Why do some people feel so at ease after doing unconscionable things?

Ha! To answer this question, we need to give examples, for example:

In the past two or three years, there has been a lot of talk on the Internet about "Zhou Libo taking drugs." Does anyone have evidence?

Accusing "Zhou Libo of taking drugs" without evidence and pretending to be righteous is "doing something unconscionable."

I believe everyone knows what "based on facts" means, and I believe everyone knows what "police information reporting" means.

There is neither "factual basis" nor "police information report", ha! I have indeed seen some people acting "without conscience" to express their "righteousness", but I don't know why those people are so "at ease"?

Is it fun to wrongly accuse an innocent person? Is it fun to slander an innocent person?

Ha! I don’t understand, I really don’t understand why this is happening? I really don’t understand why those who slander and slander are so “at ease”? I really don’t understand why those people who spread rumors are so “at ease”?

Tell me something about the neighboring village.

Qiu San from a neighboring village got cancer in his forties. As soon as he closed his eyes before his death, he would wake up and scream that someone was going to kill him. The family members stayed by the bedside and tried to persuade him. He said, "Don't try to persuade me. I know what I know." It was the child who came to claim his life.

Everyone in his family thought he was delirious and talking nonsense before he died. But he let out a long sigh and said: Alas, it has been more than ten years, and it has been weighing on my heart like a millstone. I thought I would forget it after a long time, but I didn’t expect that as long as I closed my eyes, that child would come to me for help. life. .

It turned out that more than ten years ago, when he was driving through a village, a six or seven-year-old child suddenly came over. He had no time to brake and pinned the child under the wheel. Seeing that there was no one around, he drove The child was carried into the car, covered with debris, and quickly fled the scene. He drove dozens of miles at a stretch and stopped at a reed beach. It was far away from the village and there was no decent road. He wanted to dig a hole for the child's body and bury it in the reeds. (He was carrying a shovel in the car.) When he went to pick up the child, he found that the child's body was still moving, he touched his nose, and he was still breathing weakly. After hesitating for a moment, he cruelly buried the child deep in the reed beach.

After returning home, he was always frightened. He had nightmares and yelled many nights. It was not the police who came to arrest him, but the parents of his children who came to fight for him. He didn't dare tell anyone, including his family. He is afraid when seeing the police, he is afraid when talking about escaping from a car accident, and he always thinks that getting sick is retribution.

When he finished speaking, he breathed a long sigh of relief and closed his eyes as if he had been relieved.

Those who have done things that are harmful to nature and have no conscience, on the surface, seem not to care, but in fact they are always tortured in their hearts, especially when encountering natural disasters and man-made disasters, they always think it is okay

You don’t have correct views

A kind and fair person will not bully others, but will consider the feelings and interests of others, and will get what he deserves through his regular work. remuneration.

People with incorrect views often feel that they are powerful and others are stupid and weak, and then they will bully, take advantage of others, and even harm others inhumanely.

In fact, no one in the world is stupid, and they should not be bullied or violated. A fair and just world is the most correct and lasting one. Because unfairness will lead to unfairness, it will disappoint kind people, and it will change people's ideas, and the bad guys who succeed will become more rampant and less humane. It will only be a vicious cycle and destroy more kind people. Honest man. I hope that everyone starts from themselves and becomes a clean, independent, fair and just person. Stay away from those selfish people, so that they will eventually have no market... Transform into kind people, fair and just in dealing with the world. ?( 'ω' ) ( 'ω' ) ( 'ω' )?

They think that as long as others don’t know they have done bad things, they will feel at ease. These people have not yet reached the level of human cultivation. , if you do bad things, your heart will always be uneasy, this is the state. There is another phenomenon now, that is, some people go to other places and do illegal things because they think that others don’t know them. This is also the case when they do bad things and others don’t know about them, so they think it’s okay.

The key to social progress is the progress of people. We have just had enough to eat and have just begun to move towards a well-off society. People's progress has not yet caught up. Don't worry, it will take the efforts of several generations.

Why do some people feel so at ease after doing unscrupulous things?

Personally, I think there are probably three explanations for conscience. 1. Innate good character. 2. Mental judgment of right and wrong, good and evil and other emotional experiences. 3. Kindness.

If a person is selfish, narrow-minded and overbearing by nature, and is born in a family where his parents are selfish and unjust.

The environment where I grew up was full of crises. I had no sense of security and was always filled with anxiety. And they didn’t get good guidance and receive good education. In this case, I'm afraid he has no conscience at all and does whatever he does with peace of mind.

A classmate once said that he had met such a child. When she entered the freshman year of high school, she injured her foot and was on crutches for some unknown reason. The class teacher cared about her and arranged for other students in the dormitory to take care of her daily life and the safety of her dormitory to the classroom.

At first, her classmates helped her, but later they all ignored her. After understanding the situation, I realized that not only was she ungrateful for everyone's help, but she also felt at ease.

If she feels that it is inconvenient for others to be healthy, they should take care of her. Moreover, it was the head teacher who arranged to take care of her, so he should serve her.

