A talk about loneliness, despair and helplessness in youth. When we meet again, we either hate it too late or hate it too early.

1. The farthest distance in the world is not the distance between trees, but the branches growing from the same root but unable to depend on each other in the wind. Maybe time is an antidote, which is what I am taking now. of poison.

2. The most tiring thing in the world is living a hypocritical life.

3. If you live in a city, love someone, or do something, after a long time, you will feel bored and have an urge to escape. Maybe it's not that the people who love you are tired of persisting in this city, but that you just can't give yourself the courage to persist.

4. Tears froze, cooling the existing enthusiasm, and I found myself more depressed than before.

5. Lonely people at night are most likely to cry because darkness conceals helplessness.

6. Don’t walk away, I don’t want your figure to disappear from my sight, don’t turn around, I don’t want you to see those eyes that follow you in a daze.

7. The farthest distance in the world is not that I stand in front of you but don’t know that I love you; it is that we know that we love each other but can’t be together.

8. A smart person thinks about the good in everything and thinks about happy things with a happy heart, and he will naturally achieve a happy life; a foolish person thinks about the bad in everything, and the more he thinks about it, the more miserable he will be. into a troubled life. Everything in the world is determined by our own thoughts. Our thoughts can think of heaven or hell.

9. Time is gently trampled into pieces and can no longer be completely spliced.

10. Lonely people are not necessarily lonely, cheerful people are not necessarily happy, romantic people are not necessarily happy, the people who love you are definitely thinking about you, the people you love are not necessarily missing you, you want to The person I think of is not necessarily me, but the person I think of is always you.

11. I am like the note in the bottle. I have a bright future, but there is no way out.

12. Who is the companion of the lonely window?

13. Don’t say love easily, the promise you make is the debt you owe!

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14. I am grateful for this wonderful and great night. It allows me to gain more thinking and abundance than during the day. Capture the deeper mysteries of life.

15. Everything can be replaced. Love, past events, memories, disappointments, and time can all be replaced. But you can't help yourself.

16. A person always has to take a strange road, see strange scenery, listen to strange songs, and then at an inadvertent moment, you will find that the things you tried so hard to forget are really Just forgot about it.

17. Meeting each other is either too late or too early.

18. Well, blame me for not being able to give you a hug when you were helpless.

19. My life has no meaning, my life has no happiness, because of helplessness and ruthlessness. Without goals, I live in my own unique way and in my own world. ?Walking on the road, ignoring those instructions and cold looks, I still walked forward calmly and firmly, with an inexplicable smile on my face. Why should I never forget a passer-by in life? Are you just a passer-by to me? Thinking of you, I put away my smile, stopped, looked up at the sky, it was not blue, it was the color of loneliness. I can't force myself not to think about you.

20. In the dimly lit place, the beautiful woman silently guards this desolate and cold place, turning the passing years into a movement as clear as flowing water on the pen.

21. If you could understand me, would you feel a little heartache

22. Crying, you can’t vent your emotions, you can’t show your scars, you can’t heal your wounds. Crying like this. , found that I had long lost the me in love, only to get the incompetent me. The pain is indescribable, like digging a hole in my heart. I have had enough of being a fool who is too deep to bottom out, no longer heals, and can only cry.

23. Effort is to forget what you are doing and just do it.

24. Recreation is not available; loneliness is caused by a heart that is neglected and the warmth of the world is not available.

25. Loneliness is one’s carnival, and carnival is one’s loneliness.

26. People can control behavior, but they cannot restrain feelings, because feelings are fickle.

27. Sometimes I have to admit that I am so vulnerable and helpless in the face of small setbacks. Although my ears are so clear, why are they constantly buzzing, and I can't tell whether I am awake or not.

28. When the flute player goes to the empty jade tower, who will he lean on with a broken heart?

29. The silent night is still spreading, and the wind of longing is filled with loneliness and loneliness. . I still stood in front of the window, covering up my confusion and burying my true yearning.

