My husband was in close contact with the massage girl and stayed out all night.

My husband often goes to the bath center behind my back. I have arrested him several times. He is either taking a bath or entertaining customers. Can't I take a shower at home? You don't have to take a bath in the bath center in summer. Once I asked him to take me, and he was very upset and took me.

I found that men who go there like to find girls for foot massage, and those service personnel are quite exposed, all wearing low-cut miniskirts. I asked my husband if he wanted a foot massage. He said that he didn't usually call it that. He just went there to take a shower and play cards to accompany his clients. Of course I don't believe my husband. Those people always enjoy it. He may not have ordered a pedicure because of my existence. Maybe just to get close to them.

I'm worried now. As long as my husband comes home late, I bomb him by phone, which makes him so bored that he doesn't even do the routine work of husband and wife, and sometimes he simply doesn't go home at night. What should I do now? I feel that my husband's heart is not here at all. I am so anxious.

Ni Xia replied:

If you keep staring at him, he will surely get tired of you. Try to sweet talk and don't go against your husband. After all, you are a woman, so be soft-hearted. So, don't let him feel that you are controlling him, you are supervising him, and you should make him feel that you need him. If he doesn't accompany you, you will feel insecure.

I guess your husband must have a lot of pocket money. Whether for entertainment or ulterior motives, I suggest you pay due attention to your husband's money (for example, "I have taken a fancy to a skirt and a bag, and it would be better if my husband could give it to me"; For example, "I hope my husband will spend money to buy a wealth management product"), in short, control his economy and don't let him spend whatever he wants, otherwise he often walks by the river and will get wet shoes sooner or later.

Husband and wife's life is not just sex, but also other * * * lives, such as * * * the same hobbies, * * * the same holiday plans and * * * the same entertainment life. If you have nothing in common except sleeping and eating, then you will be separated gradually. Try to arrange weekend vacations, badminton, friends gatherings, etc. You don't need your husband, he will naturally find one outside.