Don't love me, if it's just loneliness, if it won't last long

1. Maybe you are the only one who understands me, so you didn’t escape.

2. How can you not be lonely when the love is deep? When the love is strong, you will feel worried.

3. Everyone’s heart is a battlefield littered with corpses.

4. How can I love you so that I can travel through time without being vain or crazy.

5. Even if there is an abyss behind, who will come to me regardless of the cost just because I am on the edge of the cliff.

6. The rain kept falling outside, making the boy's eyes wet and the girl's heart cold.

7. I have also had the chaotic youth of brilliant clear skies and gloomy years.

8. Let me remember your appearance and forget you in the crowd.

9. The uninhabited island is full of white roses with memories.

10. When you stabbed me with a sharp knife, I could only look at the blood on my body with tears on my face.

11. I know that you love me through your mouth and not through your heart.

12. How many days do you love me, how many years do I remember you.

13. My heart is a bird in the wilderness, seeing the sky in your eyes.

14. I thought that meeting you was a blessing, but it turned out to be a disaster.

15. Later, I gave you your freedom and withdrew the road leading to you.

16. You are my dream, everything will be easy to say tomorrow.

17. I heard that there are new faces around you, and I heard that you often pass by my alley.

18. If you keep it clean, I will leave no trace and tell the story as if it were true.

19. How many times have you broken your dreams and ruined them so many times? It’s me who is paranoid and still, as always, I am seriously ill.

20. You go to find your heavenly light, and I continue my exile. Saying hello to each other is irrelevant. Say sentences when you are in a bad mood: If you love me, don’t hurt me

1. If you love me, don’t hurt me. Whenever I am sad alone, I always use some sad songs. To comfort your soul. Although I once loved you so deeply, and you loved me so deeply; although once, we held hands happily together, enjoyed sweet love together, and looked forward to the beautiful life that would belong to us in the future. But now all this has gone far away. Now we are far apart, and the distance in our hearts seems to be getting farther and farther.

2. Only after you have loved can you know the pain. After you have loved, you know what bitterness is, and even more so, you know what sweetness is, because the sky of love is always accompanied by wind and rain. Missing you, I know what heartache is, a soft and painful feeling that will always fill my heart and never go away. Having loved, I understand what giving up is, and even more so, I understand what cherishing is. I naively thought that if I gave double love, I would get more than this. Only those who have given too much can understand the heartache and embarrassment. Have the withered roses begun to haggard due to injury? The sorrowful dreams will never be replaced by the tears of heartache. The heavy fatigue can only be faced alone, without feedback, and all expectations turn into heartbreak.

3. Do I want to forget you and start a new life? I want to let go of the past and find my own happiness again? I no longer have anything to do with you, because you no longer belong to me, because my fragile emotional defense line cannot withstand any blow, you know? We once agreed to forget each other and start a new life after we broke up. We once agreed that after we broke up, we would stop asking each other whether we were happy or not, but why? When your news drifts into my ears inadvertently, when I know that you like to search for your former self in the smoke, you can get a so-called comfort under the anesthesia of alcohol, and you like the feasting and feasting of nightlife. Why does my heart hurt so much that I can't breathe.

4. We are not afraid of experiences in life, but we are afraid that after the experiences, they will disappear like smoke and dust at the end of our lives. When we look back and chase again, everything is already a thing of the past.

Perhaps, when you wake up one morning, you will be unable to capture anything except smelling the freshness of life. In this life, we are all destined to miss it. Perhaps, every miss is for a better tomorrow.

5. After you left, it started to snow in my world. Although it was only October, it was still early for winter, let alone in the south where we have only seen snow in pictures and TV. Floating and feather-like, not sparing any corner. Wrapping up my coat tightly, I hid in bed tiredly. The cold winter still invaded my body, letting the goose-feather-like snow rub and collide with the weakest place deep in my heart without restraint. At that moment, I had no voice and no world of color. I just hoped that the snow would fall harder and cover my body and mind together. Unable to think or breathe, he just fell asleep, leaving the thousand-year-old ice sculpture in the world.

6. A person has too many worries just because his memory is too good. So I began to forget, really forget, that we no longer contacted or saw each other, and our respective lives became two parallel lines that would intersect forever.

7. It hurt, so much that I cried, so I chose to let go. Letting go is a kind of helpless despair. It hurts my heart. I once thought that I could hold you all the way like this, but after I let go, I realized that everything is just an accidental intersection of two parallel lines. When everything disappears, the parallels are still parallel, even if they are not far apart. Far away, people are already at the end of the world.