30. Life is short when you are in a bad mood. You should live brilliantly instead of lying in a gray state; surprise is like a double-yolk egg, despair is like a double-yolked couplet; when you are alive, you should live like a sunflower, even if Depression also faces the sun. Life is short, you should live brilliantly, not lie down gray; surprise is like a double-yolked egg, despair is like a double-yolked lily; while you are alive, you should live like a sunflower, facing the sun even if you are depressed.

31. You are no longer in my life, it’s like you never appeared.

32. Ten years of life and death are uncertain. If you don’t think about it, you will never forget it. Thousands of miles of lonely tomb, no place to speak of desolation. Even if we meet each other, we should not know each other, our faces are covered with dust and our temples are like frost. At night, you suddenly return to your hometown with a deep dream. Xiaoxuan window, dressing up. They looked at each other without words, only a thousand lines of tears. It is expected that the broken part of the intestines will be cut off every year, on a bright moonlit night, there will be short pines.

33. We are all actors, shedding our own tears in other people’s stories

34. You said that you loved someone you shouldn’t love, and your heart is full of scars. You said You made mistakes that you shouldn’t have made, and your heart is full of regret. You said that you have experienced all the hardships in life and can’t find anyone you can trust. You said that you feel extremely depressed and even start to doubt life.

35. I only remember I am a passer-by, forgetting my destination and forgetting to remember everything. What is wandering is not a soul, but a wandering wanderer, just a protagonist called the soul. Having experienced catastrophe and rebirth in reincarnation, I have experienced life after life, telling myself to live richly and intensely, waiting for the prosperity of the world.

36. Forgetting is our unchangeable destiny. Everything is like a misaligned drawing. Everything in the past cannot be returned to the past, so it slowly extends and staggers bit by bit. Maybe we really should forget the things that were missed.

37. When there is a vast sea of ??people, you are so confused that it becomes the regret of your life.

38. My wings are burned by a tear and I can’t fly to heaven.

39. Say a word of relief to those who are embarrassed; say a word of encouragement to those who are depressed; say a word of reminder to those who are doubtful; say a word of confidence to those who have low self-esteem; say a word of confidence to those who are in pain. A word of comfort, because more often than not, what we need is help in times of need, rather than icing on the cake.

40. It is difficult to meet someone who understands oneself and understands oneself in life. I think the feelings that can be understood without words must surpass love. Therefore, perfect love does not exist. Feelings are real. People who can understand you are not necessarily people who can spend a lifetime with you, so we have sadness in our hearts, so we become worldly. This may be the purified, dirty mind. Who can understand.

41. The dark night makes people helpless and spiritual power surges. We are looking for a peaceful harbor. Please take me to the other side of the sea. Only this distance can hold dreams.

42. The endless night is too dark. I have never expected to see a ray of light, so I have closed my eyes long ago!

43. Every time I see a beautiful picture, Pictures make my heart ache slightly, and then I copy and paste them numbly, as if copying other people's sadness together.

44. The curtain on the stage of life may open at any time. The key is whether you are willing to perform or choose to avoid it.

45. The wind blows, and the fallen leaves drift with my good mood. The decay of flowers in late autumn just brings out the desolation in my heart. Looking around, there is no green anymore, and there is depressing withering everywhere. , Could it be that God has also sensed my frustration?

46. I am still waiting for you where you are, but you have forgotten that you have been here.

47. There are always so many words that I can’t tell others, so I like to express my emotions and sorrows in words.

48. Every time at this time of night, my heart is always empty. I feel as if I have been abandoned and forgotten by many people. I am overwhelmed by deep loneliness and I don’t know what to do.

49. If your heart is small, small things will be big; if your heart is big, big things will be small; if you look down on the vicissitudes of the world, you will feel safe inside. With a big heart, you can tolerate things in the world; with a humble heart, you love the goodness of the world; with a calm heart, you can discuss the affairs of the world; with a calm heart, you can respond to changes in the world. Great and difficult things depend on responsibility, adversity and good times depend on mind-set, perseverance and perseverance depend on wisdom, success and failure depend on persistence.

50. You never know how much you like someone unless you see him with someone else.

51. Women are made of water, so don’t be too cold to her. Once the temperature is above zero and it freezes, it will only give you frostbite in the end.

