How should parents grow up with their babies?

The difference between the first child and the second child in my family is 8 years old. At first, I thought I had a baby, and I had some experience. The result was completely different. Everything has to be learned from scratch, and sometimes it collapses. I always compare Bao Xiao with Dabao, and I think Bao Xiao is hard to bring. In fact, every baby will have his own personality, so as long as you understand the baby's rules, it is easy to bring it up. If you really don't understand, you can use the network platform.

For a few months old baby, the company of parents is also very important.

Many older people think that children are so young that they don't know anything, so it's the same for anyone who takes them.

Actually, it's not. Children have a natural connection with their mothers from the moment they leave them.

Some children will especially like their fathers.

So, how should parents accompany their small-month-old babies?

Let's talk about how to accompany a baby who is one month younger with children's songs.

1. If you love me, hug me.

The younger a child is, the more he needs his mother's hug and comfort. This is an important way to give them a sense of security.

My little sister, after she was born, was very busy at home. My mother didn't hug her. After eating the milk, she lay in bed and slept. Lazar cleared up and continued to lie in bed. That's it. Until my little sister is 7 months old, she can sit and crawl, and occasionally hug her and make a scene. My little sister is very insecure and has a keen sense of touch. If something touches her a little, she will scream and shout pain. I wonder if it has something to do with the lack of contact and hugs when I was a child.

2. If you love me, kiss me.

Kissing a child is a sign of love. But remember, don't kiss too much. Especially when adults are infected with the virus, don't kiss children when they have a cold and are sick.

When kissing children, try to kiss your forehead and face, not your mouth.

There have been many cases abroad. Parents, relatives and friends all have germs. After kissing the child, the child's whole face festered. Another thing happened this year. After an old man kissed the child, the child was infected with virus, and the rescue was ineffective, which led to tragedy.

If you love me, stay with me.

Being with children is equally important.

In many families, the elderly take care of their children and their parents go out to work to earn money to support their families. This is really understandable. But I still want to suggest that if mothers can spend more time with their children, it will be very beneficial to their growth.

As parents can accompany their children, it should be said that the children belong to their parents completely, that is, the first three years, during which the children are completely dependent on their parents. Later, as the children grew up, they no longer needed their parents.

So, stay with the children while they still belong to us.

It is a wonderful thing to witness the growth of life.

The baby grows and develops rapidly, and every month's baby has its own characteristics. Parents should accompany their babies according to their development.

1, the baby who can't turn over yet

Parents can buy a bed bell for their baby, or step on the piano, or buy a balloon for their baby to tie to their feet and let them play by themselves.

Bells are very popular with babies. Babies can hug and play with small hands, with holes or balls that can be held. The combination of different color blocks can enrich their horizons and make them have fun.

At the same time, the baby can listen to children's songs with early education toys or mobile phones, giving the baby a pleasant environment and having fun. Parents can also sing to the baby, and the baby will be very happy.

After the baby is three months old, you can let the baby play on his stomach more often, and his parents are lying down, so that the baby will not be disgusted. Then slowly try to help the baby learn to turn over.

2. Babies who can sit

The previous toy baby has played very well.

You can start by giving your baby some music drums, rolling balls or electric crawling toys, and start to guide your baby to learn to crawl.

Parents can show their babies picture books and read them themselves.

3. Babies who start to learn to walk

You can buy a small balance car or twist car for your baby to exercise your baby's balance and coordination ability.

Building blocks will never get tired of baby's play. Give your baby a set according to his hobbies, and you can play at any time. Exercise your baby's finger flexibility and give play to your baby's creativity.

This question is rather general. I have been doing my own parenting for so many years. When I first gave birth, I was at a loss. Later, I learned a lot about early education, and it gradually went smoothly. I think the most important thing here is to cultivate your temper. When I was young, all I could think about was cuteness, but crying was also fatal. How to control your temper when you don't get enough sleep requires hard work. Then play with children. Children learn everything quickly in the prime time before they are three years old, and have absorbed and learned a lot at an unexpressed age, so you need to instill it in him in the right way. In addition, the family environment is very important. Maintain a good family environment. Children are happy every day and will not be afraid. Finally, how to play with children? Have the ability to go to early education, early education is just a learning method. If you can't, you can also read books by yourself and see if Tik Tok can learn some nursery rhymes or games. If you want to talk to your child more, you can take him outside to bask in the sun. Being with children of the same age can increase his social skills.

Personal experience sharing:

Hug more, hug if you can. 1-2 months lying next to your child gives your child a sense of security.

Talk more, talk about today's work, today's new things, today's weather, ask if you want to tell stories, that is, communicate like adults and give children an auditory experience.

See more, squares, parks, supermarkets (this is suitable for children to pick up and drop off, choose people to go for a short time, and avoid human disease infection), which can increase your knowledge.

It's purely personal experience, just like this when shooting Bao Xiao ~ I hope it's useful ~

As a new treasure mother, I also have research in this field, and at the same time I have summarized some methods according to my family situation.

First of all, if you want to grow up with your baby, the premise is that both parents agree. This personal feeling is really important. I often hear some baby mothers complain that they want to stay at home with their children, but as soon as the old man lets the children go to work, her husband falls down with the wind. There are also husbands who complain that their wives don't go to work and watch their children play mobile phones at home every day, quarreling every day, which affects family harmony. Accompanying children really needs the mutual support of both parents.

