My father-in-law is ill, and my daughter-in-law pays for the operation. When I got home, my husband angrily filed for divorce. Why?

Life always teaches people a lot inadvertently. Although the process is cruel and the result is not satisfactory, it is indeed an indispensable part of everyone's growth, especially for the relationship between husband and wife. Many times, the intimacy of husband-wife relationship is superior to everything, but sometimes, the firmness of husband-wife relationship can only be described as "feeling as thin as paper", which can be seen everywhere in life.

After my father-in-law fell ill, as a daughter-in-law, regardless of family interests, she resolutely took out the money of the husband and wife to save lives. However, in the process, she did not tell her husband. After returning, she simply explained the situation to her husband, but she was accused by her husband and even asked her to get the money back on the grounds of divorce. This kind of thing seems absurd, but it is a living example in life. During this period, there was a misunderstanding without a clear title, which also reflected the husband's indifference to his wife from the side.

As a married daughter-in-law, calling her father-in-law "Dad" is a reflection of one's self-cultivation, recognition of her husband's family and sincere integration. After her father-in-law fell ill, she immediately took out her savings and her husband's savings to help her see a doctor, which shows her generosity as a daughter-in-law. In these respects, her daughter-in-law is qualified, but it is precisely because of this "father" that her husband mistakenly thinks that she is a father. It is estimated that this man should have such a similar idea in his heart.

For the man himself, it is understandable that he is busy with work and doesn't care about his family. However, he still doesn't know about his father who needs to spend so much money when he is sick. After his wife told him the situation, his first reaction was not to get to know the patient, but to recover the money. At least two reasons can be seen. On the one hand, the husband is indifferent to the family, that is, he doesn't care how his wife gets along with his parents, nor does he care about the health of his family, even his biological parents. On the other hand, extreme selfishness, after the money is spent, since it has created an established fact, both the woman and the man's parents should look at the old man's illness at this time instead of staring at their own money. Money is hard to come by, but its function is not to live.

Life is not easy, especially for couples, who have to take care of their own small families and their parents' families. In this case, both husband and wife should handle the relationship between money and parents and family. The man should not favor one over the other, and the woman should not only think about her family, but should accumulate wealth for her newly formed family. Only when husband and wife are together will they be able to help the original parents in case of emergency, and will not create new family conflicts after help. After all, filial piety is not only for yourself, but also for children to see and learn.