She was inconvenient to move, but she still gave orders and called everyone around. When people helped her, she didn't even say "thank you", as if others owed her a favor.

Through guidance and education, she was finally able to get along well with everyone. There was a girl in the same dormitory who was very kind-hearted. She took care of her until her foot injury healed, and even became friends with her.

Who would have known that in her second year of high school, one of her two good friends was sitting in the front row and the other was sitting in the back row. Just after class, her friend held a stainless steel cup in his hand and stretched it out to invite her to get water. By chance, she also turned around. The two of them moved at the same time unexpectedly, and the force was so strong that the cup knocked a little of one of her teeth. , the other two are a bit loose and painful.

Her friend quickly reported to the head teacher, sent the child to the hospital, and notified the parents. Oh my god, her parents are incredible. Her friend's family kept apologizing and paid all the hospital bills.

Her mother asked for compensation again. At first, she took the initiative and said that they would bear all the costs of filling the child's teeth, no matter what materials were used, whether they were repaired or replaced, and they would pay an additional three thousand yuan. . When she refused, she talked about five thousand. If she still refused, she talked about thirteen thousand. Still not doing it, eventually, her friend’s parents quit. I feel that more than 13,000 is unbearable.

Her mother said that the girl had a small piece of her tooth missing and her appearance was disfigured. Not only will it have a great impact on her children's hearts, but it will also affect their future job hunting, finding a partner, and the like, with unrelenting and excessive demands. Just ask for high compensation.

She just never mentioned that she had always taken care of her daughter, and was a classmate and friend of her daughter. No gratitude at all.

The head teacher scolded the class teacher, and the Moral Education Department interceded. She scolded the Moral Education Department and threatened to sue the school. Later, the head teacher endured her anger and tried to calm her down. No matter how hard she tried to persuade her, she refused to do anything but demanded tens of thousands of dollars in compensation.

Neither party gave in, and the head teacher became angry. Ignore this matter. You go to court yourself and let the court decide. Don’t even ask. Ignore it!

You said, doesn’t this mean that everyone has a different stance and everyone feels they are justified? Family has a great influence on people. Would a conscientious person do this?

To be honest, through these two things, we can basically see the future of this child. Poor child, why does he have such a mother? To be honest, I really feel sorry for such a child, and I can only give her more care and ideological guidance.

We have different values. You think it is unconscionable and harmful to nature. He doesn’t think so. He is working hard for the country and the people. It is natural that gangsters have gangster logic, traitors have reasons for being traitors, and the people have popular needs. Politicians may be careerists who just use power to do good things or do evil things. They do not have the same values ??and have different levels of understanding and acceptance. It is not surprising that the same phenomenon can be interpreted differently.

A kind-hearted person will always consider the other person when doing anything. Only those who plot against others will do one thing in front of others and do another thing behind their backs.

This kind of people has existed throughout the ages, and there has never been a shortage of novels and operas. A similar story is told in "A Dream of Red Mansions":

Jin Chuan was the maid of Jia Baoyu's mother, Mrs. Wang. Because Jin Chuan joked with Jia Baoyu, Mrs. Wang thought that she had "taught" Baoyu bad. Not only did he beat Jin Chuan, but he also drove her out of Jia's house. Jin Chuan couldn't think about it for a while, so he threw himself into a well and committed suicide...

Mrs. Wang heard that Jin Chuan had committed suicide and felt guilty. Guess how her niece Xue Baochai comforted her? Xue Baochai had three meanings in persuading Mrs. Wang:

1. Jin Chuan did not commit suicide because of shame and anger, but he might have slipped and fell while playing in front of the well.

2. If she really committed suicide out of shame and anger, it also means that she is a confused person, and there is no need to regret her death.

3. When a servant dies, he dies. It’s just a matter of rewarding her with a few more taels of silver.

After Xue Baochai’s advice, Mrs. Wang really felt “at ease”. So they gave money, clothes, and asked monks to chant sutras and be saved, and a life ended like this...

In real life, some people do unconscionable things but feel at ease, which is incredible in the eyes of ordinary people. Mainly because of the difference in "perception" of the world. Being able to have peace of mind is, in the final analysis, an expansion of "self-interested" thinking.

For example, in the cognitive world of a thief, there is only the thought of "getting something for nothing" and he only wants to steal money from other people's pockets. No matter whether other people's money was earned with blood or sweat, or was intended to be used to save lives or emergencies, he didn't care about that! As long as he can successfully put money from other people's pockets into his own pocket, he will feel a sense of accomplishment and the joy of success.

Human nature dictates. This kind of person always judges others by himself, and in his vision, everyone is the same as him. He believes that everyone will do things that are unconscionable. If you don't do it, it will be in vain. He has become accustomed to it, so he feels at ease and never gets entangled. Also because they never get entangled, this kind of person sleeps peacefully and eats sweetly. Compared with those people who think about others in everything, he is more energetic. It also proves the old saying: good people don’t live long, and disasters last a thousand years!

Because evil people, bad people, and despicable people never check their own behavior. They only think about how to plot against others. If they do excessive things to others, they will also find ways to cover up and defend themselves! What's more, they will pretend to be taken advantage of!