Tell yourself if you can speak a little.

1. Have a good life. Don't always tell others what you are doing. Maybe they don't want to know.

Second, instead of being busy and conspicuous, it is better to be the most real and natural person in the crowd, not to make public, not to be artificial, and to leave a figure at any time.

Third, the purpose of our busyness is often to enjoy life, repay our parents, satisfy our loved ones and be selfless. But the result of our busyness is often: we can't enjoy life, stay away from our parents, ignore our lovers and become selfish.

As long as you remember, as long as you are not afraid of pain, death and shame, there is nothing you can't take away.

Maturity is not worn away, but becomes sophisticated and practical. True maturity is the serenity and atmosphere that need not be kept secret, and the calmness and tranquility that wash away the lead.

6. When you grow up, it seems that not many people will care whether you are happy or not. Many people only look at whether you have a future. However, you must care whether you are happy or not.

Seven, before being misunderstood, I will be indignant and try my best to explain, but now I am too lazy to say anything. Stay if you like, leave if you are tired, and the road will reach the horizon.

Eight, sometimes expectations and disappointment are irreconcilable, but you can't be afraid of disappointment, or even have no expectations. I think the taste of hopelessness is worse than disappointment. Even a mirage is better than empty silence.

When you hate people around you, the best way to express your disgust is not to quarrel with them, but to be diligent and leave them. In that way, they will disappear from your life forever, just like death.

10. Don't force things that don't belong to you, and don't force people that don't belong to you, because they don't belong to you, and they will leave sooner or later, so why not let go?

Everyone in your life is meaningful. Some people come to your life once, just to tell you that many people can only accompany you for a journey, not a lifetime.

Twelve, if a person has nothing to rely on, he will often become strong. You are simple, the world is a fairy tale; The heart is complex and the world is a maze. When you see things too clearly, you often lose the courage to do things.

Thirteen, the more experience, the more I don't want to talk. In different situations, others may not understand what I want to say, so I slowly learned to bear it silently.

Fourteen, the stronger a person's self-healing ability, the closer to happiness. Be a taciturn person, but there is a sea in my heart, and I don't hurt others or myself. I am gentle and free in silence.

15. The thorn on the rose is not to hurt others, but to protect yourself. It is good to want to be a good person, but there is absolutely no need to make yourself a "rotten good person" who always helps others but keeps hurting himself.

16. Don't make yourself too tired in any relationship. If you are unhappy, end it.

Seventeen, when people are young, they feel that people are everywhere, and other people's business is your business. After middle age, they feel that there is nothing in this world except their families.

Eighteen, it used to be very simple, and it was hard to look back when something happened. Something funny can be shared immediately, and something sad can also be talked about. But the response is often "hehe" or indifference, so I slowly learned to be silent.

Nineteen, people are really strange sometimes. Those who choose will regret it, and those who give up will regret it, but perfection can only be an ideal, not an existence.

If you still care about what others say about you, then you must subconsciously agree with what others say about you. Only when you are really strong can you not be afraid of any speech.

Twenty-one, one must always learn to love oneself. If they are cold, add a coat for themselves. If you are hungry, buy yourself a bread; If you fail, give yourself a comfort; Fall down, get up painfully and give yourself a tolerant smile.