There is no need to buy new clothes for the baby during the Spring Festival, which is a waste of money. The woman answered coldly. Did she do the right thing?

Near the end of the year, every household will buy new clothes in addition to buying a lot of new year's goods. However, many adults now feel that it doesn't matter whether they buy new clothes or not, but they can't live without children.

Normal families don't have much right and wrong about these, so they should celebrate the New Year. But when it comes to mother-in-law relationship, some people will take the opportunity to say something to these parents.

However, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been unable to get along, either because the mother-in-law interferes too much or the daughter-in-law is not sensible.

In real life, some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will quarrel over such trivial things as buying new year's goods or clothes.

Xiao Shuang has been living with her in-laws since she got married, not because she and her husband can't afford a house, but because her husband's brother and brother are both in other places after they got married.

My in-laws are very old and my mother-in-law has been in poor health. Xiao Shuang, who lives together, can also cook for them and take care of them.

However, in daily life, Xiao Shuang had to be questioned by her mother-in-law. She feels extremely free to live with her mother-in-law, but it is not good to move out.

In fact, their conditions are not bad, but both husband and wife are very economical. Adults have two sets of clothes every season, and sons have several sets. The main reason is that children's clothes get dirty quickly, and they are afraid that they can't change clothes, so they have prepared a few more.

Because she lives with her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law always likes to tell her what to do with their lives. Every time I buy clothes for my son, my mother-in-law quickly asks how much it costs to buy clothes.

Besides, her mother-in-law often goes to Xiao Shuang's room to see their wardrobe. To put it bluntly, my mother-in-law is worried that they will spend money indiscriminately. Xiao Shuang knows that her mother-in-law is kind, and she can understand.

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But every time her mother-in-law stops them from spending money indiscriminately, she always looks down on them. On one occasion, Xiao Shuang bought himself a pair of trousers, which only cost 50 yuan. Mother-in-law said, "Just have clothes to wear. Why buy so many clothes? "

She said she couldn't change a pair of trousers before buying them. Her mother-in-law said that her daughter-in-law was so careful when she had money, unlike you who were poor and didn't know how to save.

There are many situations like this. Xiao Shuang didn't want to argue with her mother-in-law. She waited patiently again and again. However, this time, the Chinese New Year is coming, and she casually said, I don't know what clothes to buy for my son.

Mother-in-law took it and said, "It's a waste of money not to buy new clothes for the baby in the New Year. You are not like other rich families. It doesn't matter if the baby has clothes to wear. "

It's really hard to listen to the words between the words. Originally, the couple's life was not bad, but every day they were told by their mother-in-law that they were too poor to buy things.

My mother-in-law used to say forget it. Now her son is so young, thinking about the Spring Festival, buying a dress for the child, and the mother-in-law has to take care of it, which is too wide.

Immediately, Xiao Shuang changed her attitude towards her mother-in-law in the past and said coldly: "Whose child doesn't buy new clothes for the New Year, and how much can it cost to buy clothes for the baby?" We are not as shabby as you say, and we can't even afford a dress. "

Usually, Xiao Shuang is very filial to her mother-in-law. Although she often talks about this and that, Xiao Shuang never treats her badly. However, the mother-in-law always speaks with negative energy. This family should be happy in the new year. She really can't stand what her mother-in-law said.

My mother-in-law is not a particularly talkative person. She was talked back by Xiao Shuang, but she couldn't speak, so she had to say, "Don't buy expensive ones, just wear them."

Xiao Shuang still said angrily, "I am an adult, and I don't need you to teach me." At this time, Xiao Shuang's husband came back, and when he heard this, the scene was a bit stiff.

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However, Xiao Shuang's husband knows what his mother is like. He went over and said, "Mom, don't mind our business in the future. We all know what we are doing, and what you said is not necessarily right. "

But the mother-in-law just likes to meddle with her son's daughter-in-law, maybe another mother-in-law. Later, she stopped asking. Xiao Shuang's mother-in-law is not. After she took her son home to buy clothes, her mother-in-law went to rummage through her bag to see what clothes she bought and asked the price.

Xiao Shuang no longer followed her like before, and her mother-in-law pretended not to hear anything, said nothing, and didn't answer, so she couldn't help it.

This is what happens when you live with your in-laws. When I meet a mother-in-law who knows right from wrong, she doesn't care about her daughter-in-law. However, some mothers-in-law just like to interfere in their daughter-in-law's life.

The key is that the lifestyle of the old people of the mother-in-law's generation is very different from that of the young people. When they are young, they may have been used to living a simple life. Therefore, seeing young people shopping now is a waste of money for them.

In the concept of the older generation, as long as clothes are available and things can be used, there is no need to update them. Living conditions are much better now, but their concept still stays in the poverty of the past, which cannot be changed.

It is often said that living with parents-in-law, the realm of young people is relatively high, and more should be given to the elderly. In fact, many young people know how to make old people happy and don't care about them.

The daughter-in-law who cares about her mother-in-law is either ignorant or her mother-in-law has gone too far.

Daughter-in-law like Xiao Shuang is not ignorant, but her mother-in-law may have been unable to stand it, so she changed her attitude towards her mother-in-law.

Actually, it's no big deal. There's really no need to worry. The distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has widened, and mother-in-law should stay away from daughter-in-law.

Daughter-in-law should not always care too much about her mother-in-law Maybe your mother-in-law is uneducated and her expression is not clear enough, which makes you misunderstand her meaning, but on the whole, her starting point is good. My mother-in-law is very concerned about her daughter-in-law's shopping, but she is worried that you will spend money indiscriminately.

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Of course, these are all caused by different ideas. If conditions permit, if the daughter-in-law feels that she is not free under the same roof as her mother-in-law, she will move out and live separately, which may save a lot of unnecessary trouble.

Parents should not always care so much about their children. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. They spend a lot of money to prove that they will make money. They are thrifty in keeping the house, which proves their good conduct.

Especially the mother-in-law, don't interfere too much with the daughter-in-law's affairs, especially the trivial things in life. Whatever her daughter-in-law buys, don't ask. She is an adult, and she has her own way of life. Her mother-in-law doesn't necessarily listen to what she says, but she makes conflicts and affects family harmony.

If I am wrong, my daughter-in-law will misunderstand her mother-in-law more. These are unnecessary troubles, and my mother-in-law really doesn't need to take these troubles on herself.

Not only between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, what children do, as long as there is no big problem, is a trivial matter in life, and parents don't need to interfere.

It is good for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to communicate normally. Don't ask each other's private affairs. If you are not curious, don't care, and have more understanding and tolerance, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get along well.