Why do people say that a person should dress better even if he has no money?

There is a simple saying in my hometown: people are poor in clothes and hats, and houses are poor in brooms.

The room must be dirty without a broom.

If a person doesn't dress well, he will look as poor as a beggar.

My family was poor before, and it was difficult for my mother to make a new dress for several years. Every time I go to my grandmother's house, she only wears that beautiful dress, and immediately washes it and puts it away for later use. A dress that has been worn for several years is still as good as new, which is the secret of my mother's housekeeping!

Our family is poor. Generally speaking, it takes several years to buy a new suit, so my mother's hands are very diligent and her clothes are often washed and mended. She often teaches me to say: don't make up for a broken smile. It will make people laugh if the clothes are rotten and not mended. If you repair them as soon as they are broken, people won't say anything about you. My mother is an expert in needlework, and it is difficult to see any defects in the clothes she has mended.

I usually don't pay attention to what I wear at home, and I have no money to buy new ones. Just be sure to dress neatly when you go out! This is the indigenous way for our poor families to manage their families!

So now that the conditions are good, people pay more attention to wearing. Although we are still short of money, every time the school buys uniforms, we will cooperate with the school and give money to buy uniforms for children at the first time.

People here are generally more face-saving. They often say that they would rather be hungry than lose face! In other words, I'd rather eat worse, but I still have to pay attention to my clothes!

Beautiful appearance is also one of the fine traditions of our Chinese nation.

A person should dress better even if he has no money. I really agree with this sentence.

I don't care much about clothes. I'm more casual. Casual clothes are my favorite.

When I was young, I was short of money, so I didn't have much money to go shopping in big shopping malls. I just went to the shops opened by some humble vendors, or bought cheap things casually. The vendors didn't care much about my clothes, and I didn't feel that my clothes were affected.

However, when I moved to Weihai later, with the growth of age and more money, I felt that the grade should be improved. We should reward ourselves for our efforts in the past few decades, so we often go to some high-end shopping malls with our sister.

My sister has been very particular about clothes since she was a child. Northeasters always like to wear mink and fur coats with a big gold necklace around their necks. She wears gold wherever she can, with a small leather bag and high heels slung over her arm. Oh, it's pretty! What a rich woman! That's how my sister dresses.

I wear casual clothes and my hair is combed. I like to wear a lace hairpin, an ordinary casual dress, a pair of old lady's flat shoes and a cloth bag. Oh, that's silly! At first glance, he is a Lord with little money.

When my sister and I went shopping in high-end shopping malls, I was in sharp contrast with her. Every time we walk into the mall, the waiter will "brush" and greet my sister, introduce her clothes and shoes, and sometimes praise how beautiful and elegant my sister is, pointing out how beautiful it will look in clothes, but I am the one who really wants to buy it, but I am not introduced. It really makes me laugh and cry. I was devastated. I feel that the world is really cruel. It's just judging a book by its cover! What a good response! Dogs look down on people!

Later, I also changed. As long as I go to a decent place, I will clean myself up, put on clothes I don't usually wear and let my hair hang freely. I hate it when I step on it. I see who is still "dogs look down on people"! Hahaha! Let's stop here!

Thank you for reading, and thank you for your support and encouragement!

Fine feathers make fine birds.

Because we have entered the modern social environment, in order to respect others and ourselves, we should pay attention to our clothes. Generally speaking, men are careless, thinking that dressing up is entirely a personal act and has nothing to do with others. And we don't want anything from others, and we don't have to please others too much.

Every time one of my relatives goes out to eat, his hair is beautifully cut, his clothes are basically new, and a pair of shoes are always brand-new. He said, you are all my relatives and friends, and it is not easy for everyone to get together. If I am so-so, I won't take it seriously. I lack sincerity and have no respect for everyone. We are all at this age, with relatively high pensions and enjoying generous treatment. We should be honest with ourselves, not others. We have worked hard all our lives, so don't have the idea of three new and three old. In order to expand market share, buy some new clothes I go out every day, sing every night, go to Uniqlo and go to JD.COM. Very cheap!