52. I try to make myself happy and live a good life, but I am always overwhelmed by the kindness of others.

53. No matter how helpless or scared you are, you can only hysterically shout out the name of the person who you love but doesn’t love you.

54. There is a person in everyone’s heart who is no longer a lover and cannot be a friend.

55. Memory is like a yellowed photo album, silently telling those old stories.

56. People are showing off their strength, crying in surrender, and everyone is pretending. I am used to listening to the sad melody alone, and I am used to reading the sad words silently. The night is so quiet, it makes me want to cry. Life is so pale, so pale that it makes people feel a little powerless. The reality is so cruel, so cruel that it makes people sad. It feels so clear, so clear that it feels a bit hypocritical.

57. Never bear grudge against a man, after all, he once loved you, loved you, and gave you happiness. Never say that there are no good men in this world anymore. Maybe tomorrow, you will meet the man who loves you. In your eyes, no matter how bad he is, he is still good. In fact, there is no need to hold grudges after a breakup, let alone give up on oneself. Love does not belong to two fixed people, but to two suitable people.

58. I want to know how many people call me a dick in front of me, but say how good I am in front of others.

59. We all know how things will end, but we have to go a long way to explore its meaning. Our journey is just a meaningless farce.

60. The night gave me black eyes, but I used them to look for light. When we meet, we either hate it being late or we hate it being early.

When we meet, we either hate it being late or we hate being early.

It hasn’t come yet, and the days are carefree; the most painful things are just tests and examinations. I felt a lot of pressure at the time, but looking back later, I realized how small it was.

We are destined to wait for others, and some people are destined to be waited for.

Destruction, whether the relationship is strong or weak, is beyond our control. What we can do is to cherish the short time when fate meets us.

It is better to have met before than never to have met.

If you want to forget someone so painfully, time will naturally make you forget. If time can't make you forget the people you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

Love can overcome everything, who knows that sometimes she has no power. I thought love could fill up the regrets in life. However, it is love that creates more regrets. The ups and downs keep repeating themselves in a love. For any other person, the sky would not always be blue.

It will be over when it is over, and when the time comes, it doesn’t matter if you don’t want to.

People cannot give you the same pain. When he hurts you repeatedly, the wound has become accustomed to it and the feeling has become numb. No matter how many times he hurts you, it is far less painful than the first time.

It turns out to be drinking with a smile Poisonous wine, it is difficult to love someone, and it is even harder to give up the one you love.

After leaving, I want you not to forget one thing: don’t forget to miss me. When you miss me, don't forget that I miss you too.

It is possible to love two people and be loved by two people at the same time.

Unfortunately, we can only stay with one of them until we grow old

Love is a matter of romance, and frustrated people cannot afford it.

Only if you are not loved by others will you cherish the person who loves you in the future.

If you can't forget him, don't forget him. True forgetting requires no effort.

A shoulder that can bear my tears when I am frustrated; a shoulder that can give me a bite when I am happy.

If I don’t love you, I won’t miss you, I won’t be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I won’t lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I won’t be in pain. It would be great if I could stop loving you.

It should not be rekindled. If it is rekindled, those beautiful memories of the past will disappear. If we had not reunited, maybe I would have communicated with him with my deep thoughts until my body decayed; however, at this moment, I hated him. All the good days are far gone.

He hurt me, and I will use the beautiful memories of the past to forgive him. However, no matter how beautiful the memories are, there will be a day when they will be used up. In the end, Only memories and hope remain, and there is happiness, but also frustration and disappointment. After frustration and disappointment, we learn to cherish. If you were not loved by someone before, you will cherish the person who will love you in the future.

Emotions and years can be gently torn into pieces and thrown into the sea. Then, I am willing to silence your words at the bottom of the sea from now on. I like to hear them, but I don’t understand. You are willing to see my silence, But I don’t understand

You, I can understand the taste of missing you, the pain of separation, the torment of jealousy, and the endless possessiveness. Why does every move you make make my heart flutter? Why am I always afraid that time will fly by and I won’t be able to stay with you for the rest of my life?