8. I once thought that my heart would no longer hurt, but today I still feel extremely painful! Yesterday's happiness has become a trace. I persuaded myself cruelly, forcing myself to speed up the pace of leaving, not to let it take away a cloud of the past, even though those rays of light have been immersed in every corner of my thoughts. Although on the way away, without warning, a certain fragment of the past will surge up vividly in an instant, like an electric shock, stinging your and my pretended to be numb hearts. Dreaming back at midnight, the moonlight is cold. Although sad, there are always no regrets.

9. Many things can only be understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, only after experiencing pain can you know how to protect yourself; only after being stupid can you know how to persist and give up at the right time. In gaining and losing, we slowly get to know ourselves. To love you is to make you happy and make you happy. Love is a questionnaire with no answer. Hard pursuit cannot make life more complete. Maybe a little regret and a little sadness will make this answer last forever and last longer.

10. I missed time, I missed you, and I also missed a true love. Today, I don’t want to feel any more sadness or regret. I just want to bravely express my inner thoughts, even if it ends up being hurtful. Cherish yourself. Classic mood phrases. If you can afford not to smoke, don’t. If you can avoid drinking, don’t drink.

1. If you send a text message to a person and never reply, don’t send it again. There is no such humble waiting.

2. If there is no one to accompany you, learn to listen to music, read and write a diary of your mood alone. This is a good habit.

3. If a person is sad, find a corner or cry under the quilt. You don’t need other people’s sympathy, and you will live happily after crying.

4. If a person starts to neglect you, please leave. Don't be reluctant to give up on people who don't know how to cherish you, let alone continue to give your friendship or love. In the end, you will be hurt, and others will not feel sad for them.

5. If you can avoid smoking, don’t. If you can avoid drinking, don't. This is a sign of not caring about your body. If it’s just because of some people, then don’t be stupid. People who love you will not make you sad.

6. When you are sad, find a trusted friend to tell it to. Don’t bear it in silence alone. This will only make your loneliness and sadness more intense.

7. When you are unhappy, look at the blue sky during the day and the night at night. The vast sky has its own love for us. We would rather be arrogant and moldy than be in low-key love. Tell yourself that I am the best. Stay confident.

8. It is better to be deficient than to overdo it. Don't grab a lover just because you're lonely. It's unfair to both of you and lacks a sense of responsibility. Find a close friend, not a lover.

9. Remember the birthdays of the people you like, including your family and, of course, yourself. It doesn’t matter if no one gives you a gift on your birthday. You can buy beautiful gifts for mom and dad.

10. When you are free, play some soft music, read a few pages of a good book, and then take a nap, it will be nice. When you are in a bad mood, you can also take a nap.

11. From now on, be smart and don’t ask others if they miss you? Do they love you? If they miss you or love you, they will naturally tell you, but when it comes out of your mouth, Others will be proud and not care about you.

12. Don’t care too much about some people and things. Let nature take its course and face it with the best attitude, because the world is so unfair and we often have the least value in front of the things we care about most.

13. Don’t torture yourself for anyone or anything. For example, not eating, crying, being autistic, and being depressed are all things that fools do. Of course, it's necessary to be stupid occasionally, and you don't have to be smart all the time in life.

14. Do not say anything behind others’ backs under any circumstances. If you must say something, say something nice. It is a good thing to have many friends, even if they are not very good friends, it is much better than having one more enemy because you speak carelessly and do not think carefully.

15. Watching soap operas occasionally is allowed, but it cannot become a dependence. Occasional casualness is allowed, but be mindful of the occasion. It's okay to swear occasionally, but only in front of old friends or when you're alone, and remember to forget about the things that upset you.

16. You must have a few friends of the opposite sex who don’t have any undue thoughts. They are friends who can help you with advice at critical times.

17. Learn to endure pain and adjust your mentality. Some words are suitable to rot in the heart, and some painful words are suitable to be forgotten silently. Once you have experienced it and you have grown, you will know it. There are many changes that you don’t need to say yourself, others will see them.

18. Avoid quarreling with others as much as possible. An angry person is very scary and can become a madman because he cannot control his emotions. Be patient, think about the root of the problem, and finally solve it with a calm mind.

19. No matter who you have conflicts or awkwardness with, the time to resolve them should not exceed 24 hours. Otherwise there will be more trouble. Within an acceptable range, apologize first. Allowing yourself to be a bad person is not really a bad thing.

