An affair with a colleague

The performance of ambiguous relationship with colleagues, everyone will meet colleagues of the opposite sex at work, and there will be more and more contact in communication. Especially between men and women, there must be some different feelings. Let's take a look at the performance of ambiguous relationship with colleagues.

Having an affair with a colleague 1 1, the same hobby as you.

It is normal for colleagues to get along well with each other, but if you find that men and women have the same interests, such as wearing the same color clothes or using the same cup, it is likely that two people have a crush on each other.

Step 2 keep in touch

There will be work contact at work, but I want to contact each other after work and want to date each other. Such a move shows that there is an affair between two people.

Step 3 be interested in each other

If at work, a colleague is often curious about another person and asks him, it means that he wants to know each other, not the general colleague relationship.

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How to judge that colleagues of the opposite sex like you?

1, will help you?

If you find that a boy is enthusiastic about you at work, he will take the initiative to help you do something to show his affection for you. You can judge whether the other person is pursuing you through these things.

Do you think he is looking at you?

A woman's heart is very sensitive, so if you find a boy staring at you often and looking at you with affectionate eyes, it means that he is not an ordinary colleague and may like you.

3. Will you not drink for you when you eat?

In the company, social intercourse is inevitable. If you want to drink together, there will always be a boy around you to stop drinking for you, like a flower protector. This fully shows that he has different feelings for you.

Performance of ambiguous relationship with colleagues 2 performance of ambiguous relationship with married colleagues

First, deliberately approach you.

Many times, you may keep a normal distance, but gradually, the other person is getting closer and closer to you, and even the other person is always sitting next to you. Even if there are many empty seats, they will choose to sit next to you, and sometimes there will be some "careless" physical contact. At this time, we must realize this.

Second, ask for your contact information.

Although it is normal for colleagues to have contact information with each other, sometimes they don't want all the contact information to be known to each other, so they may find an excuse to refuse. However, if the other party has been tirelessly asking for all your contact information and will continue to send you messages, or even send you messages in the middle of the night, then be wary.

Third, I often have physical contact with you.

When two people who know each other work together, it is inevitable that there will be some physical contact. It doesn't matter if you just clap your hands, clap your shoulders or shake hands, because this is a common way for colleagues to encourage each other. But if it is some intimate movements, such as touching your head and hugging your shoulders, you still need to keep a little distance.

Fourth, always ask you out in private.

Generally speaking, it is normal to have some dinner invitations at work, because we have work to discuss, but if the other party keeps asking you out in their own private time, this is a sign that the other party is interested in you. Once or twice may be nothing, but if it is a regular invitation, it must be because it is interesting to you.

5. The tone is ambiguous.

Most of the topics that normal colleagues talk about are about work, and sometimes they may say some gossip, but if a colleague of the opposite sex always says something inexplicable to you, he always uses some ambiguous tone to show that the other party actually wants to develop further relations with you.

These are all manifestations of ambiguity between colleagues. If both of them are single, there is no problem, but if one of them is married, it is said that both of them are married, we should avoid such ambiguous behavior.

Performance of ambiguous relationship with colleagues 3 How to tell whether he is ambiguous with colleagues of the opposite sex?

Keep in touch when you get home.

After returning home, I still keep in frequent contact with colleagues of the opposite sex. Of course, the contact information has also changed from calling to online contact, such as WeChat and QQ. , while chatting, and so on. Anyway, I'm very involved. If you doubt it, I'll tell you right away: my colleagues are jealous, too. What a bore!

Help colleagues of the opposite sex more.

Whenever a colleague of the opposite sex calls, he immediately runs away from home and tells you righteously: my colleague asks me for help, but I won't help him? How to get along in the future? You are speechless. Once or twice is normal and frequent. That must be a problem.

Reflect the "preferences" of colleagues of the opposite sex.

If you know the preferences of your husband's colleagues of the opposite sex, you may find that your husband has women's preferences, such as the color of clothes that women like, the perfume that women like, or the hairstyle that women suggest to your husband.

I hate your comments about that female colleague.

If you criticize his colleagues of the opposite sex in front of him, such as her dress and her personality, you will find that your husband is somewhat dissatisfied. Maybe he won't have a moment of forbearance, but he won't pick up your quarrel or find a topic not to go there.

Be careful that you mention her.

If your husband is really having an affair with a female colleague, he will show a little vigilance when you mention her. When you talk about their relationship intentionally or unintentionally, he may speak faster and louder, and face your topic with his usual nervous attitude.

Curious about the "news" of female colleagues

If you live close to or are familiar with that female colleague, then when you mention some news gossip about her, including her family, she will listen to you quietly even if she doesn't ask you, and naturally show some curiosity and concern.

I absolutely don't like you going to work.

This is a very accurate move. It's better to try it once in a while, but not always. It is so boring. Find a good excuse and suddenly go to his unit to see the performance between your husband and that female colleague. Generally speaking, when you are in love with your husband, the female colleagues will be very silent or contemptuous, and your husband will look at the female colleagues unnaturally.