Lifelong love is just a transit station where people come and go in a long journey. No matter how long they stay, they always have to leave and go to another place. A flight

In the world of love, there are always some almost ridiculous things happening. When a person thinks that he can pay off his guilt and live a guilt-free life, he has already reached the end. What is so unbearable is not only Love is life

Love begins with hope and ends with despair. To give up means that there is no longer any hope I once had for you.

After falling in love with you, I can understand the taste of longing, the pain of separation, the torment of jealousy, and the endless possessiveness. Why does your every move make my heart beat up and down? Why am I always afraid that time will fly by and I won’t be able to stay with you forever?

In fact, no matter how many people you have loved, no matter how happy or painful your love is, in the end you will not learn how to love but how to love yourself

If you never love Don't fall in love with a person suddenly, because once you fall in love with him, you will lose him. This is God's punishment for people

Loving someone is very humble, very humble, if the other person doesn't love you Your words

Love is drinking poisoned wine with a smile.

The past is getting farther and farther, but the memory is getting newer and fresher

Love is as overbearing as death.

The obstacles of love are often more attractive than love

People cannot grow in happiness. Happiness makes people superficial. Only when we grow in pain can we understand life better through transformation

Because I love you, I know that there are many unsatisfactory things in life

We cannot forget someone, often not because of how unforgettable the other person is, but because of how attached and persistent we are. When you are persistent, even time will surrender to you.

Cold is a very sad disease in nature. For a lonely person, the cold will last very long because he himself does not want to recover.

Parting and reunion are the dramas that are constantly being played in life. If you get used to it, you will no longer feel sad.

Since I am greedy for love, I must bear the fear of losing everything.

Affection is a burden that I cannot bear, and love words are just lies that come true accidentally.

I love you for your happiness, and I am willing to give up everything—including you.

Sometimes it is also a kind of happiness, because you have expectations, so you are disappointed. Because there is love, there will be expectations, so even if you are disappointed, it is still a kind of happiness, although this kind of happiness is a bit painful.

The saddest distance in the world is that two people were originally far apart and did not know each other. Suddenly one day, they met and fell in love, and the distance became very close. Then one day, they no longer loved each other, and the two people who were close to each other became very far away, even farther than before.

Love makes people forget time, and time makes people forget love.

There is a price, and the price of happiness is pain. Zhang Ailing said: When we meet, we either hate it too late or hate it too early

Introduction: Zhang Ailing, a famous modern Chinese female writer, became famous on an isolated island in Shanghai in the 1940s. His novels possess feminine delicacy and classical beauty, and his grasp of the characters' psychology is amazing. The author's unique attitude towards life was also extremely rare at the time. Nowadays, some of Zhang Ailing’s classic quotations are also widely circulated!

1. The farthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, nor the distance between us, but the fact that I am standing in front of you, but you don’t know that I love you.

2. I love you...for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything--including you.

3. Disappointment is sometimes a kind of happiness. Disappointment occurs because of expectations. Because there is love, there will be expectations, so even if you are disappointed, it is still a kind of happiness, although this kind of happiness is a bit painful.

4. The most miserable distance in the world is that two people were originally far apart and did not know each other. Suddenly one day, they met and fell in love, and the distance became very close.

5. Then one day, we no longer love each other, and the two people who were very close to each other become very far away, even farther than before.

6. Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

7. Loneliness is not something you are born with, but starts from the moment you fall in love with someone.

8. If you like someone, there will be no pain. Loving someone may cause long-term pain, but the happiness they give me is also the greatest happiness in the world.

9. Two people get together for happiness, and break up to relieve pain. You can no longer make me happy, so I have no choice but to leave. When I left, it was also very painful, but you are definitely better than me. Painful because I am the first to say goodbye and the first to pursue happiness is me.

10. Everything has a price, and the price of happiness is pain.

11. When we begin, we know that there will always be an end.

12. Before love comes, life is carefree; the most painful things are just tests and examinations. I felt a lot of pressure at the time, but looking back later, I realized how small it was.

13. Some people are destined to wait for others, and some people are destined to be waited for.

14. The origin and destruction of conditions, the intensity of conditions and the lightness of conditions are beyond our control. What we can do is to cherish the short time when fate meets us.