Life can be very complicated or very simple. We should not always live in sorrow and pain. Love yourself more! Don’t feel that life is always so painful and helpless because of some unworthy things. , the steering wheel of life is in our own hands, one day the sunshine road is waiting for us, let go of yourself, live proudly, as long as you are happy, let the painful past injuries go with the wind. If you really love me, please let me go

The night at this moment is like a ferocious devil, raging fiercely in my heart, making me feel such fear and despair.

Your words are still echoing in my ears. You said you wanted to come see me, but even though I refused repeatedly, it was to no avail. My heart suddenly shivered with coldness. I don’t know what your arrival means, although you just said you missed me and wanted to come and see me. However, I can no longer feel the taste of love in it. On the contrary, I have fear and disgust that I have never had before. Now I really don’t know how to understand this online love. The happiness and sweetness I once had are no longer there. It no longer exists, only the suffocation and panic that makes me feel breathless.

Since you raised the money in front of me, this feeling has changed in my heart. I really began to wonder whether you have ever truly loved me, and whether this was just a trap set by you.

But this relationship used to be so beautiful in my heart, and I really don’t want to associate you with a liar, but now what you do, how can you not make me question this relationship?

I remember it was one night last winter, because my tire was flat and I was freezing in the wild. I was very depressed and I wrote about it in my post after I went back. They never talked to me that day. You replied: Do you drive a car? I replied with a yes, so you called to say hello, and then we started chatting online.

In fact, I have been paying attention to your activities for a long time. I know that you are a recognized talent in the space and you are quite popular. I am also a woman who likes words, and I always write some thoughts and insights about life in the space, but I know that I can’t compare with a great talent like you, so I really felt flattered when I chatted with you. Feel. What I didn’t even expect was that not long after, you told me that you fell in love with me, and even wrote poems for me publicly in your space. At that time, I was reserved. Although online dating was very popular on the Internet, I never thought of connecting this word with myself. But you said it so sincerely. Even though I kept refusing, you never gave up. You still wrote love poems and said love words to me. In the end, I couldn't withstand your temptation and fell in love with you online. relation.

I once asked you stupidly: You are a famous talent. From your profile, it can be seen that many female netizens admire you, and some even explicitly say they like you. And why did you choose the very ordinary me? You replied: That’s because you give me a very pure feeling, like a girl who is inexperienced in the world, making people feel pitiful and painful! After listening to your words, I I was instantly intoxicated, intoxicated by this affectionate love!

Later on, I followed you in learning to write poems. Whenever I see the poems we both composed, they are liked and admired by space friends. My heart felt extremely sweet, so we became an enviable couple on the Internet. All space friends have blessed our Internet romance, saying that we are just like Fu Disheng and Ren Jing in the music industry, and we will definitely compose a legend in Internet literature.

I was so happy at that time, thinking I had found the prince of my dreams, and I would be immersed in the happiness you gave me every day. Although sometimes some of your actions make me very uncomfortable, for example: you don’t let me chat with other male netizens online, and finally you ask for my QQ password, and you make surprise checks from time to time. Whenever a male netizen Whenever I call to say hello, you will block me without even saying a word. In the end, my opposite-sex netizens have almost blocked you, and the rest are just waiting for you. Although many friends could not understand this at the time, I never blamed you, because I understood the reason why you did this as love! I would always tell myself that it was because you loved me that I did this!

From your words, I learned that your life was very difficult, and I also knew that you had been a miserable child since you were a child. Whenever you tell me about the suffering you suffered as a child, my heart will hurt. I feel sorry for your suffering and how difficult it is for you, so in addition to comforting you, I always want to share something with you every time. Considering that my financial situation is slightly better than yours, I call you every time, and we chat for a long time. I have never felt sorry for the phone bill, and I will even recharge your phone bill from time to time. In fact, what I do is It's not because I have money, but because I love you! This love is so pure and beautiful in my heart. We are like two immortal partners who cannot eat the fireworks of the world, writing our online love legend on the Internet. .

However, what I didn’t expect was that one day half a year later, you suddenly asked me to borrow money, saying that you had contracted a project and the funds were not available for the time being, and asked me if I could lend you 10,000 yuan first. After hearing this, I really wanted to help you, but unfortunately, a lot of things happened at home during that time and I spent a lot of money, so it was a bit difficult for me to come up with 10,000 yuan at once, so I agreed. I lent you five thousand. I could see that you were unhappy at the time, but you didn't say anything else. Coincidentally, in those few days, several friends invited me to travel to your city. I told you about this, and you asked me to meet you. I love you so much, and of course I hope to meet you. , so I happily agreed.

