Marriage depends on mother-in-law. People with these three kinds of mother-in-law can't get married no matter how much they love them. What three kinds?

Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. When we get married, we always consider whether the family styles of the two families are similar, whether the three views are consistent, and whether the separation benefits of the two families can be maximized. In love, we only think about who pays more and who pays less, and how to create romantic dating and sweet happiness.

Some people say that marriage is a system, an economic relationship and a guarantee for raising children. And love is a kind of belief, a primitive power and a heroic fantasy in a tired life. After getting along for a long time, we will definitely show everyone's advantages and disadvantages in front of each other, and there is no way to hide them. There are two standards to know people in this world, which I think are unbreakable for many years-"birds of a feather flock together" and "seeing people for a long time".

In other words, people with the same views can have a good marriage, but even if you love each other again, if your mother-in-law is such a person, then you can't just enter the marriage.

First, a strong mother-in-law can only have one master, which is what we often say: two tigers are not allowed in one mountain. If in a big family, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very strong and want to be the backbone of the big family, then the struggle will appear, and even the husband will fall into the predicament of "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law".

In any relationship, mutual respect is the first condition. Before you get married, make clear your standards and take a stand. I married your son to live a family, not to be inferior. I will never fall behind in my obligations and responsibilities. Because I love my little family, I don't want to pay for it. It is our duty and responsibility to support the elderly, but it doesn't mean that you are given priority in everything. The elderly should take care of themselves.

Therefore, if your mother-in-law is very strong and wants to control your family and interfere in your marriage all the time, then such a married life will be unhappy, so many women will not dare to step into such a marriage even if they love their boyfriends again.

Second, the mother-in-law of "Ma Baonan" Some men are naturally spoiled. They have no independent talent and can't make important decisions in life. It is even more difficult to rely on oneself in dealing with emotional and marital problems, so that even what kind of girlfriend to find and what kind of wife to marry are decided by the mother.

Some men are only filial to their wives. Usually talk back and get into trouble. I was so angry that my parents couldn't sleep night after night. Speaking of daughter-in-law, I said, "It's my mother anyway, just bear it." I never cared about my parents, never cooked a meal, never washed a bowl. When I got to my daughter-in-law, a big moral hat came over. You have to honor your in-laws.

Such a man must have a doting mother. This kind of mother-in-law only protects her son at any time and can't distinguish right from wrong. Therefore, in marriage, women don't want their feelings and men to be manipulated by other women, even if the other person is a man's biological mother. Because when parent-child relationship is greater than intimacy, marriage is bound to be in a bad state.

Third, the radical thoughts of the so-called radical mother-in-law may be more manifested in the preference for sons over daughters. Some mothers-in-law are tortured by the remnants of feudal culture, and they continue to impose this torture on their daughters-in-law. This is a foolish performance. Marriage is not only a lasting incense, but also a life run by two people. The happiness of marriage lies not in having a boy or a girl, but in whether the husband and wife can live in harmony for a long time.

However, the radical mother-in-law is stubborn in common thinking. She either asked women to stay at home and teach children, and opposed women working outside to make money, or she had to have a son, otherwise she wouldn't recognize this daughter-in-law. If your man has such a mother, even if you love him again, you dare not marry him. Because this ignorance and oppression will ruin a woman's life and your happy life.

In marriage, in a big family, relatives need respect, and a marriage relationship that lacks respect and reciprocity cannot be redeemed at all, and happiness cannot be achieved. Everyone wants a happy life and a sweet marriage. If a man can love you wholeheartedly, but his mother-in-law makes things difficult for you, such a marriage is not worth mentioning.