Because there are many dog eyes staring at you in the jungle, a person who has no money should dress better! Let me tell you a true story first. Shortly after I joined the work in the 1980s, the nearby countryside asked for help and needed to install transformers, lights and wiring, so we were invited to visit. There are twenty people in our electrician class. Because I didn't go to work, I dressed neatly and brightly. Another worker and I came from the construction site, dressed in overalls full of oil and sweat, and arrived at the village. Suddenly, two rhubarb dog rushed at us, grabbed the edge of their pants and dragged them out. Scared, the production team leader's face changed color. He grabbed a tree stick by the roadside and hit two dogs. And cursed: "Dogs look down on people. If you bite our benefactor, I will kill you." Through this bloody lesson, in my later life, I pay special attention to dressing up and know that a person must dress better if he has no money!

Dogs look down on people, not that dogs look down on people and things, but that dogs look at people like some people in the world and pay attention to appearance. People respect the rich, dogs bite the poor, and people look down on deep pockets. The ancients said that the character is close and the clothes are far away. In the real world, if you are in a familiar crowd and you have a good impression on your behavior because others know and understand you, then it is normal to dress poorly and others will respect you more: but in a foreign country, because you are unfamiliar, that is another matter. For a simple example, if you drink at a party and smoke politely, if you are poorly dressed, others will never propose a toast, let alone smoke. That is the reality. Every time I talk to my friends about this problem, they don't accept it. If I say you don't believe me, obviously you can feel it yourself.

"People's eyes are parallel, but they can't see people equally; People's ears are divided into two sides, but they often listen to the story of one side: people have two holes in their noses, but they vent their anger through one hole of others: people only have one tongue, but they always talk about two sides. " Although people are higher animals, they are no different from those dogs. The same feeling, the same vision, also drifting in the same society, but the level is a bit high and low. In the real society, we only pay attention to the appearance and ignore the inner people and things. Believe you and me, he has heard and seen everything in his long life journey, and even been bitten by a dog. But that bright look, although respected in the eyes of dogs, will actually deceive dogs. In the end, dogs and dog-like villains can only rely on their own internal factors, such as personality, morality and integrity, to make life more brilliant.

Not exactly. Dress neatly, especially when visiting relatives, because it won't embarrass your relatives. No matter how well you dress, others will know you. By the way, can I wear a tie when I work on the construction site? If you do this, people will say you are crazy.

I'm reading bud. I'll answer it.

In the view of reading buds, this is the need of image and etiquette.

However, "dress better" in the question may be better understood if it is replaced by "dress appropriately". Because there is no uniform standard for "good" here, different people have different understandings of "good".

In the third season of watermelon video outdoor reality show, Viann and Hongliang rented an ultra-luxury Mercedes-Benz in Dubai. He said, "Don't be too hard on China people." Reading Bud believes that this is necessary for image needs.

So do ordinary people. Just like looking for a job or dating, be kind to yourself and appear in a decent image.

However, the special emphasis here is "dressing appropriately". For example, when interviewing for a job, the style and style of clothes should match their own environment, and too much emphasis on high-end luxury may be counterproductive.

So is blind date. It is a general income level. If you make yourself a rich second generation, then if the blind date is particularly interested in you, how will it end in the future?

After all, "dressing appropriately" is very important. This is the need of image.

Then why is it a "etiquette" need?

Let's talk about our most impressive flight attendant. They wear specially tailored professional suits and their movements are pleasing to the eye. From the inside out, they reveal an indescribable beauty and make our guests feel respect and courtesy.

The same is true in the workplace. Your dress, coupled with appropriate conversation to treat others, then your professional image will come to the fore, giving people a powerful information field. This "information field" is a trustworthy feeling!

This is the function of etiquette. It is also the image of your environment.

What about in life? In life, image is also very important. As the saying goes, there is no image everywhere!

For example, there is a male university teacher in our community. He usually drives a sports jeep to and from work, which is proud, healthy and fashionable, but he does not lose the demeanor of a new teacher. Every day, he will change into sportswear and go to the opposite gym to exercise, meet his neighbors and say hello politely. This has almost become his inherent habit.

Reading Bud found that he had many friends from all walks of life. They are all equally sunny and full of energy.

Politeness, sunshine and health give people a feeling of kindness and trust. If Sheila has a school-age niece or something, I might suggest that she get in touch with him properly.

To sum up, it is not difficult to understand why some people say that a person should dress better even if he has no money.

Men wear clothes and horses wear saddles. Dressing should not only show a person's self-confidence, but also show respect for others and show a person's quality. To make an inappropriate analogy, in our countryside, dogs are generally fed in most homes? There is another saying: dogs look down on people, that's what it means, because if you go to visit relatives in dirty and torn clothes, or try to walk in the street, dogs will chase you, yell at you and bite you. This explains a problem, no matter where you go, you should pay attention to your image. It's polite. It is also a respect for others.

