Tell me why you miss Dink.

With the development of social economy, more and more people don't want to have children or even get married. What are the reasons why so many people don't want children?

First, the mind is becoming more and more open.

In traditional thinking, having children is to carry on the family line, which is everyone's mission and obligation and must be fulfilled and completed.

With more and more open-minded, people gradually dislike the traditional thought that "there are three unfilial sons, and no offspring is the biggest", and gradually think that fertility is a matter between husband and wife and should not be influenced by others. It doesn't matter whether you have children or not.

Second, the trauma of family background.

Some people use childhood to cure their whole lives, while others use their whole lives to cure their childhood. The harm caused by family background is long-term and incurable. People who grow up in an environment where their parents quarrel all day and the family atmosphere is not harmonious are often Dink when they grow up. Because they don't want their children to have the same experience as themselves.

Third, economic pressure.

The ancients said, "Only women are difficult to raise." . Although this sentence is biased to some extent, it is also reasonable literally. According to statistics, women's products and maternal and child products occupy the consumer market every year.

There is no doubt that the cost of raising a child is huge. From milk powder as a child, to various interest classes in primary and secondary schools, and then to college tuition, a lot of economic and time costs have been spent. So many people choose Dink not because they don't want to have children, but because they dare not have children and can't afford them.

Fourth, disrupt the pace of life.

Having children can really disrupt the pace of life. Many families used to live a relaxed and harmonious life, but after having children, they became a family of three. Many times we have to revolve around children, who occupy the center of life. Moreover, many parents will have differences on their children's educational concepts, which will increase a lot of unnecessary quarrels.

Fifth, the weak position of women needs to be improved.

In real life, women choose Dink more than men. A big reason is that women who give birth to children pay a higher price, not only facing appearance anxiety, but also postpartum depression. Most importantly, they may be marginalized in the workplace because of having children. The failure to improve the weak position of women is also an important reason why many women are unwilling to have children.

It is everyone's freedom to choose Dink or not to choose Dink. We should not judge any behavior from the moral high ground. Dink is no exception, they also have their own thinking and judgment.