Fan: How to get rid of the fate of the family?

The drama Chasing Fire is because I want to know what attracts me, so I follow the rhythm to watch Ode to Joy. I also read many articles about the play before, and found that some articles completely misinterpreted some lines and some situations. So, if I am interested, I should watch the play by myself.

Watching a play will inevitably squeeze into a seat or something, but fortunately, I am so unique. The people in this play are different from me, but some of my characteristics are the same. These are all recorded by myself in the future. However, with the development of the plot, I am most concerned about the character Fan-being cheated by parents who prefer sons to daughters, being cheated by a troubled brother and raising his brother's son. Is this still a normal life?

Some people will say that this is a TV series. Are there really such parents and families? Hehe ~ there really is. I've heard of parents who threw their daughters away, parents who squeezed their daughters to raise their sons, parents who forced their daughters to drink pesticides and died, parents who cheated on marriage and treated their mothers' sons with money. I really believe that real life exists.

So, how can Fan, who has been treated unfairly, get out of the bondage of this family?

Generally speaking, Fan can become a fan because of her parents' kindness and eternal filial piety. She may turn her back on her brother, but she can't ignore her parents. So it is very important for her parents to force her to get rid of it.

1. Find someone to marry.

This is the simplest method and the most effective. Fan has been chased by her parents and said, you have such a brother. My parents raised you so much, and you earned so much money. However, entering the door of marriage is different. She is still too weak to resist being bullied. So she needs a strong man to save her and help her.

I believe that after she gets married, her parents will stop treating her daughter as a cash cow and asking for money? Want to bully people? See if her mother-in-law, father-in-law and husband agree? !

So, girls, if your parents are not good, find a happy family to get married. You are willing to give money to your parents. Be filial when you are old, and no one dares to spit on you.

2. Put things on the big table.

Everything is afraid of being reasonable. What's the story? People are proud of bark, to be honest. Fan recorded such a big account, but you showed it to your parents, even to your brother and sister-in-law, and even to your nephew. Who will tell you this? They are shameless in front of you. Then, find someone in the village to talk about this matter, and find community leaders in the town to make a reasonable agreement. That son should be filial to his parents, so should he! Should a daughter be filial to her brother and sister-in-law? That's not an obligation!

So it will be much easier to reach an agreement, and it is reasonable to break up. Fan Meisheng, put away your heart full of satisfaction for your parents and family. Even if your parents take you to court, you will not pay them all the money. This is the beauty of the law. Only legal and reasonable can last.

Work hard to make money

Fan is so miserable because she earns too little. Ten thousand yuan in January in Shanghai is too low. After paying the water and electricity rent, will there be any money left for dinner and party?

Therefore, the situation set by this person will definitely not happen to all sisters. You can supplement your family, but you must work hard to earn money. If you earn more money, you can post as many as you want, so it won't be a tragedy.

Think so much for the time being. Anyway, people should learn to protect themselves, and those who love themselves should also protect themselves. But if you don't love yourself, you won't let them go. When are you going to abuse yourself? We are not saints, are we?