The best excuse for abstinence.

How to refuse to drink in a restaurant?

One, can't drink, how to refuse the invitation of others?

It is not excluded that the girl born in Jiangbei is good at drinking, not drunk after a thousand cups, and has a man's character, so most people can't hurt her.

But if you don't want to drink, how can you refuse? Give you four ways:

1, be absolutely firm.

If you are going to work in the company for a long time, you will refuse desperately this time, and you will not drink until you die, and you will not drink next time. Otherwise the leader will think you have a problem with him.

Since the attitude has been made clear from the beginning, it is necessary to integrate inside and outside, forever.

Once you drink and talk, leaders and colleagues will re-establish their impression of you, and you can't wash it when you jump into the Yellow River.

Not only women, but also men.

There is a colleague in our company who has been together for more than a year. He basically has company parties and never touches a drop of wine. Too many times, everyone will consciously skip him if they have any toast.

2. Etiquette should be in place

Although I don't drink, since I am at the dinner party, I have to pour myself mineral water, tea or juice drinks in advance. When it's your turn to make a toast, you can be generous and take the initiative to respect the leader.

Replacing wine with tea is also a way.

3, the words should be said in place.

Although you don't drink, you can't sit still.

Sometimes the leader doesn't have to buy you a drink. The key is your attitude. If you put your words in place, it's not a big problem not to drink.

You can think of a toast in advance, or know the background information of some people attending the dinner party in advance, so that you can speak with a clear aim.

Step 4 protect yourself

For women in the workplace, we must resolutely defend our lives.

The friend smiled. Last time, the liquor store "survived". Fortunately, she told her boyfriend in advance that she had a xxx wine shop in xxx, so her boyfriend had already waited for her outside, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.

In the past two years, there have been many incidents about sexual harassment on the Internet. To prevent sexual harassment, we must first pay attention to prevention and have the awareness of protecting ourselves.

Because some people make a fool of themselves after drinking, prevention is very important.

Second, how to deal with others' malicious drinking, teach you three methods.

1, silent smile

If someone wants to give you a drink with ulterior motives, don't explain too much, just briefly explain why you can't drink it, and then keep smiling.

Don't be angry, it will damage your image. Don't try hard to find various reasons to explain, just stick to one reason from beginning to end.

Because the more you find reasons, the more you inspire his fighting spirit, and he won't stop until he reaches his goal. If you smile and ignore him, he will feel boring and won't advise you again.

2. Aggressive strategy

This method is dangerous if you have confidence in your drinking capacity.

If you are a good drinker and someone desperately wants to drink you, then you should drive him away once so that he won't dare to see you next time.

Of course, it is not difficult to fight with him at once, but you should pay attention to skills.

Here are some words, such as:

"I really can't drink, but you let me drink, I still have to give you face. Tell you what, let's testify. You have a lot. I'll drink a third of it. How about one for you? "

This kind of speaking routine is mainly to put a low profile, first hold the other side high and let the enemy make a last move.

In addition to what I said before about how to refuse without drinking, I would like to remind you here. Things that women in the workplace should pay attention to after the wine game.

00 1 Don't hitchhike with leading colleagues after drinking.

Be careful if colleagues or leaders invite you to ride with them after drinking. Unless you trust this colleague very much, don't get into the car of the "most familiar stranger" at will.

Girls are outside, protect yourself.

002 be careful to keep the appointment in the second game.

After dinner, there are often guests who are still wanting more.

Sometimes go to another place to continue drinking, sometimes go to KTV, and sometimes go to cigar bars or private clubs. The wine will continue to be added, and it doesn't hurt to see it; But if you can't drink well, do what you can.

For girls, if they want to go, they must be accompanied by the same sex.

Don't confide in the boss after drinking.

Women are emotional creatures, and many people get into trouble because of improper words when they are drunk.

Some people will talk to colleagues or leaders after drinking, and often confide their feelings, personal affairs and emotions, and reveal their bottom line.

Therefore, girls are out, so don't try to be brave if you can stop drinking.