Although both elderly people are alive and eager to take our baby, we unanimously decided to take our baby to kindergarten. So now I'm basically taking care of the baby at home full time, and my husband helps me change hands after work. Although busy as a bee, it is really a very happy thing to accompany her every day.

Secondly, the most important thing to accompany the baby is to respond to the baby in time, whether it is eyes or needs, as well as hugs. Small-month babies can't express themselves in words. Whether they are hungry, sleepy, urinating or sick, they only express themselves by crying. Mom and dad should carefully find out the reason why the child is crying and give the child a corresponding response in time. This can give children enough sense of security and self-confidence.

Third, because our family is not very lively and talkative, I am afraid that the baby will learn from adults and talk less in the future. I often take my baby around crowded places, feel the atmosphere, get to know some babies who are several months old, and let her get in touch with families and children with different personalities from childhood.

Ma Bao, a beginner, is exploring. Let's communicate with interested friends.

Taking care of a baby is like making a film full of exploration and novelty, with parents as the director and starring. Because small-month-old babies are full of curiosity and inquiry about everything, it is essential for parents to accompany them. In order to accompany them better, as parents, we should learn more knowledge, try to keep up with their growth and grow with them.

When the child was born, I found that my husband and I had not fully entered the role of parents, and everything was so at a loss.

Although I have seen the knowledge of proper care for newborns during pregnancy, they are all so-so. My husband is doing what he should do during the whole pregnancy, and even has little interaction with the fetus. The moment I got into the water, I felt that I could finally unload the goods and prepare to start a new life, but when I really got in touch with him, I was trapped. How to wear diapers? How to deal with the white secretion brought out of the uterus? How to breastfeed? How to prevent milk from overflowing? How to clean up that soft him? How to dress him? How to take a bath? He is so young, how can I help him do exhaustive exercise ... and just after giving birth, the old man told me to rest, and I slept when the baby slept, but I felt particularly excited and not sleepy at all. This state lasted for three days. After that, I have been living in anxiety. I often sleep soundly and wake myself up. I immediately got up to see where the baby was and whether he was crushed (due to conditions, I didn't prepare a crib for the baby. )

Tell me more about my husband. During his neonatal period, he never hugged his baby except the first day, because he was afraid to throw it away.

Therefore, before the baby is born, parents should learn to grow up, otherwise they don't know what to do at all. In this case, I can only ask my mother at any time if I have any questions. I was embarrassed because of the number of times, and then I worked hard to learn relevant nursing knowledge. Gradually, I entered the role.

The baby has different development every month. In order to explore him better, I changed from a person who doesn't like to keep a diary to a person who wants this thing every three days, recording the baby's first time, which is also my gift to him.

Every month, the baby will have different actions, from crying to laughing, babbling, knowing how to read minds … I feel like I'm exploring every day. After all, the knowledge in many books is dead, which can only provide us with a reference, so that we can clearly judge the baby's big motor development index at a certain stage. But the development speed of different babies is different. Because in the age of 6 months, I have to do baby care every month, and I will do some related tests every time I go to see a doctor. As parents, we will be happy if our baby meets the standard, and we will be cranky if it doesn't. But after having a baby, I found that it's not that the baby is stunted, but that each baby appears at a different time. Maybe he will get it suddenly when he just finished the exam, and some will get it in advance. Then when taking care of the baby, adults don't need to ask the baby to do this and that. We just need to know what the baby will do at each stage, how to guide the baby, and wait patiently for the sudden surprise.

As the baby grows up, our roles are constantly changing, becoming kitchen experts, craftsmen, security guards and super organizers. ...

The days of accompanying the baby make us both happy and sad. We need to keep learning, such as complementary food production, parent-child games, children's song performances, and identifying the safety of supplies. ...

Moreover, a mother with bad temper and poor self-control needs to learn emotional control and improve self-control and so on.

In order to better accompany your baby to grow up, according to the distance you accompany, give the following suggestions:

1. Learn related nursing knowledge, such as neonatal care, pediatric massage, encyclopedia of children's health, etc.

2. Analyze yourself and think about what changes you need to make. Because at the stage of baby's growth, you are the benchmark for baby's learning. The baby's imitation is super strong, and you can learn your every move in minutes. And with the growth of age, many times the baby is a "troublemaker", and minutes will make you on the verge of collapse.

Family harmony is an important cornerstone to promote the healthy development of babies. We should learn to get along with husband and wife and let our marriage go on healthily and happily.

For some people who take care of family and career, we also need to learn time management, efficient working methods, efficient and quality rest methods, etc. Ensure that we have a good body and good energy, so that we can take better care of the baby.

These are my personal views on baby care, hoping to help you.

Maybe it's the first time to be a parent, and I don't know how to get along with my baby, or even how to get started. I am curious about everything about them. Smiling can move you, crying can make you feel distressed. In fact, we can observe their every move, don't worry when something happens, let them feel warm and cold, and accompany them to re-understand the world.

Companionship is the best care for children. First, as long as the baby doesn't sleep, talk to him when he is awake. Show him the outside world and feel different people and things. Second, you must sleep with your father at night to give him a sense of security.

You can try the following methods to let parents grow up with their little baby.