15. It is better to have met before than never to have met.

16. Why is it so painful to forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget. If time can't make you forget the people you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

17. I thought love could overcome everything, but who knew she was powerless sometimes. I thought love could fill up the regrets in life. However, it is love that creates more regrets. The ups and downs keep repeating themselves in a love. For another person, the sky would not always be blue.

18. When love comes to an end, it will end on its own. When the time comes, it doesn’t matter if you don’t want to.

19. The same person cannot give you the same pain. When he hurts you repeatedly, the wound has become accustomed to it and the feeling has become numb. No matter how many times he hurts you, it is far less painful than the first time.

20. Love turns out to be drinking poisonous wine with a smile.

21. Loving someone is difficult, and it is even harder to give up the one you love.

22. When love comes, of course it is also happy. However, this kind of happiness has to be paid for, and you have to learn to accept disappointment, pain and separation. From then on, life was no longer pure.

23. We may be able to love two people and be loved by two people at the same time. Unfortunately, we can only stay with one of them until we grow old.

24. When you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him; afraid of losing him.

25. Only when you were not loved by others will you cherish the person who will love you in the future.

26. When they can't meet each other, they miss each other. But once they can meet and get together again, they will torture each other again.

27. I just want to find a shoulder that can bear my tears when I am frustrated and a shoulder that can give me a bite when I am happy.

28. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, I wouldn’t be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I wouldn’t lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I wouldn’t be in pain. It would be great if I could stop loving you.

29. Parting is for reunion.

30. The fire of love should not be rekindled. Rekindled, those beautiful memories of the past will disappear. If we had not reunited, maybe I would have communicated with him with my deep thoughts until my body decayed; however, at this moment, I hated him. All the good days are far gone.

31. The cold is originally a very sad disease.

32. Pursuit and desire bring happiness, but also frustration and disappointment. After frustration and disappointment, we learn to cherish. If you were not loved by someone before, you will cherish the person who will love you in the future.

33. If emotions and years can be gently torn into pieces and thrown into the sea, then I am willing to be silent at the bottom of the sea from now on... I love to hear your words, but I don’t understand, my silence, You want to meet, but you don’t understand

34. Love is not complicated at first. It only takes three words to come and go, either "I love you", "I hate you", or "Forget it" ”, “How are you? ”, “I’m sorry”.

35. Love each other but cannot fall in love, love each other but not love each other.

36. I also believe that love can overcome all difficulties; however, after all difficulties, there are all difficulties. This is what I believe more.

37. Your heart is my corner and the end of the world, I can’t go further. We will go to the ends of the earth in this life, not to travel halfway around the world, but to be with each other in this world.

38. Do you love me? Already loved to a dangerous degree. How dangerous is it? I can no longer live alone.

39. It’s either too late or too early to meet again.

40. Love is a matter of romance, and frustrated people cannot afford it.

41. Love that cannot last a lifetime is just a transit station that comes and goes in a long journey. No matter how long you stay, you always have to leave and take another flight.

42. After leaving, I want you not to forget one thing: don’t forget to miss me. When you miss me, don't forget that I miss you too.

43. Love is not a refuge. If you want to take refuge in it, you will be kicked out.

44. If you can’t forget him, don’t forget him. True forgetting requires no effort.

Editor’s Note: Wherever there are Chinese-speaking people in the world, there are people talking about Zhang Ailing. Reading Zhang Ailing’s articles is like looking into a mirror. She once strongly encouraged everyone: "I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world. No matter when or where you are, you know that there is always such a person." Lonely and sentimental Sentence: When we meet, we either hate it too late or hate it too early

1. My heart has changed, but you don’t care. Your love has changed, I can't help but ask.

2. A person is looking for images of a person on the empty Internet. Enter a series of words about ailments such as loneliness, loneliness, pain, etc., and then start searching alone.

3. At the fork in the road, it is not just life that turns. When youth is over, the fragments accidentally left behind will hurt more than just the heart. Missing her to no avail, finally overwhelming me.

4. Loneliness is one’s carnival, and carnival is one’s loneliness.

5. Every time I see a poignant picture, my heart will ache slightly, and then I copy and paste numbly, as if copying other people's sadness together.

