My boyfriend said I was promiscuous because of a text message.

I think my boyfriend is too stingy and too proud to live.

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. A very small thing is that when he got up in the morning, he turned on my mobile phone and received a short message, which said, "Why aren't you online recently? I miss you very much."

That's just an ordinary foreign netizen. I've never met him, only talked to him online a few times. Then the boyfriend took the liberty to reply "Don't bother her in the future". Then the netizen replied, "Sorry, I won't call you in the middle of the night in the future, which will affect your sleep."

I woke up, and I watched my boyfriend return messages on his mobile phone. I thought my boyfriend used my mobile phone to send messages to others, so I wanted to grab it. He wouldn't let me go. He asked me how I was such a woman. I don't know why.

I said just friends. He said he would answer the message in person. I said we were just ordinary friends, and he wouldn't let me reply to him in front of you.

And then we kept calling. Finally, I thought he was unreasonable, so I slapped him in the face and was short of breath, and then he left angrily.

I think he is too stingy to make a mountain out of a molehill. He has no tolerance, trust or masculinity at all. He called me a playboy, promiscuous, a bad woman and that he had given up. I really find him puzzling. It was an ordinary text message from an ordinary friend. He made a mountain out of a molehill.

I know I'm a little impatient, but my ex-boyfriend is possessive. When I look at other men, he will hit me. I have a shadow, so I don't like such men.

He thinks what he said is reasonable, I think what I said is reasonable, and I don't know what to do. Now this boyfriend, my best female friend, once kissed me in front of me. I didn't say anything, and I didn't make a fuss like him at all.

He always said that he was joking with my friends. Did he kiss in front of me? I think such a man is really stingy. Why did an ordinary friend send me a message saying that I am not a good woman, that I am a playboy and that I am promiscuous? I can't control others to send me messages, and I didn't let him. I have nothing to do with him. A foreign netizen, whom I have never met before, talked several times, which really makes me angry.

Another time, we surfed the Internet in an Internet cafe, and the box had no door. I don't like this feeling. I feel insecure. I said change to an internet cafe. He said I was surfing the Internet, so what should I change? Then he went to his own, ignored me and threw me aside. Finally, I was very angry, so I took out my mobile phone and sent messages to others. I'm so bored. My boyfriend saw it, and he said I was with him, sending messages to other men. It was also the cold war for nearly half a month. Women's private words (//Sifang dialect)

Another time, at his friend's house, I didn't offend him or say anything wrong. To save face, he called me names in front of his friends. He probably feels embarrassed in front of his friends. Because he said he despised people who were most afraid of their wives. He thought a fierce wife would make him look good in front of his friends, and then I stopped talking. I don't even want to talk to him.

As soon as we came out of his friend's house, he came to coax me. Isn't this a typical humiliation? I said don't talk to me, and then he stepped on the gas pedal and drove me home. It was also a cold war for half a month.

He is 25 years old this year. I'm so angry that I don't know how to stand it. It's all my fault in the end anyway. Everybody say, who can stand such a man? He also said, if you don't believe me, ask online and see whose fault it is. If he is wrong, kneel down and apologize to me. I really feel childish. Such a trivial matter needs to be asked online. Men are so generous and tolerant, I don't know how angry I will be for the rest of my life.

It was his first love, so he was stubborn and proud. I am also an emotional person. I really feel so tired. I just want to find an honest and reliable person to lead a plain life, but he doesn't trust me very much.

He said that he felt insecure with me, and I would definitely betray him after we got married. I said, we're not married, so you're so sure I'm not a good woman?

I had a boyfriend before. He fell in love for the first time, but who didn't have the past? His first woman was not me either, but he married a young lady for the first time. Why did he hold on to these things?

Maybe he is not confident, because I have always had many suitors. Maybe we really don't fit in. But he's really a good guy. He doesn't smoke or drink. Even if he gambles occasionally, we have been together for half a year. I have come to depend on him. I really don't know what to do!