Water is too deep and people's hearts are complicated (classic talk about people's hearts is too complicated)

I knew you wouldn't come with me if I held out my hand, so I held out my leg and tripped you. You really stood up and chased me. So I have to admit: since ancient times, we can't be merciful, and we always win people's hearts.

Second, time is like a big sieve, which can withstand filtration. A good friend who thinks he is playing well may not be as good as you think. Only after the test of time, it takes a long time to see people's hearts clearly, and those who stay at last are true friends.

Third, don't try to tell others about your sadness. People who haven't experienced it will sneer. People who have experienced it will say don't think too much. People who like you will be anxious, people who hate you will be happy, and eventually you will feel desperate.

Fourth, be more patient and less sorry; Turn your face a few more times, and you will have more steps; If you can't hear it after listening to it several times, you will have less troubles. Talk less, leave more room, be a man, and see you later.

5. Never show your weakness to others; Never tell others about your mess; Because no one will feel sorry for you at all, only that you are incompetent and useless.

Sixth, praising you in person is the most embarrassing thing behind your back; People who call you a fool to your face usually love you the most. People can't look at their appearance, and it's the most terrible to be hypocritical; If you don't listen to the present, Shun Sun is the most hateful.

7. Don't trust others too much, because sooner or later you will find that you will regret it. To tell the truth, it is childish to confide in your heart. I'm not encouraging you to be complicated. I just hope you can learn to protect yourself.

Eight, be kind to the right person will be grateful to you; Giving kindness to the wrong person will make you feel cold. Those who are soft-hearted and right will be deep for you; The right and wrong people are soft-hearted, which will make you sad. Tolerance to the right person will warm you; Forgiving the wrong person will make you feel good.

Nine, snakes don't know that they are poisonous, and people don't know that they have it. Yours is like someone else's candy. It's gone after eating it. And your bad, like a scar, will last forever. This is a bad habit of people.

Ten, people who think they can't let you go will not let you go. Fish will die without water, but water will be clearer without fish. Who is not hypocritical, who is fickle, who is not who, why overestimate yourself and take some people and things so important.

Eleven, two people who really love each other, will not lose to the distance of appearance, height and age, will not lose to the former mistress, will not lose to the gossip of others, will not lose to the opposition of parents, will only lose to not cherish, lose to not working hard, distrust.

Twelve, people can't be too kind, because people can only pick soft persimmons. Being too kind will only make some people push their luck, and it is also a connivance for others. If you turn yourself into a donkey, don't complain about others riding you. Sometimes it is necessary to lose your temper properly, and you can't just choose patience. Too kind can only say that you are stupid.

Thirteen, things see through, you will understand how to proceed; When you see through human feelings, you will understand how to get along; I don't want to do anything if I see through things; I don't want to be a man if I see through human feelings.

14. Rich people like to say "money is not everything", good-looking people like to say "what's the use of being good-looking", thin people like to say "in fact, it is better to be fat and healthy", and hard-working people like to say "hard work is not the decisive factor". They just say these are routines, but you believe them.

Fifteen, there are three things in life that should not be squandered: body, money and love; You want to splurge, but it's not worth the loss. There are three things in life that cannot be kept: life, time and love; You want to stay, but you are drifting away.

16. Nobody asked if you were poor in downtown. Rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. Don't believe me, but look at the wine at the banquet, and respect the rich first. There is a tall horse tied to your door, not a kiss, but also a kiss. There is a begging stick in front of the door. Friends and relatives don't come to the door. It takes gold to make friends in the world. Gold pays little, but money makes many brothers. How can you meet anyone in an emergency?

Seventeen, who do you care about, who gave the knife; If you let anyone near you, you will open your armor. So don't be hasty when you are sincere, and don't be greedy when you are looking for friends. Otherwise, you will be stabbed all over.

Eighteen, you help people 100 points, when one day you are only willing to help 80, he will empty all your gratitude and would rather choose someone who only helps him 70 points as a friend. A grain of rice nurtures benefactors and a stone of rice nurtures enemies. The old man is right. Don't give yourself everything easily, leave some pride and love for yourself, remember, this is the coolest thing.

No matter how hard you try to make yourself perfect, there will always be a group of people pointing fingers behind your back. There is no need to scold anyone, and there is no need to slap anyone. They are not necessarily bad people, they just don't understand your lifestyle.

Twenty, good people are jealous, and bad people are looked down upon; Open up, people say you are coquettish, but conservative, people say you pretend; Honest people say you are stupid, and wise people say you are a traitor; Cold people say you are proud, warm people say you are a wave; Walk in front and get a sap, and walk behind without share; In short, no matter how good you are, someone will find fault with you. This is: reality.