6. Being broken is not the cruelest thing.

The cruelest thing is to step on these fragments and pretend not to be in pain and search tenaciously

7. A person’s existence is often revealed only after he has disappeared for a long time

8. Sometimes, Only by giving up something can you get something, and after you get it, you want to get the things you gave up again

9. She taught me to smile, he taught me to cherish, and who taught me to forget

10. Loneliness is just a gorgeous bluff

11. If you don’t bother me, I will start to bother myself.

12. Many things are slowly taken apart and put together in my heart, and then things change and people change.

13. I forgot you in the place where we once met.

14. If you want to say something, you will naturally say it. If you don’t want to say it, what you will hear is just lies.

15. Even your sighs can be as beautiful as a smile. How do I draw a sad you like this?

16. It said it had something to say to me. It says it misses you very much

17. Is a journey in childhood really short? The distance shortens, the time lengthens, and we are lost.

18. Do I still need to sit on that shabby bench? The hair is as messy as withered autumn grass; the beard is as sad as the cold moonlight. Nostalgia is a wound cut by the sharp edge of memory, and the blood seeping out drop by drop stings the soul. Thoughts are a scar that cannot be lifted, a knot that cannot be expressed, and a heaviness that cannot be relieved.

19. Do I still stubbornly wait at this deserted ferry? On the other side, there are high cliffs and lonely cliffs; in the distance, the river is vast. A lonely tree stands by the river, watching the rolling waves and letting thousands of sails float by. The oaths that gradually became indifferent disappeared in the river; the memories that were once unforgettable were washed away by time again and again, and the faint traces were gradually peeled off.

20. Do I want to compile another beautiful myth? On a cool autumn night, I raise my glass to look at the moon. The watery moonlight sinks into my wine glass, and my ethereal thoughts disperse into the vast night sky. The horse is free to rein in, step by step into the autumn night. The story of the covered bridge is anchored in the clear moonlight. The green years emulsified into wisps of green smoke. The dust is washed away, the autumn dream has no trace, and everything disappears.

21. I hear a river between you and me. It is longer than that season and farther than the sky.

22. Meeting each other is either too late or too early.

23. A person may be really lonely. Perhaps, a person's loneliness is just a kind of life.

24. So I can only keep telling myself not to stop wandering and trust the scenery along the way. The world is vast and I can walk around at will; my mind is vast and I can listen at will. Place your soul in the sky and let the myth reside in your heart.

25. Don’t torture me anymore, my heart has been cut, and what is shed is not blood, but the fault of loving you.

26. From now on, you can only love me. You must pamper me, you must not lie to me, you must do everything you promise me, and you must obey every word you say to me. Sincerely, don’t bully me or scold me. Believe me. When others bully me, you have to come out and help me as soon as possible. When I am happy, you have to accompany me to be happy. When I am unhappy, you have to make me happy. , you should always feel that I am the most beautiful, and you should see me in your dreams. There is only me in your heart, that's it.

27. Many times, if you love someone too deeply, you will get drunk, but if you hate someone for too long, your heart will be easily broken. The most painful thing in the world is waiting. I don't know how long she has been waiting for me. I always thought that I would never have the chance to see her again. Suddenly, I don't know how to speak, I don't know how to say the first sentence. Tell her I really love her. It turns out that many troubles in the world can be easily solved. As long as you are willing to look at some things from the other side, you will have a different situation. I finally understand what "Jinghua Shuiyue" means. In fact, where love comes, you should be in it. There is me, and there is you in me. Who is a boy and who is a girl? What does it matter? It’s enough for two people to be happy together. Today she is the little bully, but maybe it will be my turn tomorrow.

28. Jealousy is a knife. In the end, it will either be inserted into others, or it will be inserted into one's own heart.

29. Memory is like a yellowed photo album, silently telling stories that have grown old.

30. Time is gently trampled into pieces and can no longer be completely spliced.

31. Who said that love cannot be concealed like a cough... I forgot that the years to come will be so long that I can slowly fall in love with someone. Just like I loved you back then...