As a child's parents, do you resent the old people helping you with your baby?

As a child's parents, do you resent the old people helping you with your baby? As a child's parents, can you dislike the old people helping you with your children? It is not without benefits for the elderly to take care of their babies. In fact, Bao Ma can sometimes ask the elderly to help share some, and parenting education together is mutually beneficial. Some treasure mothers think that the old people's ideas are out of date, and raising children will have a bad influence on them, so they would rather suffer a little than give them to the old people. Some treasure moms think that the elderly have rich experience in taking care of their children, which can give them stronger care, and they especially like children, and they feel at ease when they give them to the elderly.

The educational awareness of the elderly and the younger generation may be different, but parents must make it clear that the elderly, like the parents of their children, are essentially for the good of their babies and give them stronger care and correct guidance. Therefore, when there are educational differences with the elderly, parents need to be more tolerant and understanding of the elderly, less complaining, and more consultation and communication with the elderly, so as to reach a unified proposal on the issue of educating their children. Naturally, there are also some old people in life, who are especially popular with their children's parents. They are all good at giving their children to such a belt. Most of these elderly people who ask their parents to take care of their children have these characteristics.

1, an old man with connotation and avant-garde thoughts can give children a lot of help and correct guidance, which is not only conducive to the development of children's life skills, but also conducive to the cultivation of children's personality traits and values. At the same time, the old people are avant-garde, adopt a more sensible attitude towards some new things, and are more willing to study with their children, which will make children have a lot of fun and help them develop excellent study habits and attitudes.

2, there are principles, do not spoil children, many elderly people are particularly spoiled by children, and they are so spoiled by children. This is beyond reproach. After all, there is no old man who doesn't like his grandson, but he loves children and can't love them without principles. Old people love their children, but they don't spoil them. If they act according to principles, they will have more authority in their children's minds and make their parents feel more at ease.

3. Always take children out to socialize. Children often stay at home, which will have negative factors on their temperament shaping, interpersonal communication and love work ability. An old man who often takes his children out to socialize will not only make their daily lives happier, but also help their development in all aspects. Old people are willing to help their parents take care of their children, which is good luck for their parents. When they meet some avantgarde and wise old people, they also get help from their children's parents. Even if the elderly are a little behind in educating their children, parents need not complain about them. We should be more tolerant, communicate with them and reach an agreement on the issue of educating children, which is very helpful for children's long-term education.