What is the experience of having a reasonable mother?

What's it like to have a reasonable mother? Full of practicality, happiness and pride!

My mother is recognized as a reasonable person by her neighbors. Here are some things you can evaluate.

1, thrifty, filial to in-laws. Mother is a hardworking and simple person. She gets up early every day and cleans the house and yard after getting up. She always does it gently for fear of waking us up. Clean the yard and then cook. Then wake us up one by one and get up for dinner. My grandfather died young and my grandmother was old. Mother always cooks delicious meals, delivers them to grandma's room in person, feeds her spoonfuls, and then eats them by herself. At that time, although our family was poor and humble, my mother always cleaned it up. Grandma also praised her mother directly, saying that she was very lucky to find such a good wife.

2. Educate your children and learn to succeed. My mother only has primary school culture, but she has a soft spot for reading and learning. She taught us to study hard and be admitted to the university in the future to become useful people. When we were naughty and playful and didn't study hard, she hid aside and quietly shed tears. She won't laugh until we study hard. At the beginning, all four of our brothers were studying, and the economic conditions at home were very poor. But she and her father never wanted us to drop out of school. Now that I think about it, if it weren't for their persistence, the four of us really wouldn't have passed the exam and wouldn't have achieved today!

3, harmonious neighborhood, helping others. My mother is a kind person. She gets along well with her neighbors and never quarrels. Occasionally there are some small contradictions, and my mother always patiently explains the truth to others. If we meet, your mother won't care. My family's conditions have been bad. Nevertheless, my mother always relies on relatives with worse conditions. My mother never lets people go back empty-handed as long as they talk.

Love your daughter-in-law, and be as close as mother and daughter. In a big family, the most difficult thing to get along with is the mother-in-law relationship. But in our family, this problem has never appeared. Several of our brothers are married and have children, and we have added "outsiders" to our family. However, no matter which daughter-in-law enters the door, the mother never puts on the airs of her mother-in-law and never tells her daughter-in-law to do this or that. Always ask questions kindly and let the daughters-in-law have a rest. She went into the kitchen to prepare food and drinks. When she left, she packed mung beans, peanuts and sweet potatoes in several small bags and took them home one by one. Because of this, my mother won the respect of several daughters-in-law, who are always busy and help my mother. Every time I go home, I bring a delicious gift to my mother.

Over the years, my mother's words and deeds have exerted a subtle influence on us. No matter at work or in getting along with others, we have remained kind, simple and responsible, so we have gained our own down-to-earth and happy life. Thank you for your mother's upbringing and teaching. May your mother live a long and healthy life!