How should I deal with my wife's infidelity?

In modern society, cheating seems to be a frequently heard word, but not everyone can handle it well. In order to save your family, here are three precautions:

Be "calm" and not "violent"

When you found out that your wife was cheating on you, you must have been unacceptable, angry and angry at first. This is normal psychology. The more calm you are at this time, some boys may be violent, such as beating their wives, hitting children, throwing things at home, or pulling their wives to divorce immediately. This is a very undesirable behavior, but it will push the wife farther and farther, into the arms of the lover, and even affect the child's psychology. Calm down and think about it. Why did my wife cheat? Is there less concern for her after marriage, which makes her feel empty?

To "communicate", not "self-denial"

If you find that your wife is cheating, you should grasp the evidence of cheating in time, and then find time to communicate 1 time. It's just communication between two people. Don't involve both parents and children. This will cause more people in the family to become estranged, resulting in an irreparable situation. When communicating, don't make a fuss, negotiate calmly and see how your wife explains it. At this time, the wife will definitely blame her husband for the problem. At this time, you should listen carefully and analyze the specific reasons. But one thing to remember is that what the other party says is not necessarily true. She may be lying and making excuses. Therefore, you must never deny yourself and feel that you are useless. After all, you are the victim. Don't be too afraid of losing each other. You should reflect on the facts. The more you keep a low profile, the more she looks down on you.

To "reach * * * knowledge", don't "forgive easily"

Find out how many times you cheated, or only 1 time, whether you are eager for novelty or really have feelings, and then make a final decision. Some husbands are afraid of losing and forgive easily under the coaxing or high-profile of their wives. Believe me, if this goes on, there will definitely be the nth derailment. If, after communication, the other party has remorse and is willing to correct it, then two people will face the problems in intimate relationship, find out the problems, propose improvement measures, reach an understanding, and sign an agreement or record when necessary. People are generally afraid of evidence such as agreements or recordings, and bind each other with an invisible rope.

be picky

I hope this method will work for you. It is not easy to meet and fall in love smoothly. I hope everyone can be happy.

Hope to adopt