When people reach middle age, they are quiet and indisputable.

Life is like a dream, and the sea is floating and sinking. How many joys and sorrows play a role in our life, and how many gather and disperse on the train of our life. The scenery on the road of life, good or bad, beautiful or ugly, is the only place to pass.

When people live to a certain age, their hearts will gradually calm down. No one can always be energetic, and no one can always be energetic. When it's time to calm yourself down, you should know how to spend every day peacefully.

Gains and losses are daily dramas, so we don't need to make a fuss, let alone worry. What you get is destiny takes a hand; What is lost belongs to fate.

In the TV series "Wulin Legend", Bai Zhantang once said to Tong Xiangyu:

Who says not?

Sadness and joy, love and hate in life need not be too demanding. Reluctantly acquired feelings will not be happy, and forcing a smile is not true happiness. When people are alive, they must follow their hearts and live their truest selves.

After all kinds of ups and downs and difficulties, we learned to strengthen our hearts; After all kinds of worldly affairs and indifference, we learned to rely on ourselves in everything. Before all our enlightenment, there will be a storm to baptize first.

When people reach middle age, they should know how to be quiet without arguing, and also learn to go with the flow. Many things in life have long been doomed. I was lucky to get it, but my life was lost: some gains and some losses, in a sense, are interchangeable.

Only with a clean heart can your thoughts slowly settle down; Only when you are calm can you calm your life.

Our life needs a good attitude to experience. After you have tasted the sweet, sour and bitter, you will know that life is full of flavor. Facing life, we can only face all kinds of changes in life with a normal heart and an optimistic heart.

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When people reach middle age, relax.

In real life, there is always a lot of helplessness and love. Our dream is beautiful, but not many people can fully realize it, even if they try their best, they can't achieve it.

Facing life, Zhen Xuan said this in the TV series "Harem":

In fact, many times, in addition to those necessary persistence, we must know how to advance and retreat. Try your best to do what you can; It is also a kind of wisdom to let go of things beyond your ability.

It is important to be alive and know yourself clearly. We are not the masters of the world, nor the saviors of the world. Don't feel sorry for what you can't get, don't feel sorry for those who can't help, and don't care too much about everything.

Life is nothing but life and death. Only by doing everything as well as you can, leaving no regrets and being worthy of the world, then there is no need for you to grieve for spring and autumn again. If you are always too serious, then life will be a mess.

The reason why I feel bitter is because there are too many things in my heart. Always want to keep people around, always want to solve one thing perfectly, and always want to remember good memories, which will often drag down your life.

A person, only relax, the road will be more spacious; Only when a person opens his heart can the sun shine in. The calculation in my heart, the pain in my heart, and the quarrel in my life will be put down, and my mood will be more comfortable.

When people reach middle age, relax their heart, relax their good mood and relax their wonderful life.

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When people reach middle age, they look down on gains and losses.

In the rolling world of mortals, there are some things that we are doomed to lose; Some people, we are destined to pass by. Life dream, the pursuit of perfection, but not perfect, gain and loss, in an instant.

Too much entanglement will only get you deeper and deeper. Everyone has a passionate pursuit, but not all efforts can bring a perfect ending. When you can't love, you should know how to bow your head and accept everything generously.

Some people say:

Yes! If you care too much about yourself, you will often compare yourself with others and eventually get lost in confusion; Being too serious will make you find fault with everything and lead to physical and mental exhaustion.

Perseverance is either persistence or stubbornness. Most people are the latter. Too many people waste time and energy in pursuit of what they can't get, and the result is predictable. In the end, they will not only gain nothing, but also lose more.

Smart people always keep a casual attitude and always have a quiet mind. Everything in life can't be changed by yourself and won't be changed because of you. What we can do is to obey God's will and enjoy it.

The most meaningless thing in life is to fight for everything. How long can you be cheap? What do you get if you win a quarrel? Struggle, finally empty, no one is the real winner.

When people reach middle age, they should look down on the gains and losses: it's yours, don't argue; Not yours. Please don't take it away.

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When people reach middle age, they will be quiet and stop arguing.

Life is like a song. Listen carefully, and the years are quiet. Life has passed for decades, and many ups and downs have prevented it from becoming the road to growth; How many sighs of joys and sorrows have turned into their own rich emotions.

Everything in the world has its own manners. The sea never shows off its vastness, but is willing to accept every river; The sun never shows off its light; But it brings warmth to every corner of the world.

People should have their own manners all their lives. Tolerate others and don't care about trivial things in life; Be kind to others and don't be stingy with your own praise; Be modest and don't show off your extraordinary achievements.

"Caigen Tan" wrote:

Life should be like this.

Quiet is a kind of inner stability and personality cultivation; Quiet is an indisputable indifferent attitude towards life; Quiet is a low key. When you are really strong, you can soar.

When you succeed, don't be arrogant or impetuous; When you are at a low point, don't give up easily and don't sell yourself short. Life is ups and downs, life is stumbling, just look down on everything.

When people reach middle age, they will be quiet and indisputable, and they will be able to keep their initial heart in order to maintain a leisurely life.

When people reach middle age, they are quiet and indisputable, and everything follows fate. May your life and mine be more peaceful and pure.