It is said that no matter how beautiful the appearance is, it is better to have a beautiful inside, but how many people know your inside first when they meet, and they all look at the appearance first. First impression is very important, even if you have no money, you should dress better, which is true. This is because in the eyes of others, the packaging of appearance represents whether a person gets along well. Not wearing well is not only unkind to oneself, but also disrespectful to others, which makes people look down upon it. Others cast strange eyes and even make irresponsible remarks behind their backs, so that they will lose confidence in front of everyone next time.

From big cities to small cities to rural areas, if you don't dress well, people around you will have fantasies and feel that there is a big gap. Although you may not dress up too much when you grow up, they will still think how well you should dress in a big city. This is called scenery. Older people should also dress appropriately to show their taste. It is not good to dress too tacky or too bright, and it is not stable and mature enough to dress too casually.

Everyone wants to dress better, do you think so?

The mother gave birth to four boys and three girls. Although the steps are difficult, the mother still uses her warm heart and hard work to make the children eat and wear warm.

At that time, my father was the secretary of the village branch. The burden of the family, supporting the elderly and bringing up the young, almost falls on the weak shoulders of the mother. My mother is a "three-inch golden lotus" girl with little feet. To support a family of 10 people, the pain and hardship are unimaginable to ordinary people.

But it is under such heavy pressure that the mother's first thought is not about herself, but how to make the elderly, adults and children live a decent life.

Every night, my parents-in-law and children are put into dreams, and my mother sews clothes under dim kerosene. My mother often stays up all night every year. She wants all the children to wear new clean clothes and "Happy New Year".

Outside, the north wind roared, snowflakes danced and dripped into ice. But the mother still sticks to it, pouring care for her children into this thread and weaving warmth in hard work and hard work.

Mother aged prematurely. Just after 40 years old, she put on reading glasses, her hair was gray and her face was carved by vicissitudes. The black and white photos of my mother 58 years ago (1963) recorded my mother's hardships and sorrows. However, due to the age, the family moved several times, and the mother's photo has been lost, which is the children's regret.

Mom, what does she think?

She hopes that the whole family, old and young, can live a decent life and get together with others with an open attitude.

Although you can't impress others, you can't let the children go out and make a fool of themselves just because they are naked!

"A man in clothes and a saddle horse"

My mother's mantra has always been the driving force of my life, and it is still close to my ears, inspiring me to wear personal appearance and live personal appearance; Let my children do the same!

Today, my wife inherits the tradition of her mother-in-law. Although it is not appropriate to wear silk, suits and ties, whenever I go to the market, visit relatives and friends, and meet the masses, my wife always rummages through the wardrobe in advance and prepares new clean clothes for my family to dress up and try on in front of the mirror in advance.

There is only one purpose, to stand in front of people with dignity. What is needed is personal dignity; Respect each other

Now people are better dressed, which is both a "face project" and an "image project"; It is also mixed with more "commercial packaging" and "commercial speculation", constantly expanding to a broader field. For example:

Job hunting and courtship. The word is stop dragon and tiger, and the clothes are made by sen people. This is what my mother always says.

"Mao": It must be. The beard of the dragon and the beard of the tiger are the image characteristics of the dragon and the tiger. By extension, a person's speech is the overflow of its connotation; Dress and appearance are overflow amplifiers. Dressing well will make your appearance more beautiful.

My understanding is that you must be eloquent, well-dressed and make a debut in order to get what you want and find a job or another partner.

Another example is:

Nowadays, young people should have a car, preferably a BMW, even if they have no money. If you can't afford luxury goods, you can buy a Volkswagen; There is really no money, and "second-hand" will do.

Moreover, "BMW" is easier to contact with business and various reasons than "Volkswagen"; "Volkswagen" is better than "second hand"; If you open "bread", even if you are really qualified and have capital, I am afraid it will take some trouble. Because your car is not up to standard, people look down on you, which directly affects the realization of your business objectives.

Love my dog and my house, a lovely crow, standing on the roof, even this house is lovely;

Instead, an owl flew to the roof. "The night owl barks, and the ghost is coming.". The whole house is gloomy and depressing.

In short, today's "wearing" not only touches "self-esteem" and "respect for people"; It is also "commercialized", "bourgeois" and "official career", which permeates all aspects, and its commodity attribute can not be ignored.

People respect the rich, but dogs bite the poor.

This external image is very important.

Dress better if you have no money.

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