusiasm, because our society needs this kind of enthusiasm.

Finally, I hope parents treat their children equally and pay special attention to adolescent children. Parents of two children often prefer one, and those children who are not cared for by their parents feel very painful and depressed at home. Nine times out of ten, they feel that their family is not warm. Other parents don't care about their adolescent children, which makes them more ashamed to ask questions that they are already embarrassed to ask, so they will feel lonely at home. In this way, they have to go outside to find warmth, which is probably one of the reasons for middle school students' puppy love, and so is our class.

Children have no right to choose their parents, but we want to have a good father and mother. What feelings in the world can compare with the affection between father and son? May we all cherish this beautiful feeling and never let it disappear, because it is a painful thing for everyone.