Thinking that I can see the person I love so much soon makes me excited.

However, that meeting was not very pleasant. You talked about borrowing money several times from beginning to end. Since I didn’t bring so much with me at the time, I agreed to go back and send it to you. On the train back, you sent several messages in succession, asking me not to forget to send money as soon as I got back. Suddenly I felt unhappy, confused, and even doubted your love. After we parted, you didn't care about whether I got home safely, but you kept urging me for money. This made me feel very uncomfortable. I don't know which one is more important in your heart, me or money!

No I am happy but unhappy. Since I promised you, I am ready to fulfill my promise. However, I don't know if it was God's will, but just when I was about to send you money, another accident happened at home. I had no choice but to explain the situation to you truthfully and apologize to you. Originally, I thought you would understand, and I even thought I could get some comfort from you. But I didn’t expect that you would change your face in an instant, saying that I was just lying to you, and that if I really loved you, I wouldn’t have failed to help you when you were in trouble. You also said that the promises I made were all lies, and that from now on you Just believe in yourself. Your words are like a cold sword, which makes my heart bleed! I don’t know why you would say such hurtful words. Is it difficult to prove that I love you only if I give you money? ?Why can't you consider my situation and feelings? It's not that I refuse to help you, it's because I no longer have the ability to help you! Do you really have to ask me to abandon my home to take care of you? Do I love you? However, you never listen to any explanation from me. You only say that I am a cold and cruel woman. I want to cry but have no tears!

In the following days, you didn’t answer my phone calls and ignored me when you talked on QQ. I was really frustrated. I never thought that our love would be so pale and vulnerable in the face of money! Your indifference made a mockery of our past love, and I began to question this relationship. Later, you told me that you dropped your phone because you were angry with me, and now you have no use for it. After the card was replaced, you lost a lot of business numbers, which also delayed a lot of business. After hearing this, I felt guilty, I asked for your account number and gave you a thousand yuan to buy a mobile phone. But this relationship has changed in my heart. Online dating is a very beautiful spiritual love in my heart. It should not have entered reality, let alone be linked to money. However, you have put this My sacredness has been trampled on!

When I chat with you in the future, you will take the trouble to tell me your past misfortune and current helplessness. The more I listen, the more I will become numb and can no longer find it. The distressed feeling I had before is gone, and I am even beginning to doubt your motives. I don’t know if you simply just want to talk, or if you are trying to arouse my sympathy to achieve some purpose of your own. Let’s not talk about your real intention. As a man, you should not blame others when faced with difficulties. A real man must first be confident, self-respecting and self-respecting. I don’t know why you talk about yourself every day. Like a wretch. Nine times out of ten, life will be unsatisfactory. There will be many ups and downs in everyone's life. If you bravely step over them, they will be over. As a man, you should have a backbone that cannot be crushed by mountains. The road must be walked by oneself, rather than waiting for help from others!

However, no matter what I say, I can't change you, you are still He would often talk about the painful life experiences that I had heard thousands of times, and I was really getting impatient. So, I began to avoid you intentionally or unintentionally, trying to get out of this online relationship. But you didn't give up and kept looking for me again and again. I tried to ignore it and even changed my mobile phone number to QQ. And after you couldn't find me, you kept updating your words in the space to express your love and longing for me. My heart softened again, so I asked you to talk. I originally just thought that we could still be friends, but I didn't expect that you refused to agree. Today you insisted on coming to me, and I couldn't let you give up this decision until you went offline.

Do you know? Your decision makes me panic. I don’t know what kind of disaster your arrival will bring to me! I originally just wanted to maintain a pure relationship online, but I never I never thought about going into reality, let alone that it would affect my family, but what you are doing now clearly makes me feel an invisible threat. I don't know what the real purpose of your coming is, is it just because you said you missed me, or is there another purpose. All I can do is resign myself to fate. I don’t know how God will end this fate. It doesn’t matter to me anymore. I just want to go back to my old life and live my ordinary life. I love my home, my children, and my husband. Only now do I know that these are the only things I need and are the most important! I don’t want your arrival to mess up or even destroy all of this. !

I just want to say to you now, for the happiness we have in each other's lives, will you give up your decision? Don't come to me, let everything we have before become a beautiful one. Memories, let us put an end to this love affair that we should not have, and let each of us return to our original life track, play our own roles, and live our original lives well.

If you really love me, don’t make things difficult for me! If you really love me, please let me go, okay?!