Children are obsequious. What should children do if they like to please others?

1. Affirm the child's behavior: Let the child have enough self-confidence and make him believe that he is an independent person, which is the fundamental reason to get rid of the flattering character. Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents need to always affirm their behaviors and ideas.

2, especially the relatively strict parents, must change their education methods, give their children more encouragement and affirmation, and let them gradually build up their self-confidence.

3. Tell children not to ignore others: children who attach too much importance to other people's opinions will make them timid. So parents need to encourage their children to do things according to their own ideas. In particular, families with more discipline must let their children do it themselves, even if they know that their children are not doing well, they should not increase their psychological burden. Moreover, in the process of children doing things, don't always try to test their progress.

4. Encourage children to refuse: For children with lovable personality, parents need to teach them to learn to say "no". Parents can consciously raise their children at home, deliberately put forward some unreasonable demands on their children, and then let them refuse. After the child refuses, these requirements can no longer be carried out. Through these conscious training, children can learn to correctly judge the rationality of other people's demands and decide whether they need cooperation according to their own values.

5. Dare to make demands: Parents should always encourage their children, speak their thoughts bravely and make some demands on their parents. If the child already has a serious flattering personality, try to meet the child's requirements. For those who can't meet the requirements, we should also affirm their behavior of asking for requirements and patiently explain why these requirements can't be realized for the time being. Let children dare to take